Thatha umoya uze uzame ukuthetha ngokuzolileyo. Nokuba uyakuphulaphula okanye akakumameli, akunamsebenzi. Into ephambili kukuba incoko ihlala ihloniphekile kwaye ingathathi hlangothi. Ukuba uyazi ukuba yena uhlala efuna ukulunga, uyaqonda ukuba iingxoxo zakho aziyi kuphulaphulwa ngokwexabiso lazo lokwenene.
Umphendula njani umntu osoloko echanekile? Enye indlela yokulawula umntu owathi ukholelwa njalo baye raison kukuqala ngokuvumelana naye okanye ubuncinci ukuvuma que uyayiqonda into ayithethayo. Emva koko unokubonisa ukuphikisana kwakho. Umzekelo, unokuthi, “Ndiyayiqonda le nto. que uthi.
Ngubani osoloko efuna ukuba nelizwi lokugqibela?
Ukuba nelizwi lokugqibela, eyavela ngenkulungwane ye-15, ithetha ukuba umntu uneyona ngxoxo ilungileyo kwincoko. Ngoko ke, enye qui “Unayo igama lokugqibela” yileyo ekungekho mntu unokuphinda ayiphikise.
Umenza njani umntu aqonde ukuba akalunganga?
Akukho mntu uthanda ukugxekwa phambi kwabanye abantu. Ukuba kufuneka umxelele qu'akalunganga, umtsalele ecaleni umxelele ngasese. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ulinde umzuzu ochanekileyo ngaphambili ukwenza.
Umchaza njani umntu osoloko efuna ukuchaneka?
"Mna-njalo-raison” zidla ngokuba nzima ukuphulaphula nokuba novelwano. Banomdla kakhulu kwaye bagxile kwintetho yabo ukuba bakwazi ukumamela umntu othileomnye, okanye bavukelana ngenxa yokoyikabaye ngaphantsi ”, uyacacisa uChristophe André, ugqirha wezigulo zengqondo eParis.
Umphendula njani umntu okujongela phantsi?
xa umntu othile 'a iyakuthoba , ukukulungela ukuphendu- ingayilawula ngokungaphenduli okwangoku.
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Mxelele ukuba ayeke.
- Yenza ukukulungela ukuphendu- ukuhlala uzolile. ...
- Umzekelo, ukuba ungumlingane ukukulungela ukuphendu- ukuthuka, thatha umoya omncinci kwaye uthi ngokuzolileyo: "Ndiyeke thoba ».
Ngubani osoloko elungile isithethantonye?
Ezinye izinto ezinokubakho
Nantonye | Inani loonobumba |
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Iyabuyisa | Iileta ezisi-6 |
Isidenge | Iileta ezisi-6 |
Okwangoku | Iileta ezisi-7 |
Ucinga | Iileta ezisi-7 |
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Yintoni i-hubris syndrome?
Ukulahlekelwa yinyani, ukunganyamezeli ukuchasana, izenzo ezitshabalalisayo, ukuxhalaba ngomfanekiso wakho kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kwamandla ... Ezi ziya kuba zezinye zeempawu zesifo sengqondo esinxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwamandla, i-hubris syndrome. UTony Blair kunye noGeorge W.
Yintoni umntu onengqondo?
Ingqongqo, ayiguquki: abantu abanzima ngokwengqondo ziqondise ubomi babo ngokubonga kwi-arsenal yemithetho ekungafuneki iphambuke kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Isakhelo quBathanda ukunyanzela abo babangqongileyo.
Kutheni umyeni wam endiphikisa ngalo lonke ixesha?
UChantal Pironi, isazi ngengqondo ucebisa ngelithi: “Oku kusenokubangelwa kukungazithembi okanye ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo. … Qaphela: “Umntu ojongela phantsi amaqabane akhe naye akazithembanga,” ichaza umthetheleli wethu. Uziva ebophelelekile ukubathoba abanye ukuze azuze kukuziva wongamile.
Umxelela njani umntu ukuba akalunganga?
Ukwenza oku, ungasebenzisa amagama kunye neefomula ezinje ngokuthi "ngokuqinisekileyo", "ndiyaqonda ukuba", "Ndiyacinga", "Ndiyaqonda", okanye "Ndiyakholwa ukuba ndiyayazi loo nto ...".
Umenza njani umntu aqonde into?
Hlonipha impendulo yabo, nokuba yintoni na.
- Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukuxelela ukuba uyakuthanda Into ethile Kungenjalo, unokuthi, “Ndiyaqonda, enkosi ngokunyaniseka kwakho. »
- Hlala uzolile kwaye ungabi nomsindo okanye uzikhusele ukuba akabelani ngeemvakalelo zakho.
Umenza njani umntu abone ubugwenxa bakhe?
Kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuyivuma umntu othile'enye onayo kuye alandelayo yaye nzima, kodwa, ukuba uyafuna ukuqaphela Zakho iimpazamo, kufuneka unikele ingqalelo ekucombululeni ingxaki, kungekhona kwiimvakalelo ezinokwenza imeko ibe mnyama ngakumbi.
Ngubani osoloko efuna ukuba nelizwi lokugqibela?
Xa sizifumana sijongene nomntu ofuna ukuba nelizwi lokugqibela, kunzima ukubeka olwakho uluvo. KuGuillaume Villemot, ukuba nelizwi lokugqibela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni umphumo wengxoxo, "kwakuthetha ukuphulaphula wena kuphela, ngaphandle kokunikela ingqalelo kwiingxoxo zabanye".
Ubiza ntoni umntu ojongela phantsi abanye?
Kuhle ukwazi: umgqwethi we-narcissistic Umgqwethi we-narcissistic a umntu othi unengxaki yobuntu bakhe. Unomfanekiso ombi ngaye kwaye uzama ukuwutshintsha ngokuthoba ixabiso kunye ukujongela phantsi abanye, ngokufuthi izalamane.
Kutheni ubajongela phantsi abanye?
Ukujongelwa phantsi luhlobo oluthile lokuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni. Amagama okanye izenzo zenzelwe ukuba yehlisa ixabiso elinye. Oku kunokukhokelela kwimeko yokuvalelwa okanye ukulahleka kweebheringi.
Indlela yokuphendula kumntu othetha kakubi nawe?
Buza imibuzo efana no "Ngaba undigibisela lomhlakulo?" Okanye "Uthetha ukuthini ngokukhomba ngobhontsi phantsi ngelixa ndithetha?" Ke, ukuba i-Sneaky yakho iphendula ngokuhlekisa ukukulungela ukuphendu-, thetha into enje "Kubonakala ngathi uphosela intloko yam?" "Kubalulekile kuye ...
Indlela yokuhlala ulungile?
Ubugcisa be soloko ulungile
- Unesibindi sokuphula ithoni yakho. Umbono kukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza ithoni yakho, ukuze uphinde ulawule. …
- Guqula isantya. …
- Dlala ukuthula. …
- Guqula ingxabano yomnye umntu. …
- Sika iinwele zibe zine. …
- Banga ukuchaneka. …
- Thetha kwimifanekiso.
Ngubani okhwaza amagama anqamlezayo?
Zonke izisombululo ze: Whining
isisombululo | Iileta |
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+ Ukuncwina ngoonobumba aba-4 | |
IBHODI | 4 |
+ Ukuncwina ngoonobumba aba-5 | |
WHAIN | 5 |
Sibizwa ngokuba yintoni isifo samandla?
UKUJONGA - I amandla inokubuguqula ngokuphawulekayo ubuntu. Nditsho ndiyiguqule. Ukulwa ne-hubris syndrome, kufuneka siqale ngokulwa notyekelo lwethu lokuncoma amandla.
Kutheni amandla ekuphambanisa?
Oku kuthatha amandla kubangela utshintsho kumzimba weentlanzi ngenxa yokusabela kwehomoni. Kumadoda kuyafana, ingqondo iyatshintsha emva kokungena kwe testosterone. ... Kodwa ke amandla Izikhukula ngokupheleleyo ingqondo nge dopamine. Ikwadala umlutha ”.
Yintoni iDiogenes Syndrome?
Le Isifo sikaDiogenes yachazwa ngo-1975 nguClark ukuze ibonakalise, kubantu abadala, ukuphazamiseka kwendlela yokuziphatha ehambelana nokungakhathali okugqithisileyo komzimba kunye nococeko lwasekhaya kunye nokugcinwa kwempahla (ukuqokelela izinto ezingafaniyo) ezikhokelela kwiimeko zokuphila ezingacocekanga.
Kwenzeka njani ukuba ube psychorigid?
Asizalwa ingqondo, thina iba. Ngokutsho kwethiyori ye-psychoanalytic, aba yayiza kuba ngabantu ababeza kuba nenjongo kubazali babo kakhulu: baya kufumana ulwaneliseko olukhulu ekuthobeleni imithetho, ngendlela efanayo nangabantwana ababethobela abantu abadala.
Indlela yokuziphatha kunye ne-psychorigid?
Ukusebenza ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba ngokwenza imisebenzi yokuzonwabisa nako kunokumnceda umntu ingqondo ukukhulula kancinci. Injongo kukubuyisela lo mntu kwiimvakalelo zabo kunye nokubenza baqonde ukuba ukuzonwabisa ebomini kunokwenzeka.
Indlela yokumchaza umntu ongazange azibuze?
I-psychorigid ungaze ubuze… Le ndlela yokuziphatha inokutyibilika isiya kuhlobo lozwilakhe okanye nomgibi, ... Omnye utshabalalisa omnye kwaye yena ngokwakhe ngendlela yokuziphatha okunjalo. Ezo zinjalo abantu aba "Beka" omnye.