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Yintoni umahluko phakathi kwe-egocentric kunye ne-narcissistic? Ukuba ukhe wawabhidanisa la magama mabini okanye wazifumana ujongana nobuntu obunzima, ungakhathazeki, awuwedwa. Lixesha lokuba ujonge ezi ndlela zokuziphatha kwaye uqonde ama-nuances phakathi kokuzimela kunye ne-narcissism. Ke, ngaba ukulungele ukuntywila kwihlabathi elinomdla lengqondo yomntu?
Isishwankathelo :
- I-Egocentrism lutyekelo lokugxila kwisiqu sakho.
- I-Narcissism luthando lwe-pathological of self.
- I-egocentric ikhathalela kuphela umfanekiso wakhe, iimbono kunye nezimvo zabanye, zihlala ziyingozi kubo.
- Umntu ozicingela yedwa uzikhathalele kunye neemfuno zakhe, ngelixa ubuntu be-narcissistic bufuna ukunconywa okanye ukulawulwa ukubonisa ubukhulu bakhe.
- Abantu abane-narcissistic personality disorder banombono ogqithisiweyo wokubaluleka kwabo (megalomania) kunye neengxaki zokuzithemba.
- Zonke iinarcissists ziyazicingela, kodwa ayingabo bonke abantu abacingela iziqu zabo.
Uluhlu lwangaphakathi
Ukuqonda i-Egocentrism kunye neNarcissism: Iinkcazo kunye noMahluko
Kuluntu lwethu, amagama athi "ukuzicingela" kunye "ne-narcissistic" asetyenziswa rhoqo, ngamanye amaxesha ngokutshintshana, ukuchaza ukuziphatha okuzicingelayo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukwahlula ezi ngcamango zimbini ukuze uqonde ngcono izimo zengqondo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuhambelanayo. I-Egocentrism luphawu lobuntu apho umntu ebona kwaye etolika ihlabathi ngokuyintloko ngokwembono yakhe, ngokufuthi oko kubenzakalisa abanye. Kwelinye icala, i-narcissism luthando olugqithisileyo kunye nolwe-pathological lwesiqu sakho, olunokuthi lubonakalise njenge-narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
I-Narcissism, ethatha igama layo kwintsomi yeNarcissus, ibandakanya uluhlu lweendlela zokuziphatha apho umntu ethanda umfanekiso wakhe. Oku kuhlala kubangela imfuno yokuhenda kunye nokukhohlisa ukuze ufumane ukunconywa kunye nokuqinisekiswa. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, nangona i-egocentrism inokubandakanya ukuzixakekisa ngokugqithisileyo ngomfanekiso wakho, ayiquki ngokuyimfuneko ezinye iinkalo ze-narcissism, ezifana nokukhohlisa okanye ukuxhaphaza abanye.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba zonke ii-narcisists zithathwa njengabazithandayo, kodwa i-converse ayiyonyani. Umntu unokuzicingela yedwa ngaphandle kokubonakalisa iimpawu ezikhohlisayo kunye neempawu zokufuna ukuncoma ze-narcissism. Lo mahluko ubalulekile ekuqondeni ama-nuances phakathi kwezi mpawu zimbini zobuntu kunye nokujongana ngokufanelekileyo nokuziphatha okuhambelanayo.
Iimpembelelo zengqondo kunye nokuziphatha
Iimpembelelo ze-narcissism kunye ne-egocentrism zibanzi kwaye zichaphazela kakhulu intsebenziswano yoluntu. THE narcissistic, edla ngokubonwa njengento enomtsalane ekuqaleni, inokutyhila ngokukhawuleza icala elimnyama. Usebenzisa iimvakalelo zabanye ukuze kulungelwe yena, elawula iimeko ukuze aqinisekise ukuba iziphumo ziyamkholisa. Imizekelo ibandakanya iindlela zokuqala zokulukuhla ezilandelwa ziindlela zokuziphatha ezigxile kakhulu kwiimfuno kunye neminqweno yomntu.
Ngokuchaseneyo, iegocentric inokubonisa indlela yokuziphatha ebonakala ngathi ayikhuli okanye ebuntwaneni. Ukusebenzisana komntu nehlabathi ngokuyintloko kuhluzwa ngeentswelo zakhe neminqweno yakhe, ngokufuthi ngaphandle kweenjongo ezingendawo zokukhohlisa abanye. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokubonwa njengokungabi naluvelwano okanye ukuqhawulwa kwiimfuno zabanye, njengoko i-egocentric inobunzima bokubona ngaphaya kwembono yabo.
Impembelelo yezi mpawu inokubonwa kubudlelwane bomntu kunye nobugcisa. Ngelixa i-narcissist inokubangela umonakalo omkhulu ngokuziphatha okukhohlisayo kunye nokungabikho kovelwano, i-egomaniac inokuvela ngokulula okanye ukungakhathaleli. Ukuqonda lo mahluko kunceda ukukhangela kunye nokulawula ubudlelwane nabantu abanazo ezi mpawu.
Ukuxilongwa kunye nokulawulwa kweengxaki ze-narcissistic
Ukuxilongwa kwe-narcissistic personality disorder kuyinkimbinkimbi kwaye kufuneka kwenziwe yingcali yezempilo eqeqeshiweyo. Ngokwendlela yokuxilonga, umntu kufuneka abonakalise ubuncinci iimpawu ezintlanu, ezinje ngeemvakalelo zobukhulu, imfuno yokunconywa rhoqo, kunye nokungabi naluvelwano, ukuze kufunyaniswe ukuba unale ngxaki.
Ukulawula i-narcissism kudla ngokubandakanya unyango, olunokubandakanya iindlela zokucebisa ukunceda ukumodareyitha imfuno yokwaneliseka kunye nokuphuhlisa ukuqonda okungcono kwabanye. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kuba unyango alujongi nje ekuphuculeni impilo-ntle yomntu, kodwa nokunciphisa iimpembelelo ezingalunganga zokuziphatha kwabo kwabo babangqongileyo.
Ukuqukumbela, nangona i-egocentrism kunye ne-narcissism yabelana ngokufana okuthile, zahluke ngeendlela ezininzi, ngakumbi ngokweempembelelo zabo ngokwasengqondweni kunye nolawulo. Ukuqaphela kunye nokuqonda oku mahluko kubalulekile ukujongana ngokufanelekileyo nokuziphatha okuhambelanayo kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso eyaneleyo kwabo bachaphazelekayo.
Yintoni umahluko phakathi kwe-egocentric kunye ne-narcissistic?
Ukuzicingela kunye ne-narcissism zizinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. I-Egocentrism ibhekisa kumbono wehlabathi wokuzingca, ngelixa i-narcissism ibandakanya ukuzithanda ngokugqithiseleyo, okunokuthi kubonakale njenge-narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
Zeziphi iindlela zokuziphatha ezinxulumene ne-egocentrism kunye ne-narcissism?
I-Egocentrism ibandakanya ukuzixakekisa ngokugqithisileyo ngomfanekiso wakho, ngelixa i-narcissism iquka uluhlu lweendlela zokuziphatha apho umntu ethanda imbonakalo yakhe, ehlala ikhokelela kwimfuno yokuhenda kunye nokukhohlisa ukuze azuze ukunconywa kunye nokuqinisekiswa.
Ngaba onke ama-narcisists ayazingca?
Ewe, onke ama-narcisists ajongwa njengabazingcayo, kodwa incoko ayinyani. Umntu unokuzicingela yedwa ngaphandle kokubonakalisa iimpawu ezikhohlisayo kunye neempawu zokufuna ukuncoma ze-narcissism.
Ziziphi iimpembelelo zengqondo kunye nokuziphatha kwe-egocentrism kunye ne-narcissism?
Iimpembelelo ze-narcissism kunye ne-egocentrism zibanzi kwaye zichaphazela indlela abantu abasebenzisana ngayo nokusingqongileyo kunye nabanye. Ukuqonda ezi nuances kubalulekile ukulungisa ngokufanelekileyo indlela yokuziphatha ehambelana nezi mpawu zobuntu.
