Momwe Mungasangalalire ndi Maulendo Pamene Ndinu Okhwima Kapena Osakwatiwa

Kodi muli ndi zaka zoposa 40 ndipo simunakwatire? Sangalalani ndi ufulu womwe umaperekedwa kwa inu kuti mutha kuyenda komwe mukufuna komanso momwe mukufunira. Palibe njira yabwinoko yokumana ndi anthu atsopano ndikupeza bwenzi kwa usiku kapena moyo wonse. Chifukwa chake sangalalani ndi moyo ndikudabwitsani!

Ubwino woyenda pambuyo pa makumi anayi

Titha kuganiza kuti maulendo apamsewu amangopangidwira ang'ono kwambiri ndiyeno mabanja odziwika bwino amaperekedwa kwa ife ndiyeno timayenda pamadzi tikadutsa zaka makumi asanu. Koma moyo ukusintha ndipo lero ambirife tili osakwatiwa pambuyo pa makumi anayi. Mwayi kapena tsoka?

M'malo mwake, onani mbali yabwino ya kukhala nokha. Mutha kuchita chilichonse chomwe mungafune nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukufuna. Ndipo kuchita kukumana ndi munthu wokhwima, palibe ngati kuyenda. Chifukwa chake, mutha kuyang'ana bwenzi loyenda pamasamba odzipereka, kapena kusiya malo osayembekezeka kuti mupeze anthu okongola kwambiri pamalopo.

Inde, ulendo pambuyo pa makumi anayi umapereka zabwino zambiri:

• Mwazachuma, mutha kusankha mosavuta kopita maloto anu.
• Mumachoka pazochitika zanu ndikusiya nkhawa kunyumba.
• Ndinu omasuka ku kukumana kwatsopano kumalo osadziwika.
• Ndi zizindikiro zatsopano, mumaphunziranso kudzidziwitsa nokha ndikudzidziwa bwino komanso kudziwa zomwe mukufuna. 

Kuyenda patatha zaka makumi anayi osakwatiwa kumatanthauza kutha kuchita bwino ndikusangalala ndi zinthu zomwe mumakonda kwambiri.

Momwe mungapezere bwenzi mukuyenda

Ngati mumalota za kusinthanitsa kwathupi ndikukhala ndi nkhani yokongola yachikondi, pali njira zosiyanasiyana ndi malo abwino ku misonkhano pakati pa osakwatira.

Mwachitsanzo, mutha kusungitsa tikiti ku bungwe loyang'anira maulendo omwe amagwira ntchito zogona pakati pa anthu okha. Mudzakhalanso ndi mwayi ndi makampani ena kuti mudziwe mbiri ya anthu ena omwe amakwera nawo omwe amagawananso malo omwewo ngati inu. Muzopereka zamtunduwu, mwachiwonekere muli ndi mwayi wosankha pakati pa zonse zokhalamo komwe zonse zikuphatikizidwa (chipinda, chodyera ndi zochitika) kapena theka la bolodi. Mudzakhala ndi mwayi wosankha komwe mukupita kuchokera kumalingaliro osiyanasiyana: m'mphepete mwa nyanja, m'mapiri, pachilumba cha paradiso, m'dziko lachikondi ... zili ndi inu kuti muphatikize ulendo wanu molingana ndi zomwe mumakonda nyengo ndi mlengalenga.

Ndiye pali zibwenzi malo okhazikika kuyenda pakati osakwatiwa. Mumadziwana pa intaneti ndiyeno mwaganiza zopita limodzi komwe mukufuna. Mulinso ndi mwayi wolembetsa pa tsamba lomwe limapanga magulu onse osakwatiwa a dziko linalake kapena amtundu wina. Apanso mumatenga nthawi kuti muyang'ane mbiri zosiyanasiyana za mamembala anu kunyumba kwanu ndiyeno mumacheza kutali ndi munthu amene mukufuna. Ndipo ngati mayendedwe akuyenda bwino, ndiye kuti mutha kutenga tikiti yandege kuti mugwirizane naye ndikukumana naye mwakuthupi. Malo ochezera apaderawa amagwira ntchito ngati nsanja zachikhalidwe. Mukulembetsa kwaulere. Mumamaliza mbiri yanu ndikulemba malonda anu. Kenako mumayang'ana mbiri ya mamembala omwe adalembetsedwa kale. Wina akangokukondani, ndiye pamapulatifomu ena mumatulutsa zolembetsa zolipiridwa kuti muzitha kucheza. Koma mitengo nthawi zambiri imapezeka kwambiri komanso kwakanthawi kochepa (tsiku limodzi, sabata imodzi, mwezi umodzi, ndi zina).

Pomaliza, ngati muli ndi munthu wokonda kuchita zambiri, ndiye kuti mutha kusankha komwe mungapite komwe kumakusangalatsani ndikudzilola kuti mutengeke mukangopita kumisonkhano. Kupezeka kwina nthawi zonse kumabweretsa zodabwitsa kwa iwo omwe amadziwa kukhala omasuka ku zosayembekezereka.     

Malangizo athu oti musangalale ndi ulendowu ngati okhwima

Kuti mugwiritse ntchito mwayi wanu wonse ulendo ngati wokhwima, sankhani njira ndi kopita komwe mumakonda kwambiri. Palibe chifukwa cholowera m'njira zomwe simungakhale omasuka. Cholinga chachikulu ndicho kukusangalatsani.

Ndiye, nthawi zonse dzisamalireni nokha, maonekedwe anu kuti anyengerera mochenjera komanso mwachibadwa. Tikakhala paulendo, sitidziwa kwenikweni zomwe zingachitike miniti yotsatira, choncho tiyeni tikhale pamwamba pa nkhani yathu. Dziwani kuti izi sizikutanthauza kuchulutsanso. Koma osachepera, nthawi zonse khalani oyera pa inu, ovala bwino ndi opaka.

Osangokhala ongokhala pakona pomwe mukukhala. Pitani kokayenda. Tengani nawo mbali pazochita zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimapezeka patsamba. Nthawi izi ndi zabwino kukumana ndi anthu atsopano pazochitika zofanana.

Pomaliza, khalani osangalala nthawi zonse. Moyo ndi wokongola ndipo nthawi zonse umakhala ndi zodabwitsa kwambiri kwa iwo omwe amadziwa kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi umene amaperekedwa kwa iwo.