UViktoria C.
Uyini umehluko phakathi kwe-egocentric ne-narcissistic? Uma uke wawadida la magama womabili noma wazithola ugigiyela ubuntu obunzima, ungakhathazeki, awuwedwa. Sekuyisikhathi sokuqeda lezi zindlela zokuziphatha futhi uqonde umehluko phakathi kokuzicabangela wena kanye ne-narcissism. Ngakho-ke, ingabe usukulungele ukucwila emhlabeni othakazelisayo wokusebenza kwengqondo yomuntu?
Ngokufigqiwe :
- I-Egocentrism ukuthambekela kokugxila kuwena.
- I-Narcissism wuthando lwe-pathological of self.
- I-egocentric ikhathalela kuphela isithombe sakhe, imibono nemibono yabanye, ngokuvamile ibalimaza.
- Umuntu ozicabangela yena yedwa uyazikhathalela yena kanye nezidingo zakhe, kuyilapho ubuntu be-narcissistic ikakhulukazi enesidingo sokunconywa noma ukulawulwa ukuze afakazele ubukhulu bakhe.
- Abantu abane-narcissistic personality disorder banombono oyihaba ngokubaluleka kwabo (megalomania) kanye nezinkinga zokuzethemba.
- Wonke ama-narcissists ayazicabangela wona, kodwa akubona bonke abantu abacabangela bona abangobani.
Uhlu lokuqukethwe
Ukuqonda i-Egocentrism kanye ne-Narcissism: Izincazelo kanye Nomehluko
Emphakathini wethu, amagama athi “ukuzicabangela wena” kanye “ne-narcissistic” avame ukusetshenziswa, kwesinye isikhathi ashintshana, ukuchaza ukuziphatha kokuzicabangela wena. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa le miqondo emibili ukuze uqonde kangcono izimo zengqondo kanye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuhlobene. I-Egocentrism isici sobuntu lapho umuntu ebona futhi ehumusha umhlaba ngokuyinhloko ngokombono wakhe, ngokuvamile okulimaza abanye. Ngokolunye uhlangothi, i-narcissism wuthando oludlulele nolwe-pathological ngawe, olungase lubonakale njenge-narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
I-Narcissism, ethatha igama layo enganekwaneni ye-Narcissus, ihlanganisa izinhlobonhlobo zokuziphatha lapho umuntu ethanda isithombe sakhe. Lokhu kuvame ukuphumela esidingweni sokuyenga nokukhwabanisa ukuze uthole ukunconywa nokuqinisekiswa. Ngokuphambene, nakuba i-egocentrism ingase futhi ihilele ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngesithombe somuntu siqu, akubandakanyi ezinye izici ze-narcissism, njengokukhohlisa noma ukuxhashazwa kwabanye.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi wonke ama-narcissists abhekwa njengabazicabangela bona, kodwa ukukhuluma akulona iqiniso. Umuntu angakwazi ukuzicabangela yena ngaphandle kokuveza izici ezikhohlisayo nezici ezifuna ukutuswa ze-narcissism. Lo mehluko ubalulekile ekuqondeni ama-nuances phakathi kwalezi zici ezimbili zobuntu kanye nokubhekana ngokufanele nokuziphatha okuhlobene.
Imithelela engokwengqondo nokuziphatha
Imithelela ye-narcissism kanye ne-egocentrism ibanzi futhi ithinta kakhulu ukusebenzelana komphakathi. THE narcissistic, evame ukubonwa njengokubukekayo ekuqaleni, ingaveza ngokushesha uhlangothi olumnyama. Usebenzisa imizwelo yabanye ngendlela ezuzisa yena, elawula izimo ukuze aqinisekise ukuthi imiphumela iba mihle kuye. Izibonelo zihlanganisa amasu okuqala okuyenga alandelwa ukuziphatha okugxile kakhulu ezidingweni zomuntu kanye nezifiso zakhe.
Ngokuphambene, iegocentric ingase ibonise ukuziphatha okubonakala kungavuthiwe noma okomntwana. Ukusebenzelana komuntu nezwe ngokuyinhloko kuhlungwa ngezidingo zakhe siqu nezifiso, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kwenhloso enonya yokukhohlisa abanye. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kungathathwa njengokungazweli noma kunqanyuliwe ezidingweni zabanye, njengoba i-egocentric inobunzima bokubona ngale kombono wabo.
Umthelela walezi zici ungabonakala ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu nobuchwephesha. Nakuba i-narcissist ingabangela umonakalo omkhulu ngokuziphatha okukhohlisayo nokuntuleka kozwela, i-egomaniac ingase ibonakale inobugovu noma unganakile. Ukuqonda lo mehluko kusiza ukuzulazula nokuphatha ubudlelwano nabantu abanalezi zimpawu.
Ukuxilongwa nokuphathwa kwezinkinga ze-narcissistic
Ukuxilongwa kwe-narcissistic personality disorder kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kufanele kwenziwe uchwepheshe wezempilo oqeqeshiwe. Ngokwezinqubo zokuxilonga, umuntu kufanele abonise okungenani izimpawu ezinhlanu eziqondile, njengemizwa yokukhulu, isidingo sokunconywa njalo, nokuntula uzwela, ukuze kutholakale ukuthi unalesi sifo.
Ukuphatha i-narcissism ngokuvamile kuhilela ukwelashwa, okungase kuhlanganise amasu okululeka ukusiza ukulinganisela isidingo sokuzanelisa kanye nokuthuthukisa ukuqonda okungcono kwabanye. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba ukwelashwa akuhlosile nje ukuthuthukisa inhlalakahle yomuntu ngamunye, kodwa futhi nokunciphisa imithelela engemihle yokuziphatha kwabo kulabo abamzungezile.
Sengiphetha, nakuba i-egocentrism kanye ne-narcissism kwabelana ngokufana okuthile, kwehluke ngezindlela eziningi, ikakhulukazi ngokwemithelela yazo yengqondo nokuphatha. Ukuqaphela nokuqonda lo mehluko kubalulekile ukuze kubhekwane ngendlela efanele nokuziphatha okuhlobene nokunikeza ukwesekwa okwanele kulabo abathintekile.
Uyini umehluko phakathi kwe-egocentric ne-narcissistic?
Ukuzicabangela wena kanye ne-narcissism yimibono emibili ehlukene. I-Egocentrism ibhekisela ekubukeni kwezwe okugxile kuwe, kuyilapho i-narcissism ihilela ukuzithanda ngokweqile, okungase kubonakale njenge-narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
Yiziphi izindlela zokuziphatha ezihlotshaniswa ne-egocentrism kanye ne-narcissism?
I-Egocentrism ihilela ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngesithombe somuntu siqu, kuyilapho i-narcissism ihlanganisa izinhlobonhlobo zokuziphatha lapho umuntu ethanda isithombe sakhe, ngokuvamile okuholela esidingweni sokuyenga nokukhohlisa ukuze azuze ukunconywa nokuqinisekiswa.
Ingabe wonke ama-narcisists ayazicabangela wona?
Yebo, wonke ama-narcisists abhekwa njengabazicabangela bona, kodwa ukukhuluma akulona iqiniso. Umuntu angakwazi ukuzicabangela yena ngaphandle kokuveza izici ezikhohlisayo nezici ezifuna ukutuswa ze-narcissism.
Iyini imithelela yengqondo neyokuziphatha ye-egocentrism kanye ne-narcissism?
Imithelela ye-narcissism kanye ne-egocentrism ibanzi futhi ithinta indlela abantu abasebenzisana ngayo nendawo yabo kanye nabanye. Ukuqonda lawa ma-nuances kubalulekile ukubhekana ngendlela efanele nokuziphatha okuhlotshaniswa nalezi zici zobuntu.
