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NgoNovemba ophelileyo, uBritney Spears uye wafumana impumelelo eyimbali xa iJaji yeNkundla ePhakamileyo yaseLos Angeles uBrenda Penny wanyula ukubuphelisa ubugcisa bakhe. Emva kweminyaka yokusebenza nguSpears ngokwakhe, imiboniso yabalandeli bakhe bokuqina, icwecwe elibuhlungu La ENew York Timeskwaye, ekugqibeleni, ubungqina obubuhlungu bemvumi enkundleni, kwabonakala ngathi u-Spears wayiphumelela inkululeko yakhe ekugqibeleni.
Xa i-Spears yavela kwindawo yakhe yolondolozo, uluntu kunye namajelo eendaba asabela nge-avalanche ye-mea culpas. Uxwebhu olusemva kolu xwebhu ludiza indlela uxinzelelo olungapheliyo lobuchwephesha, oludityaniswe nenkcubeko ye-tabloid engenaluvelwano, ngokuthe ngcembe kodwa ngokucwangcisiweyo yawophula umoya wemvumi. Ababukeli babona ukunyibilika kuka-Spears esidlangalaleni ngo-2008 ngendlela entsha - hayi njengokusilela komntu ukugculelwa ngenkohlakalo, njengoko kwakunjalo ngelo xesha, kodwa njengokukhalela uncedo oluvela emntwini obexhatshazwe phantse ubomi bakhe bonke. kulonwabo lwethu.
Noko ke, kungekapheli nonyaka emva koko, loo nkohlakalo yakudala yayisele ibuyele kwintetho kaSpears. Cinga, umzekelo, incoko eye yavela emva kowayesakuba ngumyeni wakhe uKevin Federline "izityhilelo" ezifihlakeleyo ngaye.
NgoMvulo, i-ITV yaqala ukuhlekisa udliwanondlebe lwayo olunamacandelo amathathu kunye nowayesakuba nguMnu Spears. UFederline uthe ukholelwa ukuba ukugadwa 'kumsindise' owayesakuba ngumfazi wakhe, ngaphandle kwamabango ka-Spears athi wanyanzelwa kwiminyaka 'yonyango' kunye namagcisa angazange awakhethe (nto leyo ayilulo unyango kwaphela); ukuba amayeza akhe atshintshwa ngenkani 'njengesohlwayo' ngokurhoxisa kwakhe eLas Vegas ngabanegunya indawo yokuhlala nokuba amayeza akhe akhuselayo angamvumeli ukuba asuse i-IUD yakhe ukuze abe nomntwana. (Ibango lokugqibela lenza ukunyanzeliswa kokuzala, ngokutsho kukamongameli we-Planned Parenthood Federation of America u-Alexis McGill Johnson.)
Nangona kunjalo, uFederline wazingisa: “UJamie Spears uze kum wathi, kakhulu, andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni, ndifuna ukunceda,” uxelele ITV. “Ndabona indoda eyayiyikhathalele ngokwenene intsapho yayo neyayifuna ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle. (Ungaze ucinge ukuba uJamie Spears utyholwa ukuba uphila ngobutyebi bentombi yakhe iminyaka nangaphambi kokugcinwa kwayo, nto leyo eyathi yaphinda yahlutha imali yakhe ukuba ahlawule kungekuphela amagqwetha akhe, kodwa naye.)
Noko ke, eyona nto yayingacacanga yayisisigqibo sikaFederline sokuxoxa ngobudlelwane bukaSpears noonyana babo ababini, uSean noJayden, bobabini abasebatsha kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. UFederline ukhankanye ukuba iiposti ze-Instagram zika-Spears-apho ngamanye amaxesha ezenza ze, zihlolwe nge-emojis-zibahlaze oonyana babo.
“Ndiyaxolisa ngabo, ngabo, ngenxa yabo kuba andikwazi ukucinga ukuba kunjani ukuba ngumntu okwishumi elivisayo, kufuneka uye kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo,” utshilo uFederline. Ngubani owaziyo ukuba bangaphi abantu abababuza okanye babaxelele ngayo? … Ndizama ukubacacisela jonga, mhlawumbi [yenye] nje indlela azama ngayo ukuzivakalisa, kodwa loo nto ayisusi kwinto yokuba inzima into eyenzayo kubo.
Umyeni kaSpears, uSam Asghari, uphendule kwizimvo zikaFederline ngengxelo apho wathi, "Nangona kwakukho inyaniso yokuba abantwana bakhe babeneentloni ngokhetho lukanina kunye nomfanekiso omhle womzimba, abayi kuba ngabazali babo. waqala waba neentloni ulutsha. »
“Kwanokuba bekuyinyaniso ukuba abantwana bakhe baneentloni ngokhetho lukanina nembonakalo yakhe entle, bebengayi kuba ngabokuqala abafikisayo ukuba babe neentloni ngabazali babo. »
— USam Asghari
Emva koko kwafika amagqabaza aqhumayo: UFederline wakhankanya ukuba uSean noJayden "ababoni [Spears] okwangoku" kwaye hayi "iinyanga" ukusukela oko bawutsiba umtshato wakhe kweli hlobo. “Zininzi izinto ebezisenzeka ebebengaziva bekhululekile kuzo,” utshilo. “Baye baqinisekisa ukuba ndiyayazi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni…baqala ukundithumelela iividiyo kunye nezinto ezibonakala ngathi, mamelani ndinixelela ukuba kuyenzeka oku. »
Yintoni, kanye, "le" ehlala ingacacanga.
Kwingxelo ephelelwe lixesha ethunyelwe kwibali lakhe le-Instagram, u-Spears ubhale wathi, "Iyandikhathaza into yokuba umyeni wam owayesakuba ngumyeni uthathe isigqibo sokuxoxa ngobudlelwane phakathi kwam nabantwana bam ... Njengoko sonke sisazi, ukukhulisa ulutsha akukho lula nakubani na. . Oku kuyandikhathaza, isizathu sisekwe kwi-Instagram yam. KWAKUDE ngaphambi kwe-Instagram. Ndibanike yonke into… Igama elinye: UBUHLUNGU. Kwiposti yamva, uSpears wabiza oonyana bakhe "abadelekileyo" kwaye wathi abafuni ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye ngexesha lotyelelo lwabo.
Yiloo nto kuphela efunekayo ukuze uFederline agqithe. “Andikwazi ukuhlala phantsi ndivumele oonyana bam batyholwe ngolu hlobo emva kokuba bedlule kubo,” utshilo uFederline. (Kuyabonakala ukuba walibala ukuba yayiludliwano-ndlebe lwakhe ngabantwana babo olwabangela ukuba amagqabantshintshi ka-Spears.) "Ubuxoki kufuneka buyeke," kusho uFederline. “Ndiyathemba ukuba abantwana bethu baya kukhula babengcono kunoko. »
Ke ngoko, uFederline wabelane ngeevidiyo ezimbalwa ezinokuthi ziphazamise kwi-Instagram.
“Kuyandikhathaza ukufunda ukuba owayesakuba ngumyeni wam uye wagqiba ekubeni axoxe ngobudlelwane phakathi kwam nabantwana bam…Njengoko sonke sisazi, ukukhulisa abantwana abafikisayo akukho lula nakubani na. »
–Britney Spears
Iividiyo azivezi ncam IiWaltons amandla, kodwa zikude kakhulu. Mhlawumbi kweyona ndawo inomtsalane, omnye woonyana bemvumi ubonakala ekhalaza ngokuthathwa kwefowuni yakhe ngokungenasiphelo ngenxa yokungena kwivenkile ye-ayisikrimu eAlaska. Lo mzuzu wakhawuleza wandikhumbuza umzuzu ngaphambi kokuba u-Spears aqhawuke, xa i-tabloid saga yajikeleza iifoto zakhe ehamba enganxibanga zihlangu kwindlu yangasese kawonke-wonke. I-anecdote idlalwe kwingxelo yemithombo yeendaba esele igxininisekile yokuba uSpears, owayekhe walibali lethu esilithandayo lokufumana ubutyebi, ngoku wayengenakuhlawuleka "inkunkuma emhlophe."
UFederline uzisusile iividiyo. Igqwetha likaSpears, uMathew Rosengart, ukhuphe ingxelo egameni lomthengi wakhe.
“UBritney ebengumxhasi othembekileyo wabantwana bakhe kwaye ubathanda kakhulu,” ifundeka le ngxelo ngokuyinxenye. "Enoba uyayiqonda okanye akayiqondi, uMnumzana Federline akazange aphule nje ubumfihlo kunye nesidima sikamama wabantwana bakhe, waxhaphaza abantwana bakhe, abamele bakhusele ubumfihlo babo. »
URosengart wongeze wathi: “Ukubeka ecaleni udliwanondlebe lwakhe lwe-ITV, isigqibo esiphosakeleyo sikaMnu Federline sokuthumela ividiyo endala yabantwana bakhe abaneminyaka eli-11 neli-12 ubudala sasikhohlakele, ezantsi komphanda. Yayinentiyo. Kunye nokuzijongela phantsi kunye nokwaphula izithethe zoluntu, ikwazidalele imiba eyahlukeneyo yezomthetho, kubandakanywa kodwa ingaphelelanga kwintsingiselo yemithetho ye-cyberstalking kunye ne-cyberbullying, phakathi kwezinye.
Eyona nto ibambekayo, nangona kunjalo, yindlela ngokulula uFederline wasigxotha ngayo sonke ukubuyela ngo-2009, xa amapolisa ka-Spears ayeyeyona nto ixhalabisayo kumajelo olonwabo.
U-Kevin Federline ubhiyozela usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa kwi-Crazy Horse III Gentlemen's Club ngo-Matshi 24, 2018 eLas Vegas, Nevada.
UBryan Steffy/Getty
Kunzima ukucinga ukuba yeyiphi inkuthazo eyakhayo uFederline kunye nosapho lwakhe anokuba babenayo ngokwabelana ngaloo maxesha. Ukuba ixhala lihlazo likaSean noJayden, ukuthumela ezi vidiyo - nokuba, njengoko uFederline ebonakala ebanga, ngemvume yabantwana - kuya kwandisa ukuphononongwa kosapho kwaye kuthobise wonke umntu. Kwaye ukuba inkxalabo sizakhono Spears 'umzali ... Ndiya kuthetha, ngaba nabani na ngokwenene ukukholelwa ukuba cette hamba uncedo?
Udliwanondlebe ne-ITV uDaphne Barak okwangoku uthe inxalenye yodliwanondlebe lukaFederline ayizukuboniswa ngokupheleleyo kuba "ibuhlungu kakhulu".
UBharak uthe ibali le-ITV, elibonakala ligxile kwi-Federline kodwa kuthiwa libandakanya amanye amalungu osapho, limalunga "nobawo kwiliso lesiphango".
“Libali elimalunga notata kunye namakhwenkwe kunye nendlela akwazi ngayo ukubahlanganisa ngokuchasene nayo yonke le drama iqhubekayo neqhubekayo njengoko ubona nge-Instagram. Ngoko ngokusisiseko akuyena uKevin ngokumelene noBritney, kwakungekho malunga naye, yayimalunga noyise kwaye yonke intsapho yayiyifuna.
Ngandlela thile, ndicinga ukuba "usapho lonke" alubandakanyi i-Spears-esona sizathu sokuba ababukeli balazi igama lomnye wezifundo zakhe kwasekuqaleni. (Akukho tyala kumsebenzi omfutshane we-rap kaFederline.)
Ngeli xesha, usapho lukaSpears kunye nonxibelelwano lwangaphambili - uninzi lwabo ekukholelwa ukuba babandakanyeka ekuthotyweni kwakhe - bayaqhubeka nokufumana amaqonga eendaba ukubalisa ibali lakhe ngaphambi kokuba afumane ithuba lokuyenza ngokwakhe. . Masingalibali ukuba udadewabo omncinci, uJamie Lynn, sele ebhale inkumbulo evezayo. Kwanamanye amaxwebhu afanele ukukhusela imvumi, njengaleyo yeNetflix UBritney vs. Spears, ithatha imithombo efana negqwetha eliye lanceda ukususa uSean noJayden kugcino lukaSpears. Ukungabikho kwelizwi le-Spears, kwaye ngakumbi sithathela ingqalelo yonke into esiyaziyo malunga nendlela iimvumi ethe yathuliswa ngayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, olu khetho lubonakala lungaphaya kokuphandle; abakhathali, bakhohlakele.
Kwaye akubonakali ngathi yinto nje eyenzekileyo ukuba ukugxekwa okuninzi okujikeleze uSpears, ukusuka kubunqunu bakhe basesidlangalaleni ukuya kwisityholo sokuqina kwakhe njengomama, sisini ngokukodwa. Idabi lika-Spears lokulwela ugcino-ndalo, ngoko nangoku, ngumba wamalungelo okhubazeko kunye nomboniso owothusayo wokungahloneli bafazi. Le IUD igcinwe ngenkani, njengedabi eligcinayo elichasene nokuqhomfa kunye nembali yokunyanzelwa inzala kwabasetyhini bemibala, yayilinge lokujongela phantsi ukuzimela kowasetyhini ngokulawula into anokuyenza ngomzimba wakhe.
UFederline ngekhe akhethe elona xesha lingcono lokuhlazisa iSpears esidlangalaleni kwakhona. Kwanasemva kwamaxwebhu amasikizi angavalwanga avela kwisimangalo sika-Amber Heard-Johnny Depp, uDior usayine isivumelwano samanani asixhenxe kunye neDepp ukwazisa icologne yayo, iSauvage. Kwaye uBrian Warner, owaziwa ngokuba nguMarilyn Manson, wamangalela uEvan Rachel Wood ngokunyelisa emva kobungqina bakhe obunamandla malunga nesityholo sakhe sokuxhatshazwa..
Ezi meko azifani, kodwa zabelana ngezinto eziguqukayo: abafazi abathetha phandle ngesityholo sabo soxhatshazo bahlala bejongene nempindezelo. Kwimeko ka-Spears, iintlungu zongezwa libali: Le ndlela yokuziphatha evela ku-Federline kunye nabagxeki be-intanethi yinto entle ukuphinda kuhlaziywe ukuxhatshazwa imvumi ejongene nayo njengomama omncinci kwindawo ebonakalayo. .
Incoko engapheliyo kunye ne-psychoanalysis ye-armchair ejikeleze i-Spears ngokucacileyo ayenzelwanga ukunceda isithixo esibuyayo sibe ngumzali "ongcono", kodwa ukonwabisa abaphulaphuli abangakhathaliyo kwaye batyebise wonke umntu okwindlela yakhe - nabani na onentlebendwane yokwabelana ngeminye imizuzu eli-15. kumabonakude. Kanye njengokuba abalandeli be-Spears bacetyisayo kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo xa uFederline wayezama ukubhangisa iintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana bakwa-Spears ukuya kuthi ga kwi-60 yeedola ngenyanga (kwi-000 yeedola awayesele eyiqokelele), kubonakala ngathi ngoku isenokuba lixesha lokuba i-K-Fed "Fumana". umsebenzi wokwenene." »
SOURCE: Uphonononga Iindaba
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