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Umfanekiso-Mzobo: I-Strategist. Ifoto: Joe Scarnici/Getty Imifanekiso
Ukuba kukho into efana nathi, mhlawumbi ukhe wazibuza ukuba yintoni abantu abadumileyo bongeza kwiinqwelo zabo zokuthenga. Hayi ibrooch ye-JAR kunye nesitulo sikaLouis XV kodwa Ukutshiza iinwele et le ibrashi yamazinyo yombane. Sibuze imvumi uSharon Van Etten – odlala iCentral Park’s SummerStage kule mpelaveki no-Angel Olsen noJulien Baker – malunga nepensile ayisebenzisayo ukubhala amazwi eengoma, iibhutsi zakhe ezingakhenkethi kunye nependanti yobhedu ayinike bonke abahlobo bakhe abasenyongweni.
Enye yeevenkile zam zekofu endizithandayo eLos Angeles ibizwa ngokuba yiLittle Ripper. Ndandihlala ndihamba apho yonke imihla phambi kokuba ndiqalise ukufota kwakhona, kwaye bahlala beneeseramikhi ezimangalisayo kunye namakhandlela kunye nedayi kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Kwaye babenayo le thermos intle ngokwenene. Ndiyathanda ukuba kukho iindawo ezimbini ezahlukeneyo kwisiciko, ukuze ukwazi ukususa indawo ephezulu yokusela, kwaye umphezulu uphelele, ukhangeleka njengekomityi. Ke ngoko ungawonwabela umphunga weti okanye wekofu, kwaye uwucoce ngokulula ngakumbi. Luyilo nje oluhle, kwaye banemibala eyahlukahlukeneyo. Eyam sisilumko esimdaka-luhlaza. Ndafunda ukuba kulungile ukuba nebhotile yamanzi kunye ne-thermos xa ukhenketha, kuba uhamba kakhulu kwaye uyafunxa ukuba ekugqibeleni ube nekofu yakho kwiveni okanye kwenye kwaye kuyabanda.
Ndisanda kunyuselwa kule ndisuka eJansport. Yilaphu elimnyama elineempawu zesikhumba, kwaye kwicala ngalinye kukho indawo yokubeka i-thermos okanye ibhotile yamanzi. Ukuba ungumama omtsha, ungafumana ubisi olungumgubo ngokulula. Okanye ukuba uya elunxwemeni, iibhiya ezimbalwa okanye ibhotile yewayini. Kukho iipokotho zangaphambili zokufikelela ngokulula kwizinto ezincinci, kukho ipokotho ephambili yeelaptops kunye nee-headphones, kwaye kukho ipokotho yangasemva yelaptop yakho. Kwaye incinci kuneJansport yam, ngoko andiziva ngathi ndingumntu omtsha obetha wonke umntu entloko.
Oku kunconyelwe kum ngumhlobo wam uStella Mozgowa waseWar Paint, owayedlala amagubu kwirekhodi lam lokugqibela, Ndifowunele ngomso. Ndabalekela kuye esitratweni kwindawo ethile, kwaye ndandiza kudlala umboniso eJoshua Tree. Uthe kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba uyazama iJoshua Tree Coffee – kwaye kufuneka ibeyiBlakfesi Bliss yasekuseni kuba yeyona kofu ibalaseleyo kwihlabathi liphela. Ndenjenjalo. I-Oslo yayiyeyona nto ndiyithandayo xa ndihlala eNew York, kodwa ngoku ndiseLos Angeles, bendisela uJoshua Tree Coffee, kwaye imnandi kakhulu.
Ngeentsuku zam zeCraigslist, indawo yam yokuqala yayiyindawo engacwangciswanga enabafana ababini endandingabazi ngokwenene. Emva koko omnye wabafana waphuma waza omnye wandivumela ukuba ndenze udliwano-ndlebe. Ngoko ndabathumela bonke aba bantu, yaye ngoku uSara umhlobo wam waba ngowokuqala ukuza. Ebemhle nyani: ungumjamani kwaye ungumbhaki. Wonke umntu wayekhuphisana kwaye engaqhelekanga, kodwa wavele wandithibela inqaku waza wathi “Enkosi” wahamba. Siye sagqiba sahlala sobabini qha. Isimbo sakhe sihle kwaye sincinci, iziqwenga zemyuziyam ezintle ngokwenene. Andingomntu onesitayile. Ngelo xesha, ndandingenayo kwanto, ibrashi yamazinyo okanye enye into. Kwaye ngenye imini ndambuza ukuba yiperfume enjani le ayinxibileyo ngoba intle kakhulu, wayeswiti nyani ephantse waxakwa nokundibonisa le sepha. Ngoku, yenye yezo zinto zenkumbulo. Ndibuyela ngelo xesha xa ndandiselapho ndaza ndenza umhlobo wam wokuqala omdala eNew York. Ndiyiphatha yonke indawo nam. USarah usahlala eNew York, kwaye ungumama njengam. Kwaye usanda kuvula ibha yakhe yokuqala, uRita & Maria, eBed-Stuy. Ndimchulumancile kakhulu.
Ndikhumbula ixesha lokuqala endazibona kumhlobo wam uJulie osuka eGreat Lake Swimmers, endandikukhenketho kunye naye. Ndandineebhutsi zentambo ngelo xesha, yaye wayekwazi ukuzikhulula emnyango wangena. Zikhangeleka zipholile ngokwenene – zilula kakhulu kwaye zomelele – kwaye kulula ukuzinxiba nokuzikhulula kuhle xa uhamba. Njengomama, le yeyona nto ilula ukuyinxiba xa ndigxotha umntwana wam ekhaya. Okanye xa usendleleni kwaye uhamba ngokhuseleko. Bakulungele ukuhamba okanye xa bephethe izixhobo; iinzwane zakho azityhilekanga. Kwaye bahamba nayo yonke into. Xa sasikhenketha eOstreliya ngo-2019, uphawu lwasipha iqela lam iBlundstones. Bayinkampani entle kwaye ndicinga ukuba benza imveliso esemgangathweni. Ayisiyonto intle, kodwa ihlala ngonaphakade. Njengomhambi kunye nomntu osebenzayo, ndiyabathanda kwaye ndinxibe yonke imihla.
Umhlobo wam uJohnny Irion, oneqela lomculo elibizwa ngokuba yi-US Elevators, wandazisa kuBlackwing. Wandinika incwadi yokubhalela kunye nepensile kukhenketho lwam lokuqala. Ebeyi nanny yomntanam xa sisendleleni. Xa ungumbhali, kuhle ukuba nepensile esemgangathweni kunye nencwadi yamanqaku kuba uyayifuna ukuva kuhle ukubhala. Kufana nokwenza umthambo. Ukuba awunayo i-sneaker efanelekileyo, uya kuyithiya kwaye awuyi kujonga phambili kuyo. Nditsho nokulola ipensile kuvakala kumnandi. Ababhali abaninzi abadumileyo bexesha le-Beat basebenzisa i-Blackwings (naye uJohn Steinbeck), kwaye ngoku bazama ukuhlaziya kunye nokudibanisa nabaculi abatsha. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndandibhala ingoma yam ethi "Darkish" xa ndisebenzisa le ncwadana. Ndikhumbula ukuba ndandisiva iintaka zintyiloza eBrooklyn, kwaye xa ndibeka ifowuni yam phantsi ukurekhoda idemo, iintaka zacholwa ngakumbi kum. iPhone kunamazwi, ngoko ke kwafuneka ukuba ndiyalele ekurekhodeni oko bendikuthetha. Ndiye ndahlala phantsi ndabhala ingoma kunye namazwi ngexesha elinye.
Le yibhegi endinayo ngoku, kodwa ayisazenzi imodeli ethile. Ndibe nayo ukusukela ngo-2012 okanye enye into. Kwaye ungaxela. Bendisenza intengiso yobuxoki iTikTok okwethutyana, ndiphethe le bag. Ndajonga ikhamera ndathi, "Uneminyaka engaphezu kweshumi ubudala, ungatsho?" nasemva ubuva umlingane wam esithi "Ewe." Yenziwe ngelaphu elenziwe wax kwaye inomtya wesikhumba kunye neziphu yobhedu kunye neepokotho ezimbini zangaphambili kunye neepokotho ezincinci ezintathu zangaphakathi. Kwaye ndiyisebenzisa njengohlobo lwebhegi phakathi kwesipaji kunye netoti. Ubhaka wenzelwe uhlobo olwahlukileyo lomsebenzi, kwiihambo ezinkulu. Kukuya epakini nomntwanam, siyothenga. Lo mfazi wayenedokodo kumnyhadala eKhanada, kwaye ndalithenga ngaphambi kokuba ndingene eqongeni. Kuyahlekisa kuba ndingakwazi ukufunda ileyibhile ngaphakathi, kodwa kuye kwafuneka ndiyibhale phantsi kuba ndandisazi ukuba igama lenkampani liza kuphelelwa kwaye ndifuna ukuthenga enye. Ndidinga iiBlundstones ezintsha kunye nentsha kwezi. Ndithwala izinto – xa ndinayo, ndilindele ukuba iqhawuke.
Enye into endiyinxiba ngalo lonke ixesha yile necklace yesitshixo sobhedu. I-Merewif yenza imizobo entle kakhulu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ihlekisayo. Ngandlel’ ithile baye baba ngamatyathanga obuhlobo bam. Ndizinike onke amanenekazi – kuquka nomhlobo wam uSarah, owandibonisa isepha – owaya kwitheko lam le-bachelorette ngoFebruwari 2020. Bekufanele nditshate ngoMeyi 2020, andikatshati okwangoku, kodwa nditshatile. ndimane ndimbiza ngomyeni wam ngamanye amaxesha. Nabani na osalindileyo oze kwitheko lam le-bachelorette, ndiyathembisa ukuba ibingeloqhinga.
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