UMarion V.
Ngaba ungaphezu kwama-40 kwaye awutshatanga? Yonwabela inkululeko oyinikwayo ukuze ukwazi ukuhamba apho ufuna khona kunye nendlela ofuna ngayo. Akukho ndlela ingcono yokudibana nabantu abatsha kwaye ufumane iqabane ubusuku okanye ubomi bonke. Ngoko yonwabele kwaye uvumele ubomi bukothuse!
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Izibonelelo zokuhamba emva kwamashumi amane
Sinokucinga ukuba iihambo zendlela zenzelwe kuphela oyena mncinci kwaye ke usapho oludumileyo luhlala lunikezelwa kuthi kwaye luhamba ngeenqanawa xa singaphezulu kwamashumi amahlanu. Kodwa ubomi buyatshintsha kwaye namhlanje siyanda singatshatanga emva kwamashumi amane. Ithamsanqa okanye ikamva?
Bona icala elihle lemeko yakho yokuba wedwa endaweni yoko. Ekugqibeleni unokwenza nantoni na oyithandayo nanini na xa ufuna. Kwaye ukwenza i ukudibana nomntu oqolileyo, ayikho into efana nokuhamba. Ngoko ke, unako ukukhangela iqabane lokuhamba kwiindawo ezizinikeleyo zokuthandana, okanye ushiye indawo engalindelekanga ukufumana abantu abahle kakhulu kwindawo.
Ewe, uhambo emva kwamashumi amane lubonelela ngeenzuzo ezininzi:
- Ngokwemali, unokukhetha ngokulula indawo amaphupha akho.
- Uphuma kwi routine yakho ushiye amaxhala ekhaya.
- Uvuleleke ngakumbi kukudibana okutsha kwindawo engaqhelekanga.
- Ngeempawu zomhlaba ezintsha, ufunda ukuzifumana kwaye ke uzazi ngcono kwaye uyazi into oyifunayo.
Ukuhamba emva kweminyaka engamashumi amane ungatshatanga kuthetha ukukwazi ukuchuma kwaye ukonwabele izinto ozithanda ngokwenene.
Indlela yokufumana iqabane xa uhamba
Ukuba uphupha ngokutshintshiselana kwenyama kwaye uhlala ibali elihle lothando, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphuma kunye neendawo ezifanelekileyo kwiintlanganiso phakathi kwabantu abangabodwa.
Umzekelo, ungabhukisha itikiti kwi-arhente yohambo ekhethekileyo yokuhlala phakathi kwabantu bodwa. Uya kuba nethuba kunye nezinye iinkampani zokufumana iprofayile yabanye abakhweli abaya kwabelana ngokuhlala okufanayo njengawe. Kulo hlobo lokunikezelwa, ngokucacileyo unokhetho phakathi kokuhlala okubandakanya konke apho yonke into ifakiwe (igumbi, ukutya kunye nemisebenzi) okanye ukuhlala kwesiqingatha sebhodi. Uya kuba nethuba lokukhetha indawo oya kuyo kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo zeziphakamiso: ngaselwandle, ezintabeni, kwisiqithi separadesi, kwilizwe elithandanayo ... kukuwe ukuba udibanise uhambo lwakho ngokuhambelana nezinto ozikhethayo. imozulu kunye nomoya.
Ke kukho ukuthandana sites ezikhethekileyo uhambo phakathi singles. Nifumana ukwazana kwi-intanethi kwaye emva koko uthathe isigqibo sokuhamba kunye ukuya kwindawo oyikhethileyo. Ukwanalo ukhetho lokubhalisa kwisiza ukuba amaqela zonke singles zelizwe elithile okanye imvelaphi ethile yobuhlanga. Apha kwakhona uthatha ixesha ukujonga iinkangeleko ezahlukeneyo zamalungu ukusuka kwikhaya lakho kwaye emva koko uzibandakanye kwincoko ukude nomntu onomdla kuye. Kwaye ukuba umsinga uhamba kakuhle, ke unokuthatha itikiti lenqwelomoya ukuze uhlangane naye kwaye udibane naye ngokwasemzimbeni. Ezi ezizodwa ukuthandana sites zisebenza njengamaqonga emveli ngakumbi. Ubhalisa simahla. Ugqibezela iprofayile yakho kwaye ubhale intengiso yakho. Emva koko ujongana neeprofayili zamalungu asele ebhalisiwe. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntu enomdla kuwe, ngoko kwezinye iiplatifomu ukhupha umrhumo ohlawulelwayo ukuze ukwazi ukuncokola. Kodwa amaxabiso ngokubanzi afikeleleka kakhulu kwaye ixesha elincinci (usuku olunye, iveki enye, inyanga enye, njl.).
Okokugqibela, ukuba unomlinganiswa onomdla ngakumbi, unokukhetha ngokulula indawo oya kuyo enomtsalane kuwe kwaye uzivumele ukuba uthathwe kube kanye phaya ezintlanganisweni. Ukufunyanwa kwenye indawo kuhlala kuzisa izinto ezothusayo kwabo baziyo ukuba bangahlala njani bavuleleke kwizinto ezingalindelekanga.
Iingcebiso zethu zokonwabela uhambo njengomntu oqolileyo
Ukuthatha ithuba lakho ngokupheleleyo uhambo ngolwandle njengomntu oqolileyo, khetha ngenene ifomula kunye nendawo oya kuyo oyithanda kakhulu. Akukho mfuneko yokungena kwiindlela apho ungakhululekanga khona. Eyona njongo iphambili kukukwenza wonwabe.
Emva koko, hlala uzikhathalele, ukubonakala kwakho ukuze uhende ngobuqili kunye nendalo. Xa siseluhambeni, asisoze sazi ngenene ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni kumzuzu olandelayo, ngoko masihlale siphezulu kwinkcazo-ntetho yethu. Qaphela ukuba oku akuthethi ukuba uyigqithise kwakhona. Kodwa ubuncinci, hlala ucocekile kuwe, unxibe kakuhle kwaye ulungiswe.
Sukuhlala uhleli kwikona yakho ngexesha lokuhlala kwakho. Phuma kuhambo. Thatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo ekhoyo kwisiza. La maxesha afanelekile ukudibana nabantu abatsha malunga nomsebenzi oqhelekileyo.
Okokugqibela, hlala ukwimo elungileyo. Ubomi buhle kwaye buhlala bunezinto ezimangalisayo ezigcinelwe abo bazi ukuba bawabambe njani amathuba anikezelwa kubo.
