Uluhlu: 45 Imiyalezo elula yoFutshane yoLula kunye neMfutshane yoSapho

Eyona Miyalezo yoKhuseleko loSapho: Xa umntu osapho ephulukana nomntu amthandayo, kubalulekile ukubazisa ukuba ucinga ngabo.

Ewe kunjalo, kunzima ukwazi ukuba ungayibonisa njani eyakho uvelwano olunzulu kwilungu losapho elisandula ukufelwa, kodwa khumbula ukuba ukunxibelelana naye kwaye umbonise ukuba ucinga ngaye kuya kukuthuthuzela.

Kule nqaku, sabelana nawe ngokukhetha okukhethiweyo Imiyalezo eKhanyayo yoSapho eFutshane kwaye elula que ungabathumela ngeleta, umyalezo wemidiya yoluntu, ikhadi okanye iSMS.

Ukuqokelelwa kwemiyalezo engama-50 eFutshane kwaye elula yoSapho

Ukuthumela imiyalezo yakho yovelwano yoSapho kuthetha ukunxibelelana nomntu osandul 'ukufelwa kwaye ubanike amagama ambalwa wentuthuzelo okanye uvelwano ngokulahleka kwabo.

Yindlela yokuvuma ukuba usentlungwini kwaye umbonise ukuba uyakhathala. Kukho iindlela ezingapheliyo zokubhala umyalezo wenduduzo.

Ukuthumela umyalezo wovelwano losapho, inowuthi ebhalwe ngesandla okanye ikhadi ihlala yeyona ndlela isisiqhelo yokuhambisa umyalezo osemthethweni wenduduzo. Ungathumela ileta okanye ukhethe ikhadi elingenanto kwaye ucinge amagama akho. Kungcono ukuba uhlale unyanisekile kwaye ulula ngokukhawuleza emva kokusweleka kothandekayo.

Nangona uninzi lwethu lunxibelelana rhoqo ngeSMS kunye nokubhaliweyo okanye nge-imeyile, Le yimeko apho kuya kufuneka uzibuze ukuba lolona khetho lufanelekileyo.

Umbhalo kunye nabafowunelwa nge-imeyile banethuba lesantya, njengefowuni okanye utyelelo, ewe. Kodwa kwelinye icala, ikhadi okanye ileta ithatha umzamo omkhulu kwaye inokuziva ikwimo yobuqu ngakumbi.

Qaphela ukuba ayizukulunga banike uvelwano kuFacebook okanye kuTwitter, Ngaphandle kokuba umntu ofelweyo sele esebenzisile la maqonga oluntu ukuveza izimvo zakhe.

Lixesha elinzima, ke lumka ungaziqhekezi iindaba ungazithuthuzeli kumajelo onxibelelwano, nokuba iinjongo zakho zicacile. Njengomgaqo ngokubanzi, thatha umkhondo kunxibelelwano lwabo nakwithoni kwi-Intanethi.

Ke ngaphambili besabelana nge Ukuqokelelwa kwemiyalezo emifutshane ethembekileyo neyoyikekayo phantse zonke iintlobo zokufelwa, kodwa kweli nqaku, sijonga ngokuthe ngqo Imiyalezo yoXoliso kusapho, imigaqo, iimodeli kunye namagama oza kukhetha ukukhuthaza uvelwano olusondeleyo nolunyanisekileyo nemfesane.

Imiyalezo efutshane yoXolo yoSapho

Bhala i umyalezo omfutshane woxolo kusapho isoloko ingamava eemvakalelo nasoyikisayo. Kunokuba nzima ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo okunika inkxaso, isiqinisekiso kunye novelwano.

Kwaye zininzi izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokuba Umyalezo omfutshane nolula wovelwano. Ikhadi lisenokuba sele lithethile kakhulu okanye yonke into ofuna ukuyithetha. Okanye awumazi kakuhle umfi (usapho olukude), okanye akunjalo. Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, unokuba mfutshane ngokufutshane ngelixa ubonakala ufudumele kwaye unenkathalo.

Ukuba uyakwazi ukunceda umamkeli wakho ngamalungiselelo, ukutya, umsebenzi wasekhaya, ukwenza igadi, ukugcina umntwana, okanye nantoni na eyenye, nceda ufake ingcebiso kwiposti yakho. Qiniseka nje ukuba uyalandelela kwaye uhambe nayo.

1. Siyaxolisa kakhulu ngokulahleka kwakho.
2. [Igama] akucele ukuba wamkele ezona ntuthuzelo zakhe.
3. Ndothukile kwaye ndibuhlungu ziindaba ezimbi. Ndikunye nawe ngokupheleleyo. Uvelwano olunzulu.
4. Ndiya kumkhumbula / naye.
5. Ndiyathemba ukuba uya kuziva ungqongwe luthando oluninzi.
6. Yabelana nosizi lwakho ngokukhumbula uPawulos.
7. Ndaba buhlungu ndakuva ngokufa kukatatomkhulu wethu.
8. Ndothuswe zezi ndaba, uvelwano lwam kusapho lwethu.
9. Iintliziyo zethu zinawe kule mihla ibuhlungu. Fumana bonke ubuhlobo bethu.
10. Ilanga lisakhanya emva kobusuku obumnyama, uvelwano lwam kusapho.
11. Sikunika uvelwano olunzulu kunye nokwabelana nentlungu yakho.
12. Ndiyakuthanda kwaye ndilapha ngenxa yakho.
13. Intsapho yonke indithelela ekuvakaliseni uvelwano lwethu.
14. Sabelana ngentlungu yakho kunye neyosapho lwakho. Siyanithumela uvelwano olunzulu.
15. Ngovelwano olunzulu, njengoko ukhumbula uMichael.
16. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwintlungu yakho, sikunika uvelwano olunzulu.
17. Uvelwano kusapho olulahlekelweyo. Iinyembezi zam zisehla ngomntu endimthandayo, indoda enkulu.
18. Uvelwano olungazenzisiyo. Sasimthanda kakhulu [Igama], kwaye ukusweleka kwakhe kusenza buhlungu kakhulu.
19. Usapho lwethu lonke luthumela amazwi ovelwano anyanisekileyo. Sikugcina kwiingcinga zethu kwaye sithandazela ukuba ufumane amandla kunye nesibindi sokudlula kweli xesha linzima.
20. Uphawu oluncinci lwenqaku lothando kunye neengcinga ezingapheliyo.

Ndibuhlungu kakhulu kukusweleka kukamama wakho, usisi, mhlobo…. Uya kukhunjulwa ngokwenene. Iingcinga zam zikuwe nosapho lwakho.

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Imiyalezo yovelwano yosapho olusondeleyo

Ku amalungu osapho asondeleyo, kunokuba yinto ekhuthazayo kumntu osentlungwini okanye kusapho ukuva ukuba abanye bacinga kakhulu ngothandekayo wabo. Ukuba ubumazi kwaye umncoma ongasekhoyo, qiniseka ukuba wazise (okanye) umamkeli wakho.

1. Ungumntu ongaqhelekanga kwaye obunjani ubomi obubalaseleyo. Ndiziva ndinethamsanqa lokuba ndimazi.
2. Ndibandezelekile ngokwenene. Uvelwano olunzulu nolusizi.
3. Sikunye nawe ukukunceda udlule kolu vavanyo. Uvelwano olunzulu.
4. Sabelana nawe ngentlungu yokuswelekelwa ngumntu omthandayo, kwaye sinethemba lokuba ixesha liyakuyiphelisa intlungu okuyo.
5. Yamkela uvelwano lwam olunyanisekileyo kunye nokubonisa uvelwano lwam olunzulu.
6. Umama wakho wayengumfazi omangalisayo, kwaye ndiziva ndinelungelo lokumazi. Ndiyazi ukuba uza kumkhumbula. Ndiza kukugcina kwiingcinga zam kunye nemithandazo yam.
7. Kulusizi olukhulu ukufumanisa kwam ukudlula [kwegama] kula maxesha anzima ndifuna ukudlulisa amazwi ovelwano kunye nokwabelana nentlungu yenu.
8. Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam olunyanisekileyo.
9. Sonke sinentliziyo nawe. Amagama amancinci okuchaza intlungu yethu.
10. Zininzi izinto ezintle endizikhumbulayo xa ndicinga ngesithandwa sethu esimkileyo. Ngamana uthando losapho kunye nabahlobo lungakuthuthuzela kwezi ntsuku zinzima, uvelwano lwam olunzulu.
11. Ngalo lonke uvelwano lwethu kolu vavanyo lubuhlungu.
12. Ndiyazi ukuba andinakuyenza intlungu yakho ihambe, kodwa ndifuna uyazi ukuba ndilapha ngegxalaba, indlebe, okanye nantoni na oyifunayo.
13. Kudala, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba iintlungu azipheli xa kusenziwa amakhadi kunye nokutya. Ndihlala ndikho ukulungiselela wena.
14. Kukho iintlungu ekunzima ukuzithuthuzela, kodwa amagama ambalwa anokuzithuthuzela. Xa usizi lukwazile ukubaleka, kuya kubakho awona maxesha mahle.
15. Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndithini xa ndilahlekelwe kangaka. Ndifuna nje ukuba wazi ukuba ndiyakhathala ngawe kwaye ndabelana nosizi lwakho.
16. Sifuna ukukuxelela ukuba siziva sisondele kangakanani kuwe xa intlungu ingena entliziyweni yakho.
17. Ndiyakucela usapho lwakho ukuba lundibale phakathi kwabahlobo bakho abanyanisekileyo kwaye ndinethemba lokuba baya kufumana kwiingcamango zam ezihloniphekileyo intuthuzelo encinane.
18. Ishwangusha elisandokukhathaza kowenu lindothusile. Yazi intliziyo yam ikuwe. Qiniseka ngovelwano lwam olufudumeleyo nobuhlobo.
19. Sisondele kuwe kwelishwa lakho elikhulu. Uthando nokuthantamisa.
20. Ndinebhongo ngokwazi (utata, umama…) Ebeyimbalasane ebomini bam kwaye ndiza kumkhumbula kakhulu. Uvelwano lwam.

Ndibuhlungu ngokunzulu kuba usapho lwakho luthwaxwa yilahleko enje. Ndinentliziyo epheleleyo kuni nonke.

Amazwi ovelwano kusapho lomntu asebenza naye

Niniumntu osebenza naye okanye umntu osebenzisana naye ulahlekelwa ngumntu amthandayo, ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo, inokuba lixesha elibi kakhulu. Kukwanjalo ke xa kusenziwa usapho okanye iqabane lomntu osebenza naye ekusenokwenzeka ukuba wasweleka. Intlungu abaya kuba nayo iya kuba nzulu, kunye nentliziyo ebangela intlungu engathethekiyo.

Nanga amagama kunye nemizekelo Eyona Miyalezo yoXolelwaniso yoSapho loSebenza naye :

1. Ube njengelungu losapho kwaye sibuhlungu kakhulu kukuva ngelahleko yakho. Ukwezethu iingcinga.
2. Uxolo lwam / lwethu emva kokusweleka kukatata / umama / umhlobo wakho.
3. Nceda wamkele amazwi ethu ovelwano. Sicinga ngawe.
4. Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwakho, ukuba kukho nantoni na endinokuyenza ukukunceda ngeli xesha, nceda ungathandabuzi ukubuza.
5. Iofisi iphela iyakucinga kwaye ikulungele xa ifuneka.
6. Yazi ukuba ukwezethu iingcinga nemithandazo ngeli xesha.
7. Ndikuthumela amandla okudlula kweli xesha linzima. Ngothando.
8. Uvelwano lwam olunzulu ngokulahleka, iingcinga zam kunye nemithandazo ndinawe nosapho lwakho ngeli xesha linzima.
9. Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam, yazi nje ukuba ndilapha ngenxa yakho, ungathandabuzi ukunxibelelana nam, ngakumbi ngeli xesha linzima.
10. Ndilusizi ukuva ngokuswelekelwa ngumama wakho. Nceda wamkele amazwi ethu ovelwano kwaye ingaba imithandazo yethu ingakunceda ukukuthuthuzela.
11. Ndikunika amazwi ovelwano olunzulu.
12. Nceda wamkele amazwi ethu ovelwano, sibuhlungu kakhulu ngenxa yelahleko yakho.
13. [Igama / igama] lihlala lihleli ezintliziyweni nasezinkumbulweni zethu.
14. Sinqwenela wena kunye nosapho lwakho isibindi noxolo ngeli xesha lokuzila.
15. Iingcinga zam ziya kuba zezakho ngeli xesha loyikekayo. Unoluvelwano lwam olunzulu novelwano lwam olunzulu.

Akukho magama anokucima iintlungu zelahleko enjalo, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba ukwazi ukuba kukho abantu phaya abakuthandayo nabakhathalayo ngawe bangayiphelisa. Uvelwano lwam olunzulu. Iqela lakho lihlala likhona ukukuxhasa.

Umntu osebenza naye ngumntu osebenza naye kwiofisi enye. Intlungu yokuphulukana nomntu omthandayo ayinyamezeleki. Ukuba umntu osebenza naye usandula ukuswelekelwa ngumntu omthandayo, kuya kuba mnandi ukufumana amagama afudumezayo ebantwini abasebenza nabo. Thumela umyalezo wovelwano kumntu osebenza naye osentlungwini. Mxelele ukuba umkhathalele kwaye intliziyo yakho ikunye naye ngeli xesha.

Imizekelo yeeleta zovelwano kusapho

Unokukhetha ukuthumela ileta yakho yovelwano kusapho xa kubhengezwa ukufa, umngcwabo ubhengezwa okanye emva nje komhla wokugqibela. Yazi ukuba xa uqala ukubhala ileta yakho yovelwano kusapho olusondeleyo oluzilileyo, ungazami ukuba ngowokuqala, kwaye uphephe ukujika okuqhelekileyo. Kungcono ukuhlala uzolile. Thetha nomntu ngokuthe ngqo, uqale ngokuthi “Othandekayo/Othandekayo” elandelwa ligama laloo mntu. 

Ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo okujongana nabathandekayo bomfi ngendlela yeleta yovelwano akulula. Ke nantsi eminye imizekelo kunye neemodeli zezona zibalaseleyo iileta zovelwano kusapho olusondeleyo onokuthi uguqule kwaye ulungelelanise neemeko zakho:

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Amazwi ambalwa anyanisekileyo okukunika uvelwano lwethu ngolu suku lunzima. Amagama ambalwa kakhulu kwintlungu yakho, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ungathembela kwinkxaso yethu. Ngokunyanisekileyo.

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Ekuqaleni andizange ndivume ukuyikholelwa kwaye kwafuneka ndiyeke ukuzixelela ukuba kuphela ixesha elichithwe kunye eliseleyo, libhalwe ngonaphakade entliziyweni yam kunye nenkumbulo yam. Kwahlala ililize elibi emva kwelahleko esingamaxhoba ayo namhlanje.

Ndiyavelana nentlungu yakho kwaye ndizibeke kuwe. Ukuba kukho into oyifunayo, musa ukuthandabuza. Ndiza kuzenza ndifumaneke, ungathembela kum. Olona thando lwam lunyanisekileyo.

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Nokuba usizi lwethu lukhulu ngokubhengezwa kokunyamalala kuka [Igama lokuQala ifani], siya kuqhubeka sicinga ngaye [wakhe] ngovakalelo olukhulu. Onke amaxesha amnandi esiwachithe kunye, iingxoxo ezingapheliyo apho senze khona umhlaba malunga nesidlo, amava ekwabelwana ngawo, aya kuhlala ebhalwe kwinkumbulo yethu njengemizuzu ecocekileyo yobuhlobo. Silapha ukuqhubeka nale ndlela yobomi ecaleni kwakho, nobuhlobo njengesikhokelo.

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Ezi ndaba zoyikekayo ziye zasichukumisa ngokunzulu. Sisondele kuwe ngengcinga ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuya emngcwabeni kwaye sikuthumelele lonke uthando lwethu.

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Sibuhlungu kakhulu kukufunda ngokusweleka kuka [Igama LokuQala Ifani]. Ukuba kumaxesha akutshanje, besinamathuba ambalwa okudibana, ngokufuthi besicinga ngaye. Umngcwabo wasivumela ukuba siqokelele ubungqina bezalamane zakhe, size siyixabise indoda [ibhinqa] ukuba yayiyiyo. Lo mzuzu wokugqibela kunye naye [uye] wasichukumisa kakhulu. Sinqwenela ukudlulisela kuni intlonelo yethu ngobuntu bakhe nezenzo zakhe, eziphawule ubomi babantu abaninzi.

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Sisandula ukuva iindaba ezibuhlungu ezichaphazela wena. Besingamazi ngaphandle kwamehlo akho nangamazwi akho. Sinobudlelwane obuqinileyo obunibophelele omnye komnye. Sinokucinga ngokulula intlungu kunye nonxunguphalo omele ukuba ukuva ngoku ngenxa yale lahleko kwaye sinqwenela ukuba singayithambisa kancinane. Sikunye nawe ngentliziyo yethu yonke kwaye sikuthumelela imbeko yethu. Sabelana ngosizi lwakho kwaye sikunika uvelwano lwethu olunyanisekileyo.

Isiphelo: Bhala umyalezo wokuthuthuzela umntu omthandayo

Ileta yovelwano yindlela eqinisekisiweyo yokuxelela lowo ufelweyo ukuba umkhathalele umntu omthandayo, kwaye umkhathalele. Ingxaki kukuba, abaninzi bethu abazi ukuba mababhale ntoni okanye bakhathazeke malunga nokufumana inqaku elingalunganga.

Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ukubhala ileta yovelwano kunokuba nzima. Kodwa kunokuba nokudideka ngakumbi ukuba ubhala ngomntu ongazange wadibana naye, njengesihlobo somhlobo okanye iqabane lomphathi wakho.

Olu xinzelelo lunokukhokelela ekucothiseni okanye, okubi kakhulu, ungayibonakalisi uvelwano lwakho konke konke. Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso malunga nokubhala ileta yovelwano yosapho:

• Iposi yeposi ibhetele kune-imeyile: Ii-imeyile ziyafumba kwaye umyalezo wakho ungangcwatywa ngokukhawuleza, ke kungcono ukuthumela inqaku elibonakalayo.
• Ikhadi lovelwano elithengwe evenkileni lilungile: Yenza umyalezo wakho kwiphepha elingenanto lephepha lokubhala okanye ikhadi lokubhala elinomfanekiso othobisayo njengeentyatyambo okanye imeko yendalo. Ungathumela ikhadi lovelwano ebhalwe kwangaphambili kwaye uncamathisele inqaku elifutshane lomntu.
• Vela uvelwano lwakho: Qala unobumba ngegama lokuqala lomntu osentlungwini ukuba umazi kakuhle, okanye ubeke "Othandekayo" phambi kwegama labo lokugqibela ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bude kakhulu, okanye awubazi tu. "Molweni" ayiqhelekanga.
• Mfutshane: Imigca emithathu okanye emine yanele. Emva kokuvuma ilahleko, ukuba uyamazi umntu ongasekhoyo, xelela umntu osentlungwini ukuba umazi njani.

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