Ukuqonda iNzululwazi ngasemva komtsalane wevumba lomzimba
Hayi, ihlabathi elingaqondakaliyo lokutsala ivumba lomzimba! Ngaba wakha wazibuza ukuba kutheni umfana wakho ebonakala enandipha ivumba lakho elikhethekileyo? Ewe, masingene kwisayensi enomdla emva kwesi siganeko!
Kulungile, bopha njengoko sityhila iimfihlo ezifihliweyo kubunzulu beepheromones kunye namavumba omzimba. Ke, nantsi ingxaki – isoka lakho lisenokutsaleleka kwivumba lomzimba wakho ngenxa yeepheromones. Ezi zithunywa zemichiza zincinci zidlala indima enkulu ekuphembeleleni ukuziphatha kunye nokubonisa umtsalane. Kufana nendlela yendalo yokuthi, “Heyi, nobabini niyafanelana!”
Ngoku, khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni woku: Amadoda anokujoja ngokwenene xa ibhinqa lilayitiwe. Ewe, ufunda kakuhle! Ivumba lokubila kwakhe linokumenza avuseleleke, kwaye ukholelwe okanye hayi, amadoda ayayithanda kakhulu! Kufana nokuba namandla amakhulu anukayo.
Kodwa linda, kukho okungakumbi! Ngaba wakha wazibuza ukuba yintoni amavumba drive guys zasendle? Ukusuka kwi-vanilla ukuya kwi-pumpkin pie ukuya kwi-lily yentlambo - ezi ziqholo zingenza ukupela kuzo. Kufana nokuba nesixhobo esiyimfihlo kwindawo yakho yeziqholo.
Ngoku, masithethe nendlovu esegumbini – kutheni intombi yakho ikhangeleka inomdla ongaqhelekanga wokujoja iingalo zakho? Ewe, kuvela ukuba amadlala e-apocrine kule ndawo avelisa ivumba elikhethekileyo elinokwandisa umtsalane wesini. Ngubani owayenokucinga ukuba amakhwapha angabamba umtsalane onjalo?
Ngoko ke unayo - ukujonga kwihlabathi elingaqondakaliyo lokuvumba komzimba kunye nomtsalane. Ngaba unomdla wokufumana iinkcukacha ezinencindi engakumbi yokuba kutheni abantu betsalwa ngamavumba athile? Qhubeka ufunda kwaye wanelise umdla wakho! Ndithembe; ifumana umdla ngakumbi ukusuka apha!
Indima yeePheromones kubudlelwane bothando
Iipheromones zifana nesixhobo esiyimfihlo sikaCupid kumdlalo wothando, esikhokelela kumdlalo wethu ogqibeleleyo ngaphandle kokuba siyiqonde! Ke, kutheni le nto inkwenkwe yakho ibonakala ibambekile livumba lakho? Ewe, ngokophononongo olonwabisayo luka-2021, yonke into ifikelela kwimfuza - iDNA yakhe ifana nomazibuthe otsalwa kweyakho ngendlela ekhwaza "umdlalo ogqibeleleyo wokukhwelana!" Kufana neepheromones zakho zisebeza izinto ezimnandi ngqo entliziyweni yakhe.
Xa indoda yakho ibamba umoya weepheromones zakho, kufana nomlilo ophuma engqondweni yakhe! Ezo zithunywa zeekhemikhali zinamandla amakhulu - zinokuvusa iimvakalelo zesondo, umnqweno, kunye nokunyusa amanqanaba e-hormone kunye nokuchuma. Ingathi ivumba lakho linamandla omlingo wokumtshila ngothando!
Ngoku, makhe sijongane nemfihlakalo emva kokuba engakwazi ukufumana ngokwaneleyo ukuba unuka njani. Akunjalo malunga neepheromones kuphela; ukuhambelana kwemfuza nako kudlala indima kulo mtsalane wevumba elimnandi. Ngaphezu koko, kukho olo nxulumano oluhle analo nawe olumenza alinqwenele ngakumbi ivumba lakho. Kwaye masingawulibali umyalezo olula kodwa onamandla ogqithiswa ngokujoja umntu – ingayindlela yakhe yokubonakalisa uthando olunzulu nokusondela kuwe.
Ngoko ke, kwixesha elizayo xa umbhaqa ekusezela ixesha elide, khumbula ukuba ayisiso isiqholo sakho okanye ishampu enomtsalane; sisimfoni eyodwa yamavumba aphuma kuwe acula ingoma yomtsalane. Yamkela umtsalane wakho wendalo; Ngapha koko, kutheni uxhathisa xa ibhayoloji itsala imitya ngasemva?
Kutheni Isoka Lakho Lithanda Ivumba Lakho Elilodwa
Ngaba wakha wazibuza ukuba kutheni isoka lakho lithandeka kangaka ngevumba lakho elikhethekileyo? Ewe, kuvela ukuba ivumba lomzimba womntu linxulunyaniswa ngokuntsonkothileyo nomtsalane wesini. Isivamvo sethu sokujoja eneneni sidlala indima ebalulekileyo ekusincedeni singaqondi ukuba sibona amaqabane anokuba ngamaqabane anokudlulisela iimpawu ezintle kwinzala yethu. Okubangel 'umdla, ivumba lomzimba linokubonelela ngeempawu ezibalulekileyo malunga nomgangatho wemfuza, impilo, kunye nempumelelo yokuzala yeqabane elinokubakho.
Xa kufikwa kwisizathu sokuba isoka lakho lithande ivumba lakho kakhulu, uphando lwakutsha nje lunika ukukhanya kulo mba. Uphononongo lwango-2021 olupapashwe kwiNzululwazi yoBuchule lubonisa ukuba umtsalane kwivumba lomntu othile kunye neepheromones zinokubangelwa kukwakheka kwe-DNA yabo yahluke ngokupheleleyo kweyakho yokukhwelana. Oku kuhambelana kwemfuza kudala ukutsalwa nguzibuthe okutsalela kuwe ngeendlela ezingaphaya kokuqonda.
Ukongeza, umtsalane wamavumba athile unokubalelwa kwindibaniselwano yezinto ezifana neepheromones kunye nobudlelwane obuhle kunye neqabane lakho. Loo mtsalane umazibuthe uziva ngakwivumba lomntu xa utsalelekile kuye? Kufana namandla angabonakaliyo akhokelwa yioxytocin – edla ngokubizwa “njengehomoni yothando” – ebonisa umtsalane wakho ongekho ngqondweni kwivumba lawo elahlukileyo.
Ngoko ke, ukuba uzifumana utsaleleka ekunukeni iingalo zomfana wakho (ewe, kuxhaphake kakhulu kunokuba ucinga), yibeke ityala kwinzululwazi! Abasetyhini banomdla ngokwemvelo kwi-androstenol, ikhemikhali yendalo efunyenwe kwi-sweat yamadoda entsha eyenza impendulo yeekhemikhali kwingqondo yabasetyhini ekhokelela ekwandeni kwamanqanaba e-cortisol - eyona hormone yoxinzelelo. Ngubani owaziyo ukuba into ebonakala ingathandeki njengokubila inokudlala indima ebalulekileyo kubomi bethu bentlalo kunye nobudlelwane?
Ngokwenyani, xa uzifumana utyhila kwivumba lomzimba wendalo yeqabane lakho okanye ngokuphambeneyo, akukhona nje ukonwabela ivumba elimnandi; ingena nzulu ngakumbi kwithuku lethu lokuqala kunye neminqweno engaphantsi kokuqonda. Khumbula, ukuba ukusezela okufihlakeleyo okanye ukuwola ivumba labo kunokuthetha unxibelelwano olunzulu lweemvakalelo kunye nentuthuzelo ngaphaya koko kuhlangana nempumlo!
Kutheni umfana wam ethanda ivumba lomzimba wam?
Xa uthandana, ivumba leqabane lakho liba yindlela yokuchonga loo mntu nokuba awusoloko uyazi ngokupheleleyo. Ivumba labo liba yintuthuzelo kunye nomthombo weemvakalelo ezakhayo, ngoko ufika uyonwabele.
Ngaba indoda inganuka xa umfazi emanzi?
Amadoda ayakwazi ukunuka xa umfazi evuliwe ngenxa yevumba lokubila kwakhe, kwaye bayathanda, ngokophando olutsha.
Leliphi ivumba elinomtsalane kubafana?
Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba iqabane labo linuka kamnandi ngenxa yeepheromones, eziyimichiza esebenza njengamahomoni angaphandle komzimba, aphembelela ukuziphatha kwabanye. Kwizilwanyana, iipheromones zibonisa ukuba lixesha lokukhwelana okanye ukulumkisa ngokusondela kweentshaba.
Kutheni intombi yam ithanda ukunuka amakhwapha?
Ukujoja iingalo zakhe kunokwandisa umtsalane wesini. Amadlala e-Apocrine, adala ukubila kwe-armpit ekhethekileyo, avelisa ivumba elikhethekileyo elibalulekileyo kwi-foreplay yesondo.