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Ngentseni yangoLwesine, imvumi uMichelle Branch ubhale kuTwitter ukuba ubhaqe umyeni wakhe weminyaka emithathu, imvumi uPatrick Carney, enabantwana ababini abancinci, wamqhatha nomphathi wakhe ngelixa uBranch esekhaya nesi sibini. umntwana omncinane, 6 iinyanga ubudala. Umfazi ogama linguGatsha kwi-tweet ngokukhawuleza wathatha i-media media yakhe yangasese. Isebe alizange lenze njalo, kodwa liyicimile i-tweet.
NgoLwesihlanu, iSebe lafaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato kuCarney. Kungekudala emva koko, kwatyhilwa ukuba iSebe liye lavalelwa ngoLwesine ekuseni emva kokuba umthetho ubizelwe kwikhaya lesi sibini saseNashville ukuze kubekho ukuphazamiseka kwasekhaya.
Iyabhidisa kwaye iphuhlisa, kodwa ezi ziganeko zinokuzisa ingqwalasela engaphezulu kwisihloko esibalulekileyo, esithi, ngenxa yolingo lukaJohnny Depp kunye no-Amber Heard, lubonakala lusanda kwiindaba: ubundlobongela beqabane kunye nokulawula okusondeleyo.
Kwingxelo yoqhawulo-mtshato, iSebe lakhankanya “iyantlukwano engenakulungiseka.” Umtshato kuCarney wawungowesibini. Isebe lalisele litshate ngaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi noTeddy Landau, owayengumdlali webhendi yakhe ngelo xesha. Batshata xa wayeneminyaka engama-21 kwaye yena wayeneminyaka engama-40, kwaye unentombi eneminyaka eli-17 ubudala kunye. Lo yayingumtshato wesithathu kaCarney, etshatile ukusuka kwi-2007 ukuya kwi-2009 kuDenise Grollmus kwaye ukusuka kwi-2012 ukuya kwi-2016 ukuya ku-Emily Ward.
Abantu abaninzi baguqule izihloko zengoma zakhe zaba ngamagqabantshintshi, ngakumbi "Usale kakuhle kuwe." Abanye benza iziqhulo ezibhidanisa iSebe nemvumi uVanessa Carlton.
Isebe kunye noCarney, ongumvelisi kunye nomdlali we-drum we-Black Keys, badibana kwitheko le-Grammy ngo-2015. Uqhawulo-mtshato lwakhe e-Landau lwaqukunjelwa ekupheleni kwaloo nyaka, njengoko uCarney wayekunye neWadi kunyaka ongaphambili emva kwexesha. Kumajelo onxibelelwano emva kweendaba zoqhawulo-mtshato lweSebe, abagqabaza bakhawuleza batyhola ngokungathembeki kwangaphambili. Kwisincoko seSalon sika-2011, umbhali uGrollmus watyhola ukuba uCarney akazange athembeke kuye.
Umculi-umbhali weengoma uMichelle Branch edlala kwikonsathi ngexesha "The Hopeless Romantic Tour" e-Emo's ngoJulayi 30, 2017 eAustin, eTexas. (Rick Kern/WireImage/Getty Images)Akuzange kube kudala ngaphambi kokuba i-Intanethi ihlangane ngokuyintloko malunga neSebe, i-Grammy Award ophumelele i-hits efana ne "Yonke indawo" kunye "Nokonwaba Ngoku," owavuka waduma ngelixa wayekwishumi elivisayo. UIzebhele wabhala wathi: “Ndiyathemba ukuba iSebe liza kuqhubeka. Abantu abaninzi baguqule izihloko zengoma zakhe zaba ngamagqabantshintshi, ngakumbi "Usale kakuhle kuwe." Abanye kumakhasi onxibelelwano benza iziqhulo ezibhidanisa uBranch nemvumi uVanessa Carlton; bobabini baneenwele ezimnyama kwaye bafumana ukuthandwa kobugcisa njengabasetyhini abancinci kwi-2000s yokuqala.
Eli sebe lavalwa xa amapolisa eza kulibona, yaye indlu kaCarney ayizange ithintele inkxaso ye-Intanethi. Njengoko uVulture nabanye baye babika, ukubanjwa kweSebe kwakungenxa yetyala elingafanelekanga lokubetha ekhaya. I-TMZ ibike amaxwebhu enkundla apho "iSebe livumile ukuba libethe uCarney 'kanye okanye kabini' kwaye uCarney akazange afumane ukulimala okubonakalayo." » Isebe lakhululwa emva kokuthumela ibheyile ye-$1. UVulture uchaze ukukhululwa kwakhe kwangoko kwinxalenye yokukwazi ukuncancisa usana oluncancisayo lwesi sibini, ogama lingumakhulu kaCarney.
I-Los Angeles Times kunye nabanye baye baphawula kwifoto yamapolisa yeSebe, apho uphawu olubomvu lubonakala phantsi kwamehlo akhe, kodwa iSebe line-birthmark ye-wine stain yokuzalwa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ukhetha ukuyigubungela nge-makeup.
Abanye abalandeli babona izityholo zempama njengohlobo lokukhala, ukuthethelelwa kokungcatshwa okunzulu. Enye ingxabano yeyokuba ubundlobongela bubundlobongela, kwaye ngenxa yoko, bungamkelekanga. Abanye babexubusha ngogonyamelo olubangelwa kukucatshukiswa ixesha elide okanye ukusongelwa. Eli gama lalingumxholo odumileyo wengxoxo ngexesha letyala le-Depp kunye ne-Heard. Kunjengokuba uGqr. Jordan Schaul watshoyo kudliwano-ndlebe neThe Daily Dot: “Abaxhaphazi basekhaya nabanye abenzi bobubi basenokuthi ngabom baphembelele amaxhoba kunye nezinto ekujoliswe kuzo ukuze bawajongele phantsi baze bathethelele indlela abaziphatha ngayo. »
“Sibona umntu omnye engumqali kunye nomntu ophendulayo. »
Elinye igama ekwathiwa ngalo ngexesha lokuchotshelwa kwetyala likaDepp noHeard “yayikukusebenzisana kakubi”. Ugqirha wezengqondo weklinikhi owanikezela iingcebiso kwizibini ezitshatileyo kuDepp noHeard ngo-2015 batyhola ukuba oku kuguquguquka kwabo. Isazi ngengqondo uLaurel Anderson, njengoko kuxelwe nguSalon, wangqina enkundleni ukuba uDepp wathi uHeard "unike yonke into awayenayo." Kodwa enye ingcaphephe ekubanjwe udliwano-ndlebe nayo yi-Salon yathi iingcali zonyango ngokubanzi aziboni ubundlobongela phakathi kwamaqabane. "Sibona umntu omnye engumqalisi kunye nomntu omnye ophendulayo," uDkt. Kathy Nickerson, isazi sengqondo seklinikhi enelayisensi, utshele iSalon. “Kukho umahluko phakathi kokuziphatha okuyingozi nokuxhatshazwa. »
Impatho-gadalala inokuba ngeendlela ezininzi, kuquka nempatho eqhubekayo yokukhohlisa, ukulawula, okanye ukukhanyela inyaniso yomnye umntu. Ukungathembeki kusenokunxulunyaniswa nokuxhatshazwa, njengoko uGqr. Robert Weiss ebhala kwi<em>Psychology Today: “apho amadoda namabhinqa akrexezayo maxa wambi abe lixhoba aze axhaphaze amaqabane awo angcatshiweyo—ngokuqhelekileyo njengenxalenye yokuzithethelela okanye ukuyifihla indlela aziphatha ngayo.” Ukongeza kwizisongelo, ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo, okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo, u-Weiss ukhankanya ukungahoywa njengendlela yokuxhatshazwa, apho iqabane elixhaphazayo lisilela “ukubamba uxanduva” okanye “ukulahla ngokweemvakalelo iqabane kunye/okanye abantwana.” abantwana “.
Kwangaxeshanye, amabhinqa asenokuba ngabaxhaphazi, yaye amadoda anokuhlaselwa yaye ahlaselwe, kuquka namaqabane asenyongweni angamabhinqa. Ngokutsho kweNational Coalition of Domestic Violence, indoda enye kwa-1 iphathwa ngogonyamelo lwasekhaya, xa kuthelekiswa nebhinqa elinye kwamane kwamane, kodwa indoda enye kwamane ixhatshazwa “ngohlobo oluthile logonyamelo oluvela kwiqabane elisondeleleneyo,” xa kuthelekiswa nebhinqa elinye. 9. . “Oku kuquka iindlela zokuziphatha (umzekelo, ukuqhwaba, ukutyhala, ukutyhala) kwaye, kwezinye iimeko, kunokungagqalwa ‘njengogonyamelo lwasekhaya’. »
Ngaba uyafuna ukuphononongwa kwemihla ngemihla kuzo zonke iindaba kunye nophononongo olunokunikezelwa yiSalon? Bhalisela incwadana yethu yasekuseni, iCrash Course.
Kunjengokuba umbhali uShannon Ashley ebhala ngeSebe noCarney: “Indlela inkcubeko yethu ekhula ngayo ixhomekeke kwindlela esisabela ngayo ngokudibeneyo ngalo mzuzu. Ukuhleka, ukugculela, kunye nokungakhathali oko kwenzekileyo kuya kusenza siqhubeke sijongana nokuxhatshazwa kwixesha elizayo ngeendlela ezingathandekiyo nezingalinganiyo. ngokuphandle, ukuqonda izinto ezintsonkothileyo kunye nama-nuances - oku kuya kusinceda ukuba siqhubele phambili kwaye sitshintshe ikhondo. »
Ukuba ulingo lukaJohnny Depp kunye no-Amber Heard lusifundise nantoni na, kukuba abantu abaninzi banobunzima be-nuance. Isiganeko seSebe kunye neCarney mhlawumbi ngomnye umzekelo weengxaki zobundlobongela basekhaya kunye nesidingo sokuqaphela impembelelo yayo engapheliyo.
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