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I-Anatomy yeScandal (efumaneka nge-15 ka-Epreli kwi-Netflix) ikhupha idrama yasenkundleni ebhenca amahlazo obuqu kunye nezopolitiko zabantu abaphezulu baseBritane. Isibini esitshatileyo uJames (uRupert Friend) kunye noSophie Whitehouse (uSienna Miller) baqale baphila ubomi obungakhathali. Umsebenzi kaJames uyakhula – unesikhundla somphathiswa ePalamente kunye nosapho olunothando ekhaya. Kodwa emva koko i- #MeToo scandal isongela ukutshabalalisa yonke into. USienna Miller uthetha ngayo kudliwano-ndlebe.
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"I-Anatomy yeScandal" imalunga nemeko ye-#MeToo. Udlala njengoSophie Whitehouse, inkosikazi yomphathiswa otyholwa ngokudlwengulwa ngomnye wabasebenzi bakhe emva kokuthandana. Nangona kunjalo, uSophie usamxhasa. Uzimise njani?
Intsonkothile. Ekuqaleni, uSophie uqinisekile ukuba umsulwa. Akakwazi ukucinga indoda awabelana nayo ngobomi bakhe ukususela ekholejini ukuba ikwazi ukwenza into enje. Ndiyayiqonda indlela awasabela ngayo uSophie. Eyona nto imnandi ngalo mboniso kukuba ubonisa indlela uSophie atshintsha ngayo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Umntu anguye ekuqaleni wahluke kakhulu kumntu anguye ekugqibeleni. Yinkqubo yophuhliso ohamba ngayo nomlinganiswa. Engazi naziphi na izityhilelo, uhlala othukile kwaye uqala ukuthandabuza kungekuphela nje umtshato wakhe kodwa kunye nokubandakanyeka kwakhe.
"I-Anatomy yeScandal" kwiNetflix: isibini esitshatileyo uJames (uRupert Friend) kunye noSophie Whitehouse (Sienna Miller).
© Umthombo: Ana Christina Blumenkron/Netflix
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Umhlobo kaSophie umxelela ukuba uxolele kakhulu. Ngaba ukulungele ukuxolela?
Kuxhomekeke kwiimeko. USophie unikezele ubomi bakhe ukuba abe ngumfazi wakhe kunye nomama wabantwana babo. Ngaphambili babenomtshato owonwabileyo ephepheni. Ingqondo yakhe yokuqala ngumama: ndilugcina njani usapho lwam kunye? Ndibakhusela njani abantwana bam? Ndifumanisa ukuba ubona ukukopa njengohlobo oluthile lwempazamo yobudenge. Ucinga: sizowulungisa umtshato wethu kamva, ngoku ubalulekile emsebenzini wakhe nasebantwaneni ucace gca umcimbi. Ndikwalungile nokuxolela. Kodwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo kuSophie.
Nawe ungumama wentombi. Ngaba uyayiqonda into yokuba olu manyano losapho sesinye sezizathu zokuba uSophie axolelwe?
Ewe, ndicinga ukuba abantwana bakhe bayinxalenye enkulu yomnqweno wakhe wokuxolela. Xa ungumzali, udla ngokucingela iimvakalelo zabanye abantu. Xa ndandidlala uSophie, ndandicinga ukuba eso sisizathu sezenzo zakhe. Wayebuhlungu kakhulu, kodwa uyazifihla. Isenokuba yinto enqabileyo yesiNgesi ayigcinele iimvakalelo zakhe. Akuyomfuneko ukuba ndibe nalo njengomntu, kodwa ndifumanise ukuba kunomdla ukudlala.
Ngoko awufuni kuzifihla iimvakalelo zakho?
Funda ngakumbi emva kwesibhengezo
Funda ngakumbi emva kwesibhengezo
Kufuneka ndifunde ukuzifihla ngcono iimvakalelo zam. Iyandoyikisa ke le. (ehleka) Kodwa ufunda izinto nabantu odlala nabo. USophie ugcina izinto kuye ngakumbi. Njengomdlali weqonga, kwakunzima ukubonisa oko. Ngaphandle kufana nedada echibini, kodwa ngaphantsi kwamanzi iinyawo zihlala zibetha. uyidlala njani lonto? Unobuntu obuphumayo obuqala ukuwohloka ngokuhamba kwexesha. Inika umdla.
Kumcimbi we-Me-Too, kuninzi malunga nomda phakathi kwemvumelwano kunye nokuxhatshazwa, ngakumbi njengoko umphathiswa kunye nomncedisi wakhe sele benobudlelwane obuvumelanayo. Ngaba ukhe waba kwiimeko emsebenzini wakho apho lo mgca wawungacacanga?
Hayi, ngethamsanqa akunjalo. Ndiyazi ukuba kunqabile, kodwa khange ndibe namava nam. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndiye ndanamava ebomini bam aye andenza ndingakhululekanga, kodwa akunjalo. USophie uthetha isivakalisi endasifumanisa sibangel’ umdla: “Ngamanye amaxesha kwakuba lula ukuvuma. Ndikhumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kwakubaluleke ngakumbi, yayikukugcina i-ego yendoda kuneemvakalelo zayo. Xa umntu wayendincwasa ndisengumntwana, ndandingenalo ulwimi lokuthi hayi. Ndifumanise ukuba inika umdla into yokuba uSophie aqonde ukuba imbono yakhe ngehlabathi yeyokuvelisa kwaye wafunda ukuyijonga ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Ngaba nawe uyawubona umahluko kubazali bakho xa kufikwa kulo mbono?
Ngokuqinisekileyo. Nam ndiyawubona umahluko phakathi kwam nentombi yam. Nantso ubuhle bendaleko. Kuhle ukuba ndikhulise umntwana oyintombazana ngelixesha ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini kukwi-ajenda. Ndiziva ndomelezwa yile ntshukumo. Namhlanje, andizimisele kangako ukunyamezela iimeko ezingathandekiyo. Ndikhulisa umntwana oneli gama ngokupheleleyo ngolwimi lwakhe: “Hayi” yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu yamava amantombazana namhlanje kwaye iyamangalisa. Ndikhuthazwa ngabasetyhini abaye baphakama benza olu tshintsho.
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Funda ngakumbi emva kwesibhengezo
Kuhle ukuba ndikhulise umntwana oyintombazana ngelixesha ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini kukwi-ajenda.
Siena Miller
Ke intombi yakho ikufundisa ukuba ungaphindi?
Yonke imihla. Ndikhuthazwa kukujonga kwesi sizukulwana samantombazana noko akufundiswa esikolweni. Ukuba esikolweni apho intombi yam ikhoyo, bafundiswa ukuziphatha kunye nefilosofi, kwaye sijonge abantu abakhutshiweyo eluntwini. Izinto esingazange sikhuliswe ngazo. Kuyamangalisa ukuba kukho uhlobo lolwazi lwentlalo olwalungekho ngokwenene xa ndandisiya esikolweni. Lixesha elikhuthazayo lokuba ngumfazi. Kwanokukhulisa intombi.
Lo mboniso ukwathetha, ngandlel’ ithile, ngelungelo lesi sibini. Njengomdlali weqonga odumileyo, nawe uyangenelwa kumalungelo. Uyiphatha njani loo nto-kwaye zeziphi izinto eziphantsi kwimpumelelo kuwe?
Izinto ezibuhlungu zisisiphumo sokuduma esemncinane. Namhlanje, ndikwazile ukwakha ubukho babucala nobuzolileyo. Ngamaxesha olonwabo lokwenyani, kunjalo. Ukwazi abantu ebendijonge kubo ubomi bam bonke kuyinto entle kakhulu. Kwaye ngaxa lithile, ndakwazi ukulawula amacala angalunganga. Ndathi ndakubalasela, yaba yimeko eyahlukileyo. Abafazi abancinci bancokola phambi kwee-tabloids kunye ne-paparazzi. Bekunzima nyani ukufika kulendawo ndikuyo ngoku. Kwathatha ixesha.
Funda ngakumbi emva kwesibhengezo
Funda ngakumbi emva kwesibhengezo
Ngaba lalikhe labakho ixesha kumsebenzi wakho apho izinto ezingalunganga zodlula izinto ezilungileyo?
Ewe ngokuqinisekileyo. Iminyaka yam yamashumi amabini yayinzima kuba kwakukho ingxolo eninzi kunye nomoya owenziwe ngamabali akwii-tabloids kunye namajelo eendaba. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwakukho uloyiko oluninzi lokuxhatshazwa kweendaba kwaye eNgilani kwakukho ukukhwabanisa kweefowuni kunye nayo yonke loo nto. Kwakunzima ukonwabela into ebekuya kuba mnandi kwaye konwabisa ngokwenene. Kodwa ukucinga emva ekusebenzeni kwiseti, elo xesha lalimnandi.
Ukwazile njani ukulawula oku kunye nokukhusela ngcono ubumfihlo bakho?
Ukunyaniseka, andinakukholisa wonke umntu. Ndaqalisa ukuxambulisana. Ndayisa i-paparazzi enkundleni, ndayisa amajelo eendaba enkundleni, ndafumana izigwebo ezichasene ne-arhente ye-paparazzi. Ndazilwela nyani.
Umshicileli ukwangumba kuthotho. USophie kunye nomyeni wakhe balandelwa rhoqo ziintatheli emva kokuba izityholo ze #MeToo zibe esidlangalaleni. Mhlawumbi unokuyiqonda loo nto.
Ndandiyincutshe kule mvakalelo. Yayiyinxalenye yobomi bam ixesha elide. Kwaye kwakunzima ukubuyela kuloo meko ngomboniso, kodwa kwakumnandi ukuba yayiyindawo elawulwayo kwiseti. Ndandinoloyiko ngokwenene ngelo xesha. Kodwa singahleka ngayo emva koko.
Funda ngakumbi emva kwesibhengezo
Funda ngakumbi emva kwesibhengezo
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