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Imiyalezo yokuBhiyozela uBokuzalwa yaBantu baBalaseleyo: Ebomini, ayikho enye into eyonwabisayo njengokufika kosana olutsha. Okomzuzwana, kukho nje iphupha lalo mntu ungaziwayo, kodwa sele ethandwa.

Ngaba umntu omthandayo okanye umhlobo wakho usisihlobo? Ngesi sihlandlo sikhethekileyo, xelela umama notata omtsha ukuba wonwabe kangakanani kwaye ubanqwenelele lonke uvuyo kunye namandla okwamkela ubuzali nokuba yintoni engcono kunale amagama awodwa, amakhadi kunye neminqweno yokuzalwa ?

Ewe kuyinyhweba ukuba yinxalenye yekomiti yokwamkela lo mntu mtsha kraca. Yile nto uyenzayo xa ukhetha ifayile ye- ukuzalwa kosana olugqibeleleyo ukuvuyisana nombhalo kwaye ukongeza ukubamba kwakho ngokobuqu kuyo.

Kule nqaku, sabelana nawe ngokukhetha Imiyalezo emihle yokuzalwa ukuthumela kubazali be chaza iminqweno yakho yokuzalwa kwentombazana, inkwenkwe namawele.

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Usana olutsha lufana nesiqalo esitsha: ithemba, ukumangala namaphupha azo zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka.

Ngaba ayingommangaliso ukuba umntwana omtsha azalwe? Kwaye xa loo mntu mncinci eziswa emhlabeni ngumntu omaziyo (umhlobo olungileyo, ilungu losapho, okanye umntu osebenza naye), inentsingiselo ngakumbi.

Ikhadi elenzelwe umntu eligcwele amagama okubhiyozela ngokuqinisekileyo lilungile, kodwa ngowuphi umyalezo wokuzalwa ovuyisayo wokuzibhalela ngaphakathi?

Ngaphambi kokujongana nemeko nganye ngemizekelo yeetekisi zokuvuyisana ngokuzalwa, nantsi eminye iingcebiso kunye namaqhinga okugcina engqondweni xa ubhala ikhadi lakho elilandelayo lokuhlamba umntwana :

• Ukuba ikhadi ulibeka kubazali, soloko ujongana nabo bobabini (banikwe indima yabo kubomi bosana).
• Ungajongana nosapho lonke ukuba ubazi kakuhle, okanye usana nje ukubamba ubumnandi.
• Zive ukhululekile ukwemba nzulu kumakhadi kubahlobo abasenyongweni okanye kumalungu osapho, njengokuxelela ukuba unebhongo ngabo.
• Kubantu obazi kancinci, baxelele ukuba wonwabile ngabo kwaye (ukuba kufanelekile) ngomntwana.
• Gwema izihloko ezinjengokuzalwa, abantwana bexesha elizayo, okanye ingcebiso yokuba ngumzali.
• Khumbula ukunqwenelela umntwana nabazali amathamsanqa

Kwisifundo esinye: Uluhlu lwemiyalezo engama-45 emifutshane, yolonwabo kunye nemiyalezo elula yokuzalwa

Ngaphandle koko, unokuthenga okanye wenze ikhadi lakho eliqonda utshintsho olukhulu ebomini abakuyo. Menze azi ukuba umkhathalele kwaye umkhumbuze ukuba uhlala ukhona ukuba ufuna inkxaso yakho ngendlela emfutshane nethembekileyo.

Ukongeza inqaku elibhalwe ngesandla kwikhadi lakho kuhlala kukuchukumisa okuhle, kubandakanya nokutyikitya kwakho. Zombini ezi zinto ziya kwazisa abazali abatsha ukuba ubakhathalele.

Ukufunda >> Indlela yokubhala umyalezo ochukumisayo ukunqwenela usuku oluhle lokuzalwa?

Izikhokelo zoMyalezo wokuBhiyozela ukuzalwa

Nokuba ngumntwana wokuqala okanye wesibini (okanye wesithathu, okanye wesine) umntwana, ukuba nomntwana ziindaba ezimnandi nezonwabisayo. Nokuba oku kuthetha ukuba ubomi babazali buya kutshintsha kakhulu, ihlala iyinto elungileyo. Yazisa abazali ukuba wonwabe kangakanani ngabo.

Xa ubhala isicatshulwa esivuyisayo ekhadini lomntu olindele ukuba nomntwana omtsha kungekudala (okanye umntu osandula ukuba nosana olutsha), ukuvuyisana kulungile.

Mbonise indlela onwabe ngayo ngeli xesha likhulu ebomini bakhe kwaye umkhumbuze ukuba ungumhlobo omkhulu. apha zi ukuzalwa kuvuyisana imiyalezo templates ukuba ungenza ngokusesikweni kubo ngokwemfuneko yakho.

1. Ngokuqinisekileyo unemvakalelo enkulu yokuba ubambe ezingalweni zakho lo mntwana ubuthathaka, lo mntwana kudala umlindile. Yinyamekele kakuhle ingelosi yakho encinci, eya kuba yimitha yokwenene yelanga ekhayeni lakho! Ndiyakuvuyela!
2. Usana olutsha lufana nesiqalo esitsha: ithemba, ukumangala namaphupha azo zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka.
3. Siyavuyisana nabazali abatsha! Isahluko esitsha siqalisile! Ukudityaniswa kwamaxesha ethenda, amava amatsha kunye neemvakalelo ezintsha, esi sahluko siya kuba sesona sihle ebomini bakho! Yonwabela wonke umzuzu!
4. Savuya kakhulu sakuva ngokuzalwa komntwana wakho. Sivumele ukuba sidlulise amazwi okuvuyisana nawe ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye sinqwenelele umama owonwabileyo ukuchacha ngokukhawuleza.
5. Siyavuya ukuva ngokuzalwa kommangaliso wakho omncinci. Lonke usapho lundijoyina ngokukuthumelela ukuvuyisana okunyanisekileyo. Intsomi entle yongeze kusapho! Ngamana ubomi bakhe bunokuba mnandi, buhle kwaye buzaliswe luthando!
6. Olunjani lona usana oluhle kwaye ligama elithandekayo, ndabelana novuyo lwakho! Ndiyakuvuyela !! Khange ndiyishiye ifowuni yam kwaye yilezo ndaba kudala zilindelwe zafika, ukuba ndonwabile! Siyavuyisana!
7. Ndikunqwenelela ukuvuyisana nokuzalwa kwentombi / unyana wakho omhle.
8. Uyabonwabisa abazali bakho, kodwa hayi kuphela! Ndixakiwe kukufika kwakho kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ndiza kukwazi ukufumana amava kunye nawe, ndikwenze ufumanise umhlaba, ukuthanda kwam kwaye ngakumbi ukuba ndabelana nokwakho.
9. Umntwana wakho ekugqibeleni ufikile kwaye sonwabile! Siyavuyisana nosapho kwaye ndininqwenelela okuhle [igama lakho], ubomi obugcwele uvuyo kunye nokufumanisa! Ozithobileyo.
10. Uthando lube yinto yokwenene. Ndonwabile kakhulu ngenxa yenu.
11. Samkela umntwana wakho omtsha ngeminqweno emihle yempilo, yolonwabo kunye nokulala okuninzi.
12. Ndikunqwenela ixesha lokuphila ulonwabo wena kunye nosapho lwakho olukhulayo.
13. Ndonwabe kakhulu kuni nobabini! Uza kuba lusana olunethamsanqa.
14. Sinqwenela ulonwabo lwanaphakade, uvuyo oluninzi kunye neendlela ezintathu ezihlekisayo.
15. Ndiyakuvuyela ngolu sana luhle!

Wamkelekile kumncinci (igama lokuqala)! Iminqweno emihle kubo bobathathu!

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Imiyalezo evuyisayo Ukuzalwa kweNtombazana

Incinci intombazana luvuyo, sisipho esivela ezulwini. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuthumela umyalezo omfutshane, omnandi wokuvuyisana ngokuzalwa kwentombi okanye "ulonwabo kuwe", ngakumbi xa uluvo olushicilelweyo ekhadini sele lubonakalisile ubukhulu becala okanye yonke loo nto ubuyithetha.

Nalu uluhlu lwezona zilungileyo ntombi yokuzalwa iyavuyisana nemiyalezo ukwenza ukuvuyisana kwakho kube kokobuqu kwaye kungalibaleki.

1. Siyavuyisana! Andikwazi ukulinda ukudibana nomfazi omtsha ebomini bakho.
2. Ndiyakuvuyela ngokuzalwa komntwana wakho oyintombazana! Ndinqwenela impilo eninzi, uvuyo nothando kulo doli mncinci sele ehlafuna. Ukwanga kubo bobathathu!
3. Wamkelekile kwigama elihle (igama lokuqala) kunye nokuvuyisana nabazali abancinci! Uya kufumanisa uvuyo lokuba ngumzali: abantwana ngumthombo ongapheliyo wovuyo. Yonwabela yonke imizuzu, kwaye uphinde wenze kakuhle!
4. Igama elihle (igama lokuqala) lazalwa: ummangaliso omncinci wobomi oya kugcwalisa lonke usapho ngovuyo kunye nokuthantamisa. Konke ukuvuyela kwam kwesi siganeko sonwabe! Lumka: Iintsuku ziya kubonakala ngathi zinde ngamanye amaxesha, ukanti ixesha liya kudlula. Konwabele ukumangaliswa kwakho okuncinci.
5. Siyavuyisana ngokuzalwa kwenkosazana yakho entle nenencasa! Ngamana uncumo lwakhe oluncinci kunye nokuzanga kwakho kungagcwalisa iintliziyo zakho ngeenkumbulo ezimnandi!
6. Ndiyakuvuyela inkosazana yakho yangomso. Ndiqinisekile uyakuba ngumama ovusa inkanuko! Ubumnandi obukhulu buza kuqala kungekudala. Lungiselela kakuhle kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba kuyakuba mnandi!
7. Umntwana omtsha uyeza ekhayeni lakho, kwaye andinakuba nakratshi! Ingelosi yakho encinci iya kuba nakho ukuthatha amanyathelo ayo okuqala, ibhengeze amazwi ayo okuqala, ikhule ingenangxaki kwikhaya elinothando. Andithandabuzi ukuba uyakuyizalisa intsomi yakho ngothando, kwaye ungxame kanye kuphela: ukuze ukwazi ukudibana naye! Ndikuncamisa kakhulu kwaye ndikuxelele ngokukhawuleza.
8. Kuyamangalisa ukwazi ukuba usana lwakho oluyintombazana luzelwe! Ndiqinisekile uyakuba lolona luqwalasele abazali! Halala kuni nobabini!
9. Ndonwabile ukuva ngokuzalwa kwegama [lokuqala]. Ndiqinisekile ukuba niza kuba ngabazali abakhulu abaza kuhlangabezana neemfuno zenkosazana encinci yokwenyani. Halala kuni nobabini!
10. Inkosazana entsha izelwe! Ndiyavuyisana nawe ngokuzalwa kwentombi yakho entle kakhulu. Wamkelekile kulo nodoli mncinci kunye neminqweno emihle kubazali abancinci. Kwangathi ubomi bakho bobathathu bungazaliswa lulonwabo nothando!
11. Siyavuyisana! Wanga uThixo angalusikelela usana lwakho oluyintombazana olusempilweni kunye nozuko lwasezulwini.
12. Ulonwabo, impilo kunye noncumo ngamawaka. Thatha ithuba la maxesha axabisekileyo kunye nokuchacha okuhle kumama.
13. Sithumela uthando oluninzi kunye neentsikelelo kusana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa oluyintombazana kuba lufanelwe yiyo yonke into elungileyo. Siyavuyisana.
14. Utata uya kusoloko uliqhawe lentombazana yakhe encinci kunye nomama wokuzithemba! Ndikunqwenela konke okona kulungileyo kunye nobuncwane bakho obuncinci!
15. UThixo uthumele eyona ntyatyambo intle ukuba ihombise indlu yakho. Ndiyakuvuyela ukuba ngabazali bentombazana encinci. Ukuqenelela okuhle kakhulu.
16. Ndive nje iindaba ezimnandi. Ndiyakuvuyela ngokuzalwa kwentombi yakho. Andikwazi kulinda ukuba ndidibane nenkosazana entsha.

Yamkela ukunyaniseka kwam Ndiyakuvuyela kwi naissance yakho intombazana. Uyonwaba kakhulu ukuba nabazali abafana nani nobabini: unobubele, ulungile, unenkathalo, uyakhathala, uyathandeka. Oko kwakhe naissance izisa ulonwabo olukhulu ebomini bakho.

Ukuzalwa kwenkwenkwe izicatshulwa ezivuyisayo

Inkwenkwana izisa uvuyo olukhulu kusapho. Ukufika kosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa kuthathwa njengelona xesha limyoli kuwo nawuphi na umzali. Ukuba usondele kwisibini esisandula ukwamkela umntwana oyinkwenkwe kusapho lwaso, lixesha lokuba uvuyisane nabo ngokuxabisa ukufika komntwana oyinkwenkwe.

Indlela ukuvuyisana ngokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe? Ukukunceda ukuba ubhale imiyalezo yakho, nolu uluhlu lweyona mibhalo ilungileyo yokuzalwa yokuvuyisana neetekisi ukuvuyisana nabazali.

1. Kuluvuyo olukhulu ukwazi ukuba ningabazali! Namhlanje sithumela iminqweno yethu emihle kule nkwenkwe, sinethemba lokuyibona kungekudala. Iingcinga zobuhlobo.
2. Siyavuyisana ngokufudumeleyo! Le ndoda incinci izelwe iya kukwenza ube namava, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyolo kunye neqhayiya lokuba ngabazali.
3. Ezinjani ukuba mnandi iindaba zokufika kuka [igama lakho] ! Sijonge ukudibana naye kwakamsinya kwaye sininqwenelela ixesha lokonwaba losapho. Ozithobileyo.
4. Ngale mini ingalibalekiyo, fumana ukuncoma kwethu ngokunyanisekileyo ngosana lwakho oluhle! Sonke siphelelwe ngumonde ukudibana naye. Ngothando.
5. Kuluvakalelo olukhulu ukuba sifunda ngokuzalwa komntwana wakho omncinci (igama lokuqala). Lonke usapho lundijoyina ekuvakaliseni amazwi okuvuyisana nawe. Nandipha lonke ixesha lolonwabo oluziswe yile ngelosi incinci.
6. Kuyasivuyisa ukuva ngokuzalwa komntwana wakho oyinkwenkwe; le nto incinci yeza emhlabeni ukuze intliziyo yakho iphuphume luthando kunye nomsa.
7. UMnu noNksk. (Igama) bangathanda ukwamkela lo mncinci <…> kwaye bamthumelele eyona minqweno inyanisekileyo.
8. Mnu noNksk. (Igama) bakuthumelela konke ukuvuyisana ngokuzalwa konyana wakho (igama lokuqala), kwaye bamthumelele iminqweno emihle yempilo nolonwabo.
9. Uthatha okuninzi kubazali bakhe. Kusivuyisa kakhulu ukuva ngokuzalwa konyana wakho!
10. Xa abantu ababini abathandanayo bazala umntu omncinci onothando. Kukuba ulonwabo luhlwayela ebomini babo uvuyo lokuphila ngonaphakade.
11. Uyinkwenkwana 'Mkhulu! Singamnika ilori yomlilo ene-siren, okanye igubu. Mange kancinane kuthi, kwakhona… Yamkela ukuvuyisana kwethu.
12. Siyavuyisana nawe mama omncinci notata! Ngoku ulusapho, usapho oluhle kakhulu noluthandekayo! Ndijonge phambili kukuhlangana nawe uhamba nengelosi yakho encinci sithandwa sam! ukwanga okuthathu kuwe!
13. Ndiyakuvuyela ngokuzalwa komntwana! Njengoko uya konwaba ngakumbi. Olu sana lunethamsanqa. Ngokwenene! ngethamsanqa ukuba nomama omhle kangaka kunye notata onoxanduva.
14. Ndiyakuvuyela ngokufika komncinci wakho! Isilo esincinci esongezelelweyo, esiya kukunika umsebenzi, ukuze ungaqali ukukruquka! Andikwazi kulinda ukudibana naye!
15. Umntwana ekugqibeleni ulapha! Siyavuyisana nabazali abonwabileyo balo mntu mncinci ekufuneka, ngokuqinisekileyo, sele enyibilikile iintliziyo zenu. Siqinisekile ukuba inezimanga ezimbalwa ezigcinelwe wena. Ndiyakuvuyela kwaye ndikubone kungekudala ukuba ubonise uthando lwakho oluncinci kuthi.

Siyavuyisana nokufika konyana wakho! Okokugqibela, yonke iminqweno yakho izalisekisiwe. Wanga umfana omncinci angabusiswa ngempilo entle, ulonwabo kunye nokuchuma ebomini bakhe bonke.

Imiyalezo emihle yokuzalwa yokuqala yokuvuyisana namawele

ukuba yitsho kuvuyiswana namawele : Le miyalezo isampulu kunye namabinzana amawele, amaphepha amathathu, kunye nokuphindaphindeka kwenza ukuba kube lula kubazali abatsha okanye abalindele ukuba babhale ikhadi lakho.

Ewe ungasebenzisa umyalezo wesampula wosana olunye (inkwenkwe / intombazana) ukusuka kula macandelo angentla kwaye uyihlengahlengise ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa inye Umyalezo wokuqala kunye nozuko lokuzalwa komntwana oswelekileyo isoloko imnandi ngakumbi ukufunda. Rhoqo, unokuzilungelelanisa ngokulula izivakalisi kathathu nokuphindaphindeka.

1. Siyavuyisana nabazali abatsha! Nina niphumelele ngethamsanqa yedosi ephindwe kabini yothando, ukwangana kunye nokwanga. Yonwabela iziqwenga zakho ezimbini zeklabishi!
2. Ukuzalwa kwamawele lithenda kunye noxinzelelo ngexesha elinye. Kodwa uthando luhlala loyisa, ngakumbi xa liphindaphindwe kabini! Ndiyakuvuyela!
3. Ikhadi elihle leTekisi yokuvuyisana nabazali abonwabileyo ekufikeni kweothando ezimbini ezincinci. Ikhadi eliqaqambileyo elinemibala lilungele ngokugqibeleleyo ukufika kwamawele okanye amawele. Ndiyakuvuyela
4. Siyavuyisana kabini negama lakho elincinci (igama lokuqala) kunye nelincinci (igama lokuqala). Ubomi obutsha obugcwele ukulindela!
5. Iithoyi ezithambileyo, amanabukeni, iibhotile, ukuwola… Iintsana zifikile ekugqibeleni! Siyavuyisana nawe!
6. Ukuba namawele kufana nokungena kwinkanyamba entle. Ijika yonke into ijonge ezantsi, ijika yonke into ijonge ezantsi, kodwa siphuma sincuma kunye neenkumbulo ezininzi ezixabisekileyo.
7. Ndonwabe ngakumbi kukufunda ngokuzalwa (kwegama lokuqala kunye nelokugqibela), ndafumanisa ukuba amawele akho amnandi. Enjani yona ingxwabangxwaba ebomini! Ubusuku obulandelayo bunokuba nzima, kodwa kufanelekile, luthando oluphindwe kabini kunolo. Ndiyabamkela ngothando kwaye ngelixa ndilinde ukuba ndibabone ndiyakucela ukuba wamkele esi sipho sincinci egameni lomzala ozele luvuyo.
8. Ukuzalwa kwamawele akho ziindaba ezimnandi! Igama lakho elincinci (igama lokuqala) kunye nelincinci (igama lokuqala) liya kuzisa uvuyo ebomini bakho. Ndiyakuvuyela ngokuzalwa kabini!
9. Ingwamza kufanele ukuba yayikwimo entle namhlanje. Zimbini endaweni enye! Uthando oluphindwe kabini kunye nolonwabo oluphindwe kabini! Siyavuyisana.
10. Umama wayefuna inkwenkwana kwaye utata intombazana encinci. Wanelisekile! Intle encinci (igama lokuqala) kunye nentle encinci (igama lokuqala) zikhombe nje incam yempumlo. Siyavuyisana!
11. Ukuzalwa nomlingane wakho obalaseleyo, ayisiyiyo eyona nto intle yeziqalo? Ndiyakuvuyela nonke!
12. Ndiyakuvuyela umama notata! Uphumelele nje idosi ephindwe kabini yothando! Yeyiphi ithamsanqa! Yonwabela uthando lwakho oluncinci.
13. Molo, sisiganeko esihle kangaka ukuzalwa komntwana wokuqala kubazali abatsha, kufanelekile ukuqaqambisa. Ngokukodwa xa zi-binoculars! Ndiyakuvuyela.
14. Ukuzalwa ngexesha elinye neqabane lakho lomphefumlo ... ngaba ikhona enye indlela engcono yokuza emhlabeni? Siyavuyisana nabazali abonwabileyo be (igama lokuqala) kunye (negama lokuqala)!
15. Ubufuna intombazana. Wayefuna inkwenkwe. Ngoku unamawele! Unentlahla ! Intombazana entle entle nenkwenkwana entle ebonakala ngathi ziingelosi! Wenze kakuhle !

Siyavuyisana ngokufudumeleyo ngokuzalwa kwamawele akho! Kusivuyisa kakhulu ukubona usapho lwakho nolonwabo kunye neentsana ezisempilweni. Enkosi ngokusivumela ukuba sabelane nawe ngolu lonwabo!

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Iitekisi zokuzalwa ezivuyisayo kunye noburharha

Ngaba ujonge isicatshulwa esihlekisayo esithi "Siyavuyisana" ngexesha lokuzalwa (intombazana okanye inkwenkwe)? Ukuba uthumela ikhadi elitsha lomntwana kwaye ungazi ukuba ubhale ntoni, jonga eyethu izimvo zokuzalwa izicatshulwa ezivuyisayo ngoncumo apha ngezantsi kwaye ukhethe eyona uyithandayo!

Iminqweno evuyisayo ithunyelwa ngamakhadi okanye ngemiyalezo kubazali abanqwenelela amathamsanqa usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Ndiyabulela kule minqweno, abazali abatsha baya kuba babodwa kwaye bayatotelwa ngumthumeli. Umntu unokuthumela izipho kunye namakhadi abazali kunye nosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa.

1. Siyavuyisana nokuthengwa kwewotshi yakho yealam! Wenze utyalo-mali oluhle kakhulu!
2. Siyavuyisana kwaye makuqale ingxolo!
3. Siyavuyisana nabazali abanethamsanqa! Ukonwabele ukwenza iJava ubusuku bonke, ndiqinisekile ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukunceda uqhubeke ngokusemandleni abo. Ndinqwenela ukuba asoloko eyazi indlela yokuviwa!
4. Iminyaka embalwa enzima ngakumbi kwaye uya kuba nakho ukonwabela ngokupheleleyo imidlalo yebhola engceni, imihla yokuzalwa nabahlobo besikolo, ii-booms kunye nokujonga eskolweni. Khange sikulumkise ngaphambili?
5. Siyavuyisana noMama owayesazi indlela yokuqinisekisa iinyanga ezili-9, ndinqwenela ukuba uTata omtsha abe njengalo msebenzi, ngobabalo nangobungangamsha, kwaye oku kube lixesha elincinci. Umnqweno omhle !
6. Kumhlobo wam osenyongweni, ndenza amazwi okuvuyisana naye ngokunyanisekileyo ngokuzalwa kosana. Ndiqinisekile ukuba uxakeke ngumsebenzi wokutshintsha amanabukeni kunye nokuziqhelanisa nosana lwakho.
7. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, ubunomdla wokudibana nosana lwakho oluncinci. Uye wafika ekugqibeleni! Ndiyakuvuyela ukuba ngumama notata womntwana othandekayo!
8. Ndinithumelela ukuvuyisana ngokunyanisekileyo ngokuzalwa kwe- [IGAMA LOKUQALA] Ayingo [IGAMA LOKUQALA] kuphela ozalwe ngomhla [WOMHLA] kodwa nobabini, kuba nibe ngabazali!
9. Amehlo amahle, iphetshana leendlebe, iminwe elishumi, iinyawo ezimbini ezintle, ngamafutshane, ukuhanjiswa kugqityiwe ... Igama lomntwana (ligama lokuqala), kwaye ubomi bulungile.
10. Ndifumene nje ukuba kukho umfana omtsha mhle kusapho! Andikwazi kulinda ukudibana naye ukuze ndimazi!

Ukuba abazali bakho babengenabantwana, kunokwenzeka ukuba nawe awuzange ube nabo.

Nantsi into onokucinga ngayo… Yintoni eqinisekileyo kukuba usandul 'ukuba nomntwana kwaye uyamangalisa! Lonwabele ixesha lolonwabo olunyulu oluya kukunika ubutyebi bakho obuncinci. Siyavuyisana!

Isiphelo: Bhala ikhadi elilungileyo okanye umyalezo obhaliweyo ukuvuyisana nokuzalwa

Nokuba yiminqweno elula yomgca omnye okanye ubunzulu okanye imiyalezo yobuqu, eyona njongo yekhadi lokuzalwa kukuvuyisana nabazali abakhulelweyo. Akukho mithetho inzima kwaye ikhawulezayo malunga nokubhala kwikhadi lokuzalwa, kwaye kuya kufuneka ubandakanye naluphi na uthando kunye nenkxaso yamabinzana afanelekileyo kuwe. Ukuba ufuna ukukhuthazwa, zama ezi ngcamango:

• Ukuvuyisana ngokulula. “Siyavuyisana nosana lwakho oluyintombazana! Andikulindeli ukudibana naye ”okanye“ andinakonwaba ngawe. Uza kuba ngumzali omkhulu ”zihlala zikhetha izinto ezintle.
• Iminqweno yezempilo. "Ndikunqwenelela ukuziswa okulula kunye nosana olusempilweni", "Ndikunqwenelela impilo kunye novuyo ekwamkeleni usana lwakho olutsha" okanye "Ngamana nonke nonwabe kwaye niphile!" ".
• Amanqaku ahlekisayo. Amabinzana afana nala athi “Yithanda le holide. Inokuba yeyokugqibela oya kuba nayo eluxolweni! Okanye ukuncoma okunje "Ndiyathemba ukuba umntwana wakho uza kufumana ithemba leqabane lakho kunye neenwele zakho!" Uya kwenza wonke umntu ahleke.
• Ezakudala. Awungekhe uhambe gwenxa usithi "Ndikunqwenela ubomi bolonwabo" okanye "Ndikunqwenelela ubomi bentsikelelo".
• inkxaso. Abazali abalindeleyo baya kuyivuyela imiyalezo enje "Ukuba ufuna nantoni na, ndilapha ngenxa yakho" okanye "Bathi ufuna ilali." Silapha ukukunceda ukhulise lo mntwana umangalisayo ”.
• Imiyalezo evela kootatomkhulu. Ukuba ungumzali walowo uza kuba ngutata okanye oza kuba ngutata, cinga ngokubhala umyalezo wobuqu, onje ngala: "Kuluvuyo olukhulu ukubona unyana wam / intombi yam iba ngumzali - kwaye andikwazi ndilinde ukudibana nomama.umzukulwana ogqibeleleyo. "
• Ndiyakuvuyela ngenkwenkwana. "Ndivakalelwa kukuba le nkosana incinci iza kukunkqonkqoza" okanye "Siyavuyisana nelona lungu litsha kusapho lwakho - umntwana wakho oyinkwenkwe uza kuba ngoyena ubalaseleyo."
• Ndiyakuvuyela intombazana encinci. “Intombi yakho iya kuba krelekrele, ikhawuleze kwaye iyile - njengomama wayo! "
• Ndiyakuvuyela kumzali wokuphindaphinda. Ukuba abazali abalindeleyo balindele amawele okanye amawele amathathu (okanye nangaphezulu), ungonwaba ngemiyalezo enje ngokuba "Amawele awuphinda kabini lo msebenzi-kwaye uluphinda kabini uthando," "Izinto ezintle. Hamba ubathathu! Okanye "ndikuthumela kabini uthando kwaye iminqweno yam iphindwe kabini".
• Ndiyakuvuyela umntu osebenza naye ngomntwana wakhe omtsha. Gxininisa umsebenzi ngamabinzana anje ngala, “Siyavuyisana ngeprojekthi yakho enkulu. Ndonwabile kukubona imifanekiso! Okanye, ngokhetho olumnandi ngakumbi, "Enkosi ngokuzithethelela ikeyiki yanamhlanje yasimahla." Ndikunqwenelela okuhle kodwa xa usongeza 'umzali' kuluhlu lwakho olude lwezakhono. "

Ngamanye amaxesha into ongayithethiyo ibalulekile njengale uyenzayo. Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa kumakhadi okubulisa abantwana, njengoko abazali abalindeleyo bahlala bewafunda ngokuvakalayo kwiindwendwe zomnyhadala.

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