Il uzityand’ igila kuwe
A ukukulungela ukuphendu-, uba nobuganga bokuthetha izinto zobuqu angazange wazithetha nakubani na okanye ngokunqabileyo kakhulu. Lo ngumqondiso wokuba unentembelo epheleleyo kuwo ukukulungela ukuphendu-, ukuba ufuna ukuvula kunye nokudala iqhina lokwenene lokusebenzisana.
Ifuna ntoni indoda? L'umntu ufuna ukuqonda ukulawula ngokufanelekileyo imfuno. Une udinga ukuziva uluncedo kwaye unobuchule. Indlela ecacileyo yonxibelelwano ivumela iumntu ukuqondana kakuhle kwaye singaziva singenamandla xa sijongana neentetho okanye imibuzo yethu qungokuqinisekileyo uya kutolika ngendlela engeyiyo.
Xa umfazi ezityand’ igila kuwe? Oku umfazi inokuba nayo ngokwayo ukuvuma à ukukulungela ukuphendu-. Yena ukukulungela ukuphendu- ngokuqinisekileyo uthetha izinto angazixeleli mntu wumbi, nezibalulekile kuye. Yena ukukulungela ukuphendu- uyathemba, kwaye unqwenela ukuba ukukulungela ukuphendu- unokuyifumana kwaye uyazi ngala magama.
ngakumbi Wazi njani ukuba indoda inomdla kuwe?
Ndizokwazi njani ukuba indoda iyandithanda?
Qaphela indoda esemathandweni : yonke imiqondiso engakhohlisiyo!
- Un umntu othandweni silumkele. ...
- Un umntu othandweni thanda ukusijonga emehlweni. ...
- Un umntu othandweni phendula ifowuni. ...
- Un umntu othandweni ngamanye amaxesha iba yi-gaga. ...
- Un umntu othandweni wenza iinzame zokusihenda.
Yintoni umntu ayifunayo ukuze aphile? 1. I iimfuno okubalulekileyo: indlala, unxano, ukuphelisa, ukugcina de ubushushu bomzimba, ukuphefumla, indawo yokuhlala, ukulala, isini. Ezo iimfuno Physiological ze iimfuno ulwaneliseko lukabani Est kubalulekile okanye kuyimfuneko galela ukusinda.
Ziziphi iimfuno zokwenene zamadoda? Imiba emithathu ka-Alderfer
- Le udinga ubukho buhambelana neendidi ezimbini ezisisiseko zePiramidi ye iimfuno kaMaslow: ukhuseleko kunye iimfuno ngokwasemzimbeni. …
- Le udinga of sociability: umntu unayo udinga yothando kunye nobudlelwane. …
- Le udinga yokukhula: umntu unalo udinga ukuchuma.
Kutheni umntu efuna intsingiselo? I sens Sidibanise kuthi nakwihlabathi kwaye singongeza kubo ubuntununtunu obunefuthe ngakumbi apho sibabona njengabanye.
Indlela yokuqonda umfazi okuthandayo?
Ukuba a intombazana uyakuthanda, angakujonga emehlweni xa ungathethi okanye athobe amehlo xa umjongile. Jonga ukuba ubamba iinwele zakhe, intamo, ikhola okanye imilebe xa ethetha nawe, okanye uyancuma ngakumbi que ngokuqhelekileyo xa ukhona.
Xa umfazi esinika isiteketiso? Naka u iifani.
Isenokuba yenye indlela ukukulungela ukuphendu- qhula ngobunono. Ukuba wonke umntu ukukulungela ukuphendu- fowuna nomntu othile isiqhulo kwaye ukuba naye uyayenza, loo nto ayithethi nto. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uqamba a isiqhulo galela ukukulungela ukuphendu-, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba encwasa ukukulungela ukuphendu-.
Ziintoni iimpawu zomfazi othandweni?
Ukuqaphela a umfazi othandweni , kwanele ukuthembela kwezo zisixhenxe zimpawu kulandela!
- Usafuna ukumbhalela. ...
- Uhleka iziqhulo zakhe (ezimbi) ...
- Ube ngumlandeli wezinto ezincinci. ...
- Uceba naye ixesha elide. ...
- Ufuna ukuyiveza kubahlobo bakho.
Ndazi njani ukuba kukho umntu onomdla kum? Ezinye iimpawu azikhohlisi, ziqala ngenkangeleko. Ukuba uchitha ixesha lakhe ekubukele, luphawu oluhle kakhulu. Yiba nobulumko, kodwa ujonge abafundi bakhe. Si zibanzi, luphawu lomtsalane ongenakuphikiswa.
Ndazi njani ukuba ndiyamtsala ngokwasemzimbeni?
Ukuqhelaniswa nomzimba wakhe kwakhona luphawu olucacileyo lwe bazi ukuba kunjalo utsaliwe. Ngokuzithoba, uya kuhlala ejika kwicala lakho kwaye amagxa akhe aya kujongana nawe. Kwakhona uya kusondela kuwe ngokusemandleni ukwenza ubumfihlo (kwaye uthintele abanye ukuba bahambe kude naye).
Wazi njani ukuba indoda isemathandweni kude?
Un umntu othandweni uyayazi indlela yokujongana nayo umgama kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha.
L 'uthando lomgama omde ngokungathandabuzekiyo yeyona nto ibeka iimvakalelo kuvavanyo kakhulu. Kodwa'umntu othandweni uyakwazi ukujongana nabo. Ukhona, ukulindile xa ulibele ngokugqithisileyo, uzokubona xa ukude kakhulu.
Ziziphi iimfuno zomntu? Isikali sokureyitha seshumi elinesine iimfuno ngokutsho kweVirginia...
- 1 - Isidingo ukuphefumla. I-1 - Ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. …
- 2 - Isidingo ukutya nokusela. …
- 3 - Ukuphelisa. …
- I-4 -Hamba kwaye ugcine ukuma kakuhle. …
- 5 – Lala kwaye uphumle. …
- 6 - Ukunxiba kunye nokukhulula. …
- I-7 - Gcina ubushushu bayo. …
- I-8 - Hlambuluka, khusela i-integment yakho.
Yintoni ingcamango yesidingo? Ingcaciso.
Un udinga yimvakalelo yokuvinjwa, yokuswela, ehambelana ne ngcamango umnqweno, umntu afuna ukuwuphelisa ngokusetyenziswa kokulungileyo. lo imfuno echaziweyo okanye efihlakeleyo, umntu okanye iqela.
Ziziphi iimfuno zam?
Les iimfuno Yintoni le ?
- Ukufezekiswa kufunda, qeqesha, dala, negalelo, ifilosofi...
- Uyixabisile intlonipho kuwe nakwabanye, ukuvakalisa izimvo kunye neengcinga zakhe...
- Ukuba nothando, ukuthandwa, ukuba nabahlobo, ukuba yinxalenye yeqela...
- Ukhuseleko lwendawo yokuhlala, izixhobo, ukhuseleko lomzimba, impilo…
Kutheni umntu engenakwanelisa ngokulula iimfuno zakhe? Thina ne kungaba wanelisekile uninzi lwethu iimfuno kuphela phantsi komqathango wokusinika isohlwayo, esithe kungaba kuthathwa njengokubandezeleka. Kuyafana nangesenzo esithi, sisebenzisa ubukhosi obubekekileyo phezu kweminqweno yethu, sinyanzelisa ukuvinjwa kuthi.
Kutheni iimfuno zabantu zingenasiphelo? Ingcali yezoqoqosho ichaza ukunqongophala njengemeko apho iimfuno neminqweno ibugqwesa ubuncwane obukhoyo ukuze banelise. […] Yethu iimfuno kwaye iminqweno yethu ayigqithisi kuphela izibonelelo ezikhoyo: enyanisweni, zona sont olungenasiphelo, phambi kobutyebi abathi, bona, sont umda okanye unomda.
Ngubani onokwanelisa iimfuno?
Amaqela qui vumela uku wanelisekile ce udinga baninzi: intsapho, inkampani, uluntu lwezenkolo, iqela lezopolitiko, umbutho, iklabhu, iqela labantu abatsha, njl.
Kutheni usenza ubomi bakho bube nenjongo?
Fumana intsingiselo kwi ubukho eMhlabeni bukwanika impembelelo yokukhusela la impilo. Abantu abacalulayo a sens kuzo impilo babenomngcipheko osezantsi wokubhubha, nokuba kukuhlaselwa yintliziyo, ukubetha kwentliziyo okanye isifo sengqondo esiyingozi.
Ngaba kuxhomekeke emntwini ukwenza ubomi bakhe bube nenjongo? Ngamanye amazwi, wonke umntu uyapha intsingiselo yobomi bakhe ngentliziyo yakhe, ingqondo yakhe nezandla zakhe. Ukusondela ntoni ukunika du intsingiselo yobomi bakhe kunokuthetha ukuba, siya kuphonononga la macala mathathu: ubudlelwane obuchaphazelekayo, iinkolelo zobuqu kunye nesenzo. Masiqale nge-affective dimension.
Lithini ifuthe loluntu emntwini?
Ngaloo ndlela kunokutshiwo ukuba i inkampani umlo ngokuchasene nobume beumntu n14, ekubeni ehlala ethintela ithuku lakhe. Ngaphezu koko, i inkampani ufunda ukuumntu ukulandela imigaqo, nto leyo ethetha ukuba nakuphi na ukuzenzela Est uxhatshazwa. I uluntu lu ngoko ke into yenkcubeko eguqula ubume beumntu.