Kusenokwenzeka ukuba yena ungakuhoyi, kuba ngokwenene uxakeke kakhulu. Nangona usenokufuna ukuchitha ixesha naye ukukulungela ukuphendu-, usenokungabi nalo ithuba. Oku kunako ukukulungela ukuphendu- tyhala ukukholelwa ukuba ukhethe ungakuhoyi.
okanye Indlela yokusabela kwindoda engakuhoyiyo? Uyenza njani indoda engakuhoyiyo ? Kuyacaphukisa ungahoyi ngu umntu ke que sasicinga ukuba sithandana okanye sikwisigaba sokuhenda! Kuba yenza indoda engakuhoyiyo iphendule, ukukulungela ukuphendu- kufuneka ivuse umdla ngokuvuselela umdla.
Xa indoda ikukhathalele? Umahluko phakathi kwe-a umntu que ukukulungela ukuphendu- musa umdla kunye nomntu okhoyo hleka wena uguqulela elubala athetha ngalo ngeemvakalelo neenjongo zakhe. ... inkwenkwe leyo hleka wena kwaye ukudlala ngeemvakalelo zakho kuya kuba yimfihlo ngakumbi, kungacacanga xa ukukulungela ukuphendu- uya kuthetha ngaye kunye nobuqili.
ngaphezulu Indlela yokufumana ingqalelo yendoda engakuhoyiyo? Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ukuze "ukungazi" mission ube nethuba elingcono lokuphumelela nokuba ukukulungela ukuphendu- wamtsala ingqalelo :
- Ungahoyi imfuneko yokukhupha iimvakalelo zakho. ...
- Ungahoyi imfuno yakho yokusabela ngokugqithisileyo. ...
- Khetha amadabi akho ngobulumko. ...
- Yeka ungakuhoyi naye uya kuyeka.
Kwakutheni ukuze atshintshe indlela aziphatha ngayo?
Inkuthazo kunye nokukhululeka kuhambelana ngokusondeleyo kolu tshintsho. Inene, nokuba inkuthazo inkulu, ubunzima bokuyifumana nayo inokuba nkulu kunye notshintsho lwe comportement ngoko akuyi kwenziwa lula. I-trigger yinto eyenza kube lula ukuqalisa utshintsho.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuyeka ukuthanda umntu ngobusuku nje obunye? Unga ayisenathando umntu osuka ngobusuku kuphela ngenxa yezinto ezingaphandle kobudlelwane bakho, okoEst ukutsho oko alandelayo yaye ingxaki ne akuphumi kuni, nokuba kuye, nokuba kuphuma kuyeyena, akukho nkohliso, akukho kungcatsha, akukho buxoki, akukho zithonga eziphantsi, kodwa kuphela imeko engabangeli ...
Umbiza ntoni umntu otshintsha indlela aziphethe ngayo? Kuthiwa a personne unomsindo xa utshintsho ngequbuliso kwaye rhoqo kwimo kunye nesimilo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafuneka ukwahlula oku comportement i-sawtooth (ukuguquka kwemizwelo) ye-bipolar yokwenyani yokuphazamiseka (eyayisakuba yi-manic-depressive disorders) qui ziphawulwe ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Ngaba ngokwenene indoda iyatshintsha? Kuba ngokwenene tshintsha, kufuneka uzifunele kwaye ngokucacileyo awukho entlokweni yakhe. Kwelinye icala, kukho into enye eya kumnceda tshintsha: iimvakalelo zakhe ngawe. Nye umntu ngothando utshintsho, iminqweno yakhe iyatshintsha, umkhondo wakhe utshintsho, imikhwa yakhe iyatshintsha.
Zeziphi izinto eziphembelela utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha?
3 izinto ukuba ichaphazela i comportement yomntu ngamnye
- Iitalente zangaphakathi.
- Izakhono kunye nezakhono ezifunyenwe ngokuhamba kwexesha.
- Imeko yendawo apho umntu akhoyo.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabi nazo iimvakalelo? Njengomjikelezo omfutshane phakathi komzimba kunye nengqondo, phakathi kwenyama kunye nengqondo, i iimvakalelo musa dlula kunye. ... Ngokusemthethweni, sinokuthi ukuba abathethi ngayo pas, vs 'Est ukuba bona ne uziva nje akukho nto.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuyeka ukuthanda umntu?
Indlela ye ukungamthandi umntu'enye kukutshintsha indlela ocinga ngayoyena. Wonke umntu uneempazamo. Usenokuba awuzange umbone ngenxa yokuba ubuxakeke kakhulu umenza isithixo. Thatha ixesha lokukhumbula iimpazamo zalo mntu X imvelaphi de search .
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukulibala umntu ngobusuku? Asazilibala hayi umntu osuka ngobusuku, kwaye ukuba kunjaloEst imeko, yonaEst ukubayena ayizange ibaluleke ngokwenene. Ubudlelwane buyatshintsha kwaye uthando aluhlaliEst un alandelayo yaye. Ukwazi oku, nguye ngokwendalo ukwamkela ukuba ngexesha elinye okanye elinye, sisuka kweyokuqala ukuya kweyesibini isicwangciso, ukuya kutsho kwesesithathu.
Ubizwa ntoni umntu onobuntu obuqhekekayo?
Kwi-dissociative identity disorder, eyayibizwa ngokuba yingxaki ye ubuntu Izazisi ezininzi, ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu ziyatshintshana ukulawula okufanayo personne.
Indlela yokubona umntu onobuntu obuhlukeneyo?
Iimpawu ezihambelanayo kunye neemeko
- Ukudakumba, qui yingxaki yemo ephantsi kakhulu okanye elusizi. …
- Ukuxhalaba, ukuphakuzela okanye ezinye iingxaki zokuxhalaba
- Iingcinga zokuzibulala, ngenxa yamanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo que les abantu Abantu abane-IDD bahlala benamava.
Umbiza ntoni umntu otshintsha ingqondo ngalo lonke ixesha? versatile adj. Ukutshintsha ngokulula uluvo, qui ixhomekeke kubuso besiquphe.
Ngaba umntu ongathembekanga unokuguquka? Umyeni ongathembekanga unakoluthembeke kwakhona? Ewe, ukuba nje usamkela que le edlulileyo Est ixesha eladlula. Yena Est Kubalulekile ukuba singavumeli ukucinga kunye nengqumbo iguqule ixesha langoku.
Ngaba umntu unokutshintsha?
Ngoko, ewe, ubuntu ingatshintsha, kodwa ngendlela elinganiselweyo: i-extrovert ayiyi kungena ngaphakathi, kwaye umntu ononyamezelo kunye nokufudumala akasoze anyamezela kwaye abandayo. Kubo bonke ubomi, ubuntu buyatshintsha ngokuya ngeminyaka.
Indlela yokutshintsha ubomi bomntu?
Zeziphi izinto ezinefuthe ekusetyenzisweni? Pha ukusetyenziswa yi isenzo sezoqoqosho, kodwa Est kwakhona isenzo sentlalo. Yena Est okunene kugqitywe yingeniso kunye namaxabiso (izigqibo zoqoqosho), kodwa Est également iphenjelelwe ngokobudala, imo yentlalo, indawo yokuhlala okanye ubuchwephesha (izigwebo zezentlalo).
Ziziphi izinto ezichaphazela ukuthenga?
Les izinto ezinempembelelo ukuziphatha kwe ukuthenga
- Les izinto ngokwasengqondweni (okanye “ingqondo”) ibandakanya iingqalelo ezinengqiqo ezifana que ixabiso lemveliso.
- Les izinto ngokweemvakalelo (okanye “ezichukumisayo”) zibandakanya iingqwalaselo ezingekho ngqiqweni ezifana que iinkolelo zobuqu.
Yintoni ephembelela ubuntu bethu?
Izigqibo ze ubuntu zizo zombini zemfuza, zebhayoloji, kunye nezokusingqongileyo. Ngokwenyani, umahluko womoya, qui ubukhulu becala ziya kuba lilifa, ubuntu izinzile kwaye ziyahambelana, zenzeka ekusebenzisaneni nokusingqongileyo.
Babizwa ngokuba yintoni abantu abangenazo iimvakalelo? THE abantu abaphethwe alexithymia abakwazi ukuchonga zabo imizwa kunye nokukwazi ukwahlula kwiimvakalelo zabo zomzimba. Isigulana sihlala sichaza iimpawu zomzimba endaweni yokuzama ukubonisa esakhe imizwa.
Umbiza ntoni umntu ongenamizwa?
Impavid = qui akeva okanye abonakalise naluphi na uloyiko. Impassive ithi kuzo zonke iirejista, i-impassive buncwadi kwaye kunqabile.
Umbiza ntoni umntu oziva engenamvakalelo? I-alexithymic ne uyakwazi ukuyichaza into ayiyo uziva. Les iimvakalelo, ephuhliswe kwindawo "ye-limbic" yengqondo yakhe, musa ukufikelela kwiingqondo.
Indlela yokuyeka ukuthanda umntu?
Ukuvuma ukujongana nale nyaniso linyathelo elibalulekileyo lokukwazi ukulila ukulahlekelwa bubudlelwane.
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Ukoyise ukwahlukana
- Inyathelo 1: phinda ujonge kuwe.
- Inyathelo lesi-2: jonga kwixesha langoku nakwixesha elizayo, hayi kwixesha elidlulileyo
- Inyathelo lesi-3: buyela kwisali.
Sinokuzahlula njani kumntu ongasithandiyo?
Thatha ixesha loku ukukulungela ukuphendu- sukani omnye komnye personne.
Mcele nje ukuba enze njalo ukukulungela ukuphendu- nika ixesha lokuvakalisa iimvakalelo ukuba u uhlaselo. Ukuba i akukho mntu uziva enenkxalabo ngayo ukukulungela ukuphendu-, yena ukukulungela ukuphendu- iya kunika ce dont ukukulungela ukuphendu- kufuneka, nokuba ce ayiyo pas amava amnandi kakhulu.
Kutheni ingathi andisamthandi? Ukuhlala uzibuza ngeemvakalelo zakho kunokuba licebo lokungaziboni kwaye uzive uphila, utshilo uSophie Cadalen. Kule meko, sibhidanisa uthando kunye neemvakalelo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba sibe nayo kunye intliziyo ebethayo, sinayoyokuprinta Ngaphantsi uthando enye. "