USara G.
Nangona ii-comedies zothando zikuxelela ngenye indlela, ungacingi ukuba zithatha ulonwabo lwakho. Nokuba unxibe ileyibhile "yeqabane" okanye eyomyeni, akukho suku olunye oludlulayo ngaphandle kokuba uqinise ubudlelwane bakho. Ewe, kuthatha ngaphezulu kweenjongo ezilungileyo zokwenza isibini esonwabileyo.
Ukuzixabisa imihla ngemihla akukho lula. Unesimilo sakho, unaso. Uneminqweno yakho, unqwenela ukufeza amaphupha akhe. Kule tango yempambano, iqhinga lokonwaba kukufumana itempo elungileyo. Ufika njani apho? Landela le mithetho imbalwa.
Uluhlu lwangaphakathi
Funda ukuzibekela imida
Hayi, # selfcare #ukuphila #feelgood hashtags ayisiyiyo enye indlela ye-Instagram. Kule marathoni enolwalamano lwesibini, ukubeka imida kukuvumela ukuba ugcine ingqibelelo yakho yengqondo kwaye ukhathalele iqabane lakho.
Khawufane ucinge okomzuzwana. Emva kokufumana iqabane lakho lomphefumlo kwi eyona ndawo yokuthandana, ufuna into enye kuphela: ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabo. Yinto eqhelekileyo. Iqhutywa ziipheromones kunye nemvelo yakho yothando, ulangazelela ibali likaRomeo noJuliet eliqala rhoqo kwi-Intanethi kwezi ntsuku ngenxa yendawo zokuthandana.
Kuphela, kule ndawo ibalekayo, ugqitha kwizinto ezininzi ezibalulekileyo. Okokuqala, ukusoloko sifumaneka ngumbulali wokwenene. Abantu bathambekele ekuxabiseni into enqabileyo, ethe kratya ekufikeleleni kuyo. Ngokubakhona kakhulu, uyayisusa le aura yemfihlakalo ekunika umtsalane. Kwaye ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto.
Kuthekani ukuba umntu ongaphambili akanantsingiselo intle njengokuba ucinga? Ukuwa kwiimpazamo ze-narcissistic okanye abafazi abanengqondo ngokupheleleyo akwenzeki kwabanye kuphela. Ukuba ubomi bakho bujikeleze esinye isiqingatha, uya kutyekela ekunyamezeleni okungamkelekanga.
Njalo ngoku, thatha ixesha lakho. Ukuhamba kusasa wedwa ngaphambi kokuba kuvuke isixeko. Umnqweno ovumela ukuba uphinde ugcwalise iibhetri zakho. Umzuzu wokuphumla onokuthi ukhethe wedwa kuwo. Ukufunda ukuseta imida, ukuzenzela into ephambili kubalulekile ukuze wonwabe kwaye ukwazi ukuzalisekisa esinye isiqingatha sakho.
Yiba nobuganga bokuzibonisa
Awunakulithelekelela inani labantu abanxiba imaski kulwalamano lwabo. Ukuxakeka ukuzama ukugqibelela, babambeke ekufikeleleni kwiinjongo ezingafezekiseki kunokwakha umtshato owonwabileyo.
Ukongeza, kukho enye indlela eyoyikisayo ekutshatyalalisweni kwezibini: ukuzicingela. Ucinga ukuba wabelana ngamaxabiso afanayo nawe. Ucinga ukuba unqwenela ukwahlulwa okufanayo kwemisebenzi yosapho. Ucinga ukuba ufuna ukuqala umzi kwisithuba seminyaka emihlanu.
Isibini, akukho nto imbi ngaphezu kokuva kunye nesiqingatha samagama. Ukuba unayo eninzi entliziyweni yakho, qiniseka ukuba uziva njani. Kwinqaku le-anthology, abanyangi bahambisa iingcebiso eziluncedo ekunxibelelaneni ngokufanelekileyo njengesibini. Ngalesi sibhalo, babeka umnwe kwizinto ezininzi eziyimfuneko ukuze bafumane inyani ukuphela okubi.
Lumka nangona. Nokuba unomdla wokuthetha, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uwongamele umgangatho. Ewe, kunxibelelwano olusebenzayo, kuyafuneka ukuba umamele iqabane lakho. Khumbula ukuba nibabini kule nxaki. Kanye njengokuba uyayixabisa into yokuba uyakumamela xa uthetha, mnike nethuba lokuthetha into ebuhlungu kwisazela sakhe.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube sisayikholojisti esebenzayo. Kulula ngokungathi ujonge kwiscreen sakho se-smartphone xa ethetha nawe okanye enikina intloko xa ethetha nawe. Ukumamela ngokukuko kuyindlela yokuqinisa ubudlelwane obuvelayo.
Ukujongana nomba wezezimali
Ngokucacileyo, awuyi kuyenza le nto ekuqaleni. Akukho mntu uya kutyhila ubungakanani belifa labo kumntu ongamaziyo ngokupheleleyo. Kwangokunjalo, ukuba usisihloko ngesihloko kwangoko kakhulu, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba uza kufakwa isitampu segigolo.
Xa usesigaba sokufumanisa, khetha imibuzo elula kunye nobubi. Unako ukuzoba kwenye Eyona mibuzo ingama-210 ilungileyo yokubuza umntu otyumkileyo ukwaphula umkhenkce ngokukhululeka. Uyive nini into kum? Ngubani oyena mntwana wakho mncinci? Ukuba unokuba namandla amakhulu, ibiya kuba yeyiphi? Thatha ixesha lokwazana ngobumsulwa.
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Nangona kunjalo, xa izinto ziba nzima, nokuba uthetha ngabantwana okanye ngemitshato, kubalulekile ukulungisa umba wezezimali. Hlalani phantsi nithethe malunga nomvuzo ngamnye kuni. Yabiwa njani le mali? Luthini uluvo lwakho kwiiprojekthi ezinkulu (ukuthengwa kwezindlu, iiholide, ukhenketho lwehlabathi, njl. Thetha malunga nayo ngaphambi kokubopha ikamva lakho ngendlela eqinisekileyo.
