✔️ 2022-11-01 09:06:41 - Paris/France.
Uziqale ngokutsha okanye ufe, kufuneka ukuba ucinge Lujan Arguelles kwi2020 xa, emva kwevili lemoto ebolekwe kudade wabo ukuba ahambe esuka eMadrid ukuya eMarbella, waqonda ukuba ubetheke etyeni. Loo nyaka wabutshintsha kakhulu ubomi bakhe bobuchwephesha-wawugqiba umsebenzi wakhe kumabonakude apho waye woyisa ngokubonisa iinkqubo eziyimpumelelo njenge. Ngubani ofuna ukutshata nonyana wam?, Inkosana yaseCorina nokuba Inombolo yokuvula-, kangangoko kubomi bakhe bobuqu – yena nomyeni wakhe bathathe isigqibo sokwahlukana. "Mama konke kuhamba kakuhle? Qha ndimane ndikujongile ndibone ukuba awonwabanga" Intatheli kwafuneka ijongane nalo mbuzo kwintombi yakhe eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala uMiranda, eyaphawula inguqu kwaye yagqiba ekubeni ilawule ubomi bayo. Ibali alibalisa inyathelo ngenyathelo kwincwadi yakhe entsha, fundani ukuphila kwakhona, apho edlala khona uLuján owayengaziwa ngaphambili, egcwele ii-complexes, ukungaqiniseki kunye noloyiko, akukho nto enokuyenza ngalo buntu bukamabonwakude kunye neengubo ze-sequin kunye ne-brilli brilli "edla" isikrini. Ngoku uLuján Argüelles ujonge ngonyamezelo kunye nomdla kwikamva kwaye, ukongeza kolu lwazi loncwadi, uye watsibela kwiNetlix ngenkqubo entsha yokufumana iqabane, apho wadalwa khona njengomvelisi olawulayo, Wavuma kuthi ukuba uvulelekile ekuthandeni, nokuba angathanda ukuyifumana kumabonakude kwaye uphendule omnye wemibuzo ebibuzwa ngumkhosi wakhe kwiiveki: Ngenisa kwakhona igama eligqithisiweyo?
BONA Igalari
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– Encwadini sidibana nomnye uLuján. Siqhele ukubona le Luján, njengoko usitsho wena, ikhazimla kunye 'ne-brilli-brilli'. Uye wamelana njani nalo mfanekiso wakho siwaziyo abambalwa? Ngaloo mzuzu xa ubetha etyeni
Ngexesha lokubhalwa kwencwadi yayiyinto emangalisayo, kuba ndandisele ndidlule kwinkqubo yeminyaka emibini enesiqingatha yokufumana inyaniso yam nalapho ndandifuna ukuya khona, ukuyibeka phantsi ephepheni ayinayo imfihlo kakhulu. kum kwaye ke yonke le nkqubo endiye ndadibana nayo yokukhula kuba ndihlala ndiyithetha encwadini, ufumanisa izinto ezintle kangaka, uqala ukuziva kamnandi kangangokuba ekuqaleni uziva uhlekisa kancinci kuba awungeni. kule ngqondo inengqondo, iphindwe kabini njalo njalo, kodwa ngoko nangoko ndafumanisa ukuba apho ndandiza kufumana into eyayiza kundanelisa nokuba ndandiza kufumanisa izinto zomlingo.
Qhubeka ufunda ibali
-Ingaba ibilungile njengonyango lwakho lolona?
Ayiyo therapy, xa bendicela ukuba ndibhale incwadi kwaye ndiyibhala ndandisele ndenze izinto eziliwaka unyaka wonke, kunye 'nomlandeli', ukubhala ... ngokwenene ndadibana nomhleli wenye iphrojekthi sasicinga kwaye kwakuxa uCarmen Fernández de Blas eqala ukuthetha malunga newaka leebhanti ngexesha lokutya kwaye wandixelela, wandixelela ukuba kwakuvuyisa ukubona indlela awayethetha ngayo ngesi sahluko esasithetha ngaso kwinqanaba elisondeleyo. .
BONA Igalari
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-Ibali othetha ngalo malunga ne-complexes yakho, ukungakhuseleki kwakho, uthi uhlaselwe yi-anorexia kwaye wena ngokwakho ubuyazi ngayo, uye wachacha njani kuyo?
Ewe, makhe sibone ukuba ibaluleke kakhulu, enyanisweni xa ndifumana oku ndineminyaka eyi-17, oogqirha bathi indawo kaLuján yayibaluleke kakhulu, yayingeyona iprofayili yesiqhelo, andizange ndizive okanye ndingakhange ndibonakale ndityebile. , yonke into. Ngokuchaseneyo, yiyo loo nto kule ncwadi ndichaza ukuba yayiyindawo apho ndazama khona ukulawula indawo yam, ubomi, iimvakalelo endandiziva ngathi andikhange ndityebe. ngomzimba wam, andizange ndizive ukuba ndingowale ndawo, ndiyenze ngomzimba wam. Yayingamava anzima kakhulu, okwangoku uphila nokubandezeleka okukhulu kodwa ngethamsanqa okwangoku ayikabikho yinxalenye ye-ajenda yam yemihla ngemihla iminyaka emininzi. Inkumbulo ifihlakele, kodwa sele kuyiminyaka emininzi ngoku sikhona.
– Ngaba uyoyika ukuba nomngxuma oya kukubuyisela umva?
Nerd. Ngoku andoyiki kwanto, oko kukuthi ndidlule kwinkqubo eyandinika amandla endiwazi kakuhle kuba ngexesha elithile sinezixhobo kwaye siyazifaka kwintshukumo, siyadlala, siyaprojekthi kwaye sizolula. . Uloyiko lukhona kodwa ngoku ndilubona ngenye indlela, ndiyibona njengalamntu uzohlala ekhona kodwa ongandinqandiyo, ongandigqibiyo ngentshukumo zam, kulungile, sizakumenzani, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha. kukuxhokonxa izinto ekufuneka uzenze.
– Uyathetha kwakhona, kakuhle, unika iipilisi ezincinci malunga nendima edlalwe yintsapho yakho kule nkqubo. Uthetha ngotata wakho, ngubani umama wakho, indima kadadewenu owakushiyela imoto ukuze ngalo mzuzu udluleyo uthabathe uhambo olusuka eMadrid usiya eMarbella… kodwa yeyiphi indima abayidlalileyo kule minyaka, ubusazi ukusuka ngalomzuzu uwela ntoni?
"Ewe, ke ... silusapho oluqhelekileyo, yonke imihla sisiva omnye komnye, siyathetha, oodadewethu beza eMadrid, ngeempelaveki sicwangcisa, silusapho apho kukho ubudlelwane obuninzi, bahlala behamba, bebesoloko bekhona, azange ndibenayo imvakalelo yokuba ndedwa ngokunxulumene nabo kodwa kakuhle, ngomgama othile kuba ekugqibeleni xa sinomphefumlo oneempawu zam siziva singenangqondo, kodwa hayi kuba bona okanye ihlabathi ... kungenxa yokuba uziva ihlabathi ngendlela ethile kwaye kufuneka uqale uzifumane, ubeke izinto kwindawo kwaye uzive uqondwa kunye nawe »
BONA Igalari
ULuján Argüelles kunye nentombi yakhe uMiranda
-Miranda, intombi yakho ... sixelele kancinci ngaye kuba yayilutshintsho ebomini bakho kwaye yeyona nto ikwenze ukuba ume
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba abantwana ngokubanzi, bonke abantwana, bangootitshala ababalaseleyo kwaye kufuneka sibajonge rhoqo. Bakuxelela iimfihlelo ezinkulu zobomi kuba xa singabantwana sikhululekile ngokwenene kwaye siyayithanda into esize kuyo, ukuhlala, ukuxabisa, ukuhleka ... kodwa siyalibala, siyanciphisa, siba yinto eqhelekileyo, ngoko xa simamela oku ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye le ndlela yokubona okusingqongileyo, bahamba ngee-encyclopedias.
Kwaye ukuba ngomso, wena ozaziyo ezi zibane kunye nezi thunzi zomsebenzi kaMiranda zikuxelela "mama, ndifuna ukuba ngumculi" ...
Ukukhanya okuqaqambileyo. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba inyani yomsebenzi esiwenzayo inxulunyaniswe nezibane, izithunzi, impumelelo… kwaye loo nto ayinanto yakwenza noko. Ndinabafundi abaninzi abandibhalelayo kuba baziva bechongiwe kuyo yonke into, ubomi bonke, nakuwuphi na umsebenzi kwaye ibali lobomi linezibane kunye nezithunzi, baphumelele, basilele, impazamo, uloyiko… akukho sizathu sakuxelela umsebenzi endiwenzayo. Kuyinyani ukuba sizibhenca kubaphulaphuli abaninzi ngendlela ecace ngakumbi kunabanye, kodwa sonke ngandlel’ ithile sinabagxeki nezimvo ezisingqongileyo, ekungekho mahluko kuzo. Ukuba u-Miranda uthatha isigqibo sokuba ngumculi, umbonisi, umakhi, umlungisi weenwele ... uya kuba mkhulu, ndiya kuhlala ndimkhuthaza kwaye ndimkhuthaza ukuba achonge i-legend yakhe, ibali lakhe, indawo yakhe emhlabeni kwaye ukusuka apho, ifilimu ngenxa yokuba iphupha lakho livutha. Kuya kuhlala kukukhokelela kwindlela yolonwabo.
-Ngaba uyoyika oku kubhengezwa kunye nothungelwano, icala elibi lolu papasho, abalandeli? Ulugcina njani olu lawulo?
Uloyiko kukubonisa ukungazithembi, ukungazithembi. Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka sibathembe abantwana bethu, ukuba baya kulawula njani ubunyani babo, bahlala kwixesha le-digitalization, asinakuphila sithuthunjiswa ngenxa yokuba zonke izinto ezimbi kunye neengozi zibhabha phezu kwethu, kufuneka sibeke imithetho yabo, iindlela zabo, imigca ebomvu kunye neyodwa. ukusuka apho ukuhamba ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba siqala ukuqwalasela ukuba yintoni ingozi, ingozi yinto yonke, ingozi ihamba ngesitrato kunye neentyatyambo zeentyatyambo ezivela kwinenekazi lesihlanu liwela kuwe ngasentla. Ukuphila ngoluhlobo andiboni naphina ubukrelekrele naphi na kwaye iinetwork zisesichengeni njengokuba ngelaxesha lethu zazinenye into. KumaXesha Aphakathi, ayephethe amakrele yaye ayebulala.
-Incwadi ngumsebenzi opheleleyo wokwazisa malunga nempilo yengqondo…
Ndihlala ndithetha ngesidingo sokuseka uluntu oluzinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo. Sigxininise kakhulu ekuzinzeni, kwindalo, kwiplanethi ... epholile, enkulu, kodwa ndicinga ukuba sinengxaki enkulu engazinzanga apha. Abantu banoloyiko oluninzi, uloyiko oluninzi kunye nokukhubazeka okuninzi, ukungakhuseleki kwaye kufuneka sisebenze kwicala elinye.
-Ngexesha lempumelelo unezigidi zabahlobo, izigidi zeeprojekthi ... kodwa ungamnika ngcebiso ithini kumntu ozifumana ekwimeko efanayo ukuba abethe ezantsi?
Into endiya kuqala ngayo kukuqala ngokuchaza impumelelo, yintoni impumelelo? Impumelelo asikokufezekiswa kweziphumo ezinkulu kwishishini, impumelelo kukuzola, ukuzithemba, ukuzimisela, ihlombe xa uvuka... yimpumelelo leyo kuba ukusuka apho sakha yonke enye into. Xa abantu bewa, kuya kuba mnandi ukuba sinexhala lokufunda, ukufunda, ukufunda, ukuzifumana, ukuziqonda, ndifunde izigidi zeencwadi kwiminyaka edlulileyo kwaye ezininzi zazo zabhalwa kwiminyaka yamashumi amathandathu, oko kuthetha ukuba okwenzekileyo. kuthi kuyo yonke imbali ayiyonto intsha, imvakalelo neemvakalelo zomntu aziyonto intsha, ayikuba unomsebenzi othile, awumtsha kwaye apho uya kufumana zonke izakhono ozidingayo. Le ncwadi sayibiza ngokuthi 'Learning to Live Again' kuba xa uzelwe ufundiswa ukuphila, okulungileyo, okubi, emva koko yingozi, abazali bakho, abantakwenu ... kodwa unayo isiqu sakho esibalulekileyo, umphefumlo wakho, indlela yakho ebalulekileyo, kufuneka ufunde kwakhona indlela yokuphila.
BONA Igalari
ULuján Argüelles utsibela kwiNetflix
Ubuye waba ngumzekelo ngexesha lencwadi: 'Hlaziya wena okanye ufe' kuba ekugqibeleni uthathe eyona ndlela ilungileyo, yokuqhelana namaxesha amatsha. Uye watsibela kwiNetflix, njengomvelisi olawulayo ngokunjalo, nguwuphi umahluko owufumeneyo kwaye uziqhelanise njani neli hlabathi ledijithali ukusuka kwilizwe lemveli?
Ngethamsanqa ndisahlala ngoku nebhokisi zokufunda, zokufumanisa, yonke into iyandothusa, yonke into iyandixaka kwaye ndithanda yonke into. Xa ndibona into engahambelaniyo nento engaphakathi kum, ndithi, makhe sibone ukuba inondifundisa ntoni kwaye ukusuka apho ukuba iyandifundisa, inkulu kwaye ukuba akukho nto, ayinamsebenzi. . Abantwana banomdla, bane- Vula ingqondo ukuba kukho iindawo ezinokusindiswa kakhulu, bandifundise ukuba ndingabi ngumgqibeli kubudlelwane bothando, sinamathele kwisiphumo ngokubanzi kunye nasemphefumlweni singabagqibeli kakhulu, makhe sibone ukuba obu budlelwane bundibeka phi ... baya kulandelayo 24 hotras kwaye imvakalelo yokuba kuhle kakhulu. Khetha yonke imihla ukuba lo mntu upholile kwaye ufuna ukuqhubeka, akukho mfuneko yokuqwalasela ukuba nditshatile, ukuba i-mortgage kuba ngoko, ubuncinane kwimeko yam nakwiminyaka yam, akukho mntu unezi mpawu uzovela kwaye ndiya andiyidingi nam, ndine , ndine ntombi, indlu kwaye andidingi kucwangcisa ubomi bam komnye umntu.
Ayenjani amava okusebenza kunye neYouTubers, abaphembeleli…
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