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Uluhlu: 59 Imiyalezo emifutshane, elula neThobekileyo

Akukho nto inobuqhetseba njengokufikelela umntu osandul 'ukuphulukana nomntu amthandayo.

Uluhlu: 59 Imiyalezo emifutshane, elula neThobekileyo
Uluhlu: 59 Imiyalezo emifutshane, elula neThobekileyo

Eyona Miyalezo eFutshane yoXolo : Xa umntu omthandayo uphulukene nomntu omthandayo, kunokuba nzima ukwazi ukuba ungathini thumela amazwi ovelwano. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uthethe into.

Ngokwabelana novelwano lwakho, ubazisa ukuba uyabakhathalela kwaye ubanika intuthuzelo kwelona xesha linzima kwabakhe babakho, sisenzo sothando esithetha lukhulu.

Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokuchaza intlungu yakho xa umntu eswelekile, nantsi ingqokelela yemiyalezo eyehlayo onokuyisebenzisa ukuthuthuzela umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho eliva ilahleko.

Unokuzikopa ngokuchanekileyo, uguqule ukuze uzenze zifane nawe, okanye uzenzele iinkumbulo ezimyoli zomfi. Oku kubonakalisa kuya kuthakazelelwa kuzo zombini iimeko.

Kule nqaku, sabelana nawe ngokukhetha okona kulungileyo Imiyalezo emifutshane, elula neyanene ukuthumela kwilungu losapho, umhlobo okanye umntu omaziyo.

Uluhlu lwangaphakathi

Ukuqokelelwa kwemiyalezo engama-60 emifutshane, elula kunye nemiyalezo yovelwano

Xa sifunda ngokunyamalala komntu, ilungu losapho, umhlobo, umntu osebenza naye okanye umntu omaziyo, kulisiko ukuthumela ngokukhawuleza ikhadi, i-SMS okanye umyalezo omfutshane oqinisekileyo woxolo.

Lixesha elinzima kakhulu ukubhala, nokuba zintathu okanye zine izivakalisi ezilula, xa iintlungu zelahleko zikhona kakhulu. Kuyenzeka ukuba uthumele i-imeyile, kodwa ukubhala inqaku elincinci, okanye ukuthumela ikhadi, kusengcono.

Umntu ofelweyo unokugcina umqondiso wovelwano kwi-albhamu, ibhokisi, ukuze ubuyele kuyo emva kwexesha.

Imiyalezo emifutshane, elula neyanene yoXolo
Imiyalezo emifutshane, elula neyanene yoXolo

Kwelinye icala, kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo uku yenza umyalezo wakho omfutshane kunye noxolo onamagama, igama lomntu obhalayo kunye negama lomfi)

Khumbula ukuba kuchanekile ngokupheleleyo into emfutshane, inyanisekileyo kwaye ilulangakumbi xa uqala ukucinga ngokuthuthuzela umntu okanye u-Facebook okanye naphi na apho uqala ukuva iindaba.

Ukuba ubhala ikhadi elisesikweni lokuthuthuzela okanye inqaku lokuhamba neentyatyambo, ithoni esesikweni ilungile, kodwa unokuyigcina ilula kwaye ibe yeyakho nalapho.

Ukufunda kwakhona: I-51 yoQeqesho oluQalayo olungalibalekiyo loLuthando (Iifoto) & Imiyalezo engama-49 yoBuchule noQeqeshelweyo yoXolo ngoogxa bakho

Kwicandelo elilandelayo, masifumanise malunga nokukhetha kwethu Imifutshane kunye nemiyalezo elula yovelwano, Yahlulwe yangamacandelo ukukunceda ukhethe owona myalezo wokuzithoba kuxhomekeke kumxholo kunye neemfuno zakho.

Imifutshane kunye nemiyalezo elula yovelwano

Kuhlala kunzima ukubhala umyalezo omncinci wenduduzo, yiyo loo nto le ngqokelela yezona zilungileyo imiyalezo emfutshane yovelwano iqinisekisiwe ngamawaka abantu abafana nawe.

Umyalezo wovelwano ngowobuqu kwaye uyachukumisa, yiyo loo nto Kufuneka usoloko ukhankanya igama lomntu othetha naye kwaye ubonise imbeko ngokucaphula okanye ukuvakalisa uvelwano lwakho ngamazwi.

  1. Akukho magama anokuchaza indlela endibuhlungu ngayo ngelahleko yakho.
  2. Sithanda ukuvakalisa uvelwano olunzulu kuwe nakusapho lwakho.
  3. Sithanda ukuvakalisa uvelwano lwethu kuwe kwaye sikwazise ukuba iingcinga zethu zinawe.
  4. Ndothuswa ziindaba ezimbi. Ndikunye nawe ngokupheleleyo. Uvelwano olunzulu.
  5. Sihleli nawe ngentliziyo iphela ngeli xesha losizi.
  6. Sabelana ngentlungu yakho. Ngothando nangobuhlobo.
  7. Intliziyo yam inawe kwelixesha linzima.
  8. Wena nosapho lwakho nisemithandazweni yethu. Lonke uvelwano lwethu.
  9. Ndifuna uyazi ukuba ndilapha ngenxa yakho ngeli xesha linzima.
  10. Ndithatha inxaxheba enzulu kwintlungu yakho. Ngothando nangokulusizi.
  11. Ngamana iinkumbulo zakho zingakunika uxolo nentuthuzelo.
  12. Ukucinga ngawe ngalo mzuzu wokulahleka.
  13. Umntu okhetheke kangaka akanakuze alibaleke.
  14. Ndibandezelekile ngokwenene. Uvelwano olunzulu nolusizi.
  15. Ndiyazisola ngokulahleka kwakho.
  16. Ndiyaxolisa ngokuva iindaba. Ndicela wazi ukuba usezingcingeni nasemthandazweni wam.
  17. Iingcinga nemithandazo yam ikuwe ngalamaxesha anzima.
  18. Ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngelahleko yakho. Iingcinga nemithandazo yam ikuwe.
  19. Uvelwano lwam olunzulu kuwe nosapho lwakho.
  20. Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam olunzulu ngelahleko yakho.

Ngamana amazwi am ovelwano angakuthuthuzela.

Imiyalezo emifutshane kunye neLula yoXolo: Kukho abantu abahlala ezintliziyweni zethu, nangona bengasekho ebomini bethu.
Imiyalezo emifutshane kunye neLula yoXolo: Kukho abantu abahlala ezintliziyweni zethu, nangona bengasekho ebomini bethu.

I-SMS ukubonisa uvelwano

Olu luhlu lwe imiyalezo emifutshane yovelwano ukukhuthaza. Xa ubonisa inkxaso yakho, ikwavumela abo babandakanyekayo bazi ukuba ubakhathalele kangakanani.

  1. Siyaxolisa kakhulu ngokulahleka kwakho.
  2. Nam ndizakumkhumbula.
  3. Ndiyathemba ukuba uziva ungqongwe luthando oluninzi.
  4. Ukwabelana ngosizi lwakho ngokukhumbula uSimon.
  5. Ukuphilisa imithandazo kunye nokuwola okufudumez 'intliziyo. Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwakho.
  6. Ngovelwano lwam olunzulu ekukhumbuleni uAlex.
  7. Kwandikhathaza ukuva ukuba utatomkhulu wakho akasekho. Iingcinga zam zikuwe nosapho lwakho.
  8. Ndikhumbula umama wakho omangalisayo kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba umthuthuzele.
  9. Kwakumnandi ngokwenene ukusebenza notata wakho kangangeminyaka eli-17. Uya kukhunjulwa kakhulu.
  10. Siyamkhumbula uMariya kunye nawe. Ngalo lonke uvelwano,
  11. Ndicinga ngawe kwaye ndininqwenelela amaxesha oxolo kunye nentuthuzelo ekukhumbuleni umhlobo obesondele kakhulu kuwe.
  12. “Intsapho yethu igcina usapho lwakho kwiingcinga zethu nasemithandazweni.
  13. “Ndikugcina kwiingcinga zam kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uqhuba kakuhle.
  14. Nceda wamkele amazwi ethu ovelwano.
  15. Abantu esibathandayo soze bemke, bahlala ezintliziyweni zethu.
  16. “Ndikunye nani ngentliziyo yam yonke kula maxesha anzima. Ndicela wazi ukuba usezingcingeni nasemthandazweni wam. »
  17. “Ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngokuva iindaba zokuphulukana (nomhlobo/isalamane/isalamane sakho). Ndilapha ukuze ndikuxhase kwaye ndikunike lonke intuthuzelo enokwenzeka kula maxesha anzima. »
  18. “Ndifuna ukuvakalisa uvelwano lwam ngokungazenzisiyo ngokulahlekelwa (ngumhlobo/isalamane/isalamane). Nceda wazi ukuba iingcinga nemithandazo yam ikuwe. »
  19. “Ndibuhlungu kakhulu kukuva iindaba zokuphulukana (nomhlobo/isalamane/isalamane sakho). Ndicela wamkele amazwi ovelwano lwam olunzulu kwaye wazi ukuba usezingcingeni zam ngeli xesha linzima. »
  20. “Ndivakalisa uvelwano lwam olunzulu ngokulahlekelwa (ngumhlobo/isalamane/isalamane). Ndicela wazi ukuba usezingcingeni nasemthandazweni wam ngelixesha linzima. »
  21. “Iingcinga nemithandazo yam inawe kula maxesha anzima. Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam olunzulu. »
  22. “Ndibuhlungu kukuva iindaba zokuphulukana (nomhlobo/isalamane/isalamane sakho). Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam olunzulu. »

Kukho usizi olunzima kakhulu ukoyisa ...

Umyalezo wovelwano: Intliziyo yam ikuwe. Iingcinga nemithandazo yam ikuwe ngalamaxesha anzima.
Umyalezo wovelwano: Intliziyo yam ikuwe. Iingcinga nemithandazo yam ikuwe ngalamaxesha anzima.

Ukuba umazi kakuhle lo mntu, sikukhuthaza ukuba ubandakanye isivakalisi okanye ezimbini zokwabelana ngenkumbulo evuyisayo ngaye.

Imiyalezo emifutshane yoXolo olunyanisekileyo

Akukho nto ilukhuni njengokufikelela umntu osandul 'ukuswelekelwa ngumntu amthandayo. Nalu olunye ukhetho lwe Ukunyaniseka kunye nemiyalezo emifutshane yoXolo :

  1. Sabelana ngentlungu yakho ngeli xesha lokuzila kwaye sikuqinisekisa ngezona mvakalelo zethu zothando.
  2. Ndithumela uthando, iingcinga nemithandazo kuwe nakusapho lwakho ngeli xesha linzima.
  3. Ndilapha ngenxa yakho. Ndazise ukuba ndingakunceda nangayiphi na indlela.
  4. Ukuphulukana nomntu kubuhlungu, kodwa ukuba umthanda ngokwenyani, kuya kufuneka wamkele ukubabona behamba, usazi ukuba ngenye imini uza kuphinda umanyane.
  5. Xa umntu omthandayo esiba yinkumbulo, inkumbulo iba bubutyebi.
  6. Zonke ezi nkumbulo zixabisekileyo azinakuze ziphele ngokuhamba kwexesha ...
  7. Amagama awanelanga ukubonakalisa intlungu yam ngokulahleka kwakho.
  8. Wena nosapho lwakho nijikelezwe luthando ngeli xesha linzima.
  9. Ube sisipho ebomini bethu. Asisayi kuze siyilibale. Uvelwano olunzulu.
  10. Iya kuhlala ezintliziyweni zethu nasemithandazweni lo gama nje sisaphila. Ngamana angaphumla ngoxolo.
  11. Ndikuthumela uthando, iingcinga kunye nemithandazo ngeli xesha linzima. Uvelwano olunzulu.
  12. Yamkela uvelwano lwethu olunyanisekileyo kunye nembonakalo yovelwano lwethu olunzulu.
  13. Masibe nesabelo kwintlungu yakho kwaye sikunikezele ngovelwano olunzulu.
  14. Yazi ukuba iitshomi zakho ziyakuthanda kwaye zikulungele.
  15. Umqondiso omncinci wothando lwethu kunye neengcinga ezingapheliyo.

Ndibandezelekile ngokwenene. Uvelwano olunzulu nolusizi.

Imiyalezo emifutshane yoXolo olunyanisekileyo
Imiyalezo emifutshane yoXolo olunyanisekileyo

Ukufunda kwakhona: Imiyalezo engama-49 yoBuchule noQeqeshelweyo yoXolo ngoogxa bakho & +55 Eyona mifutshane imfutshane, ichukumisayo kunye nemibhalo yeKrisimesi eyiNqobo

Imiyalezo emfutshane yovelwano yelungu losapho

  1. Ndineenkumbulo ezixabisekileyo zobuntwana zikanyoko / utata wakho. Ndiyazi ukuba uza kumkhumbula.
  2. Ukunyamalala emehlweni ethu, kodwa hayi ngentliziyo yethu.
  3. Sibuhlungu kakhulu ziindaba zokusweleka (kwegama lomfi). Iingcinga zethu kunye nemithandazo yethu ikunye nawe kunye nosapho lwakho.
  4. Umntu owushiya lo mhlaba akaze awushiye, kuba basaphila ezintliziyweni nasezingqondweni zethu, ngathi, bayaqhubeka nokuphila. Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam, akasayi kulityalwa.
  5. Imithandazo kunye neenkumbulo ezintle zizinto ekufuneka sizikhumbule malunga nabantu esibathandayo. Ngamana uthando losapho kunye nabahlobo lungakuthuthuzela kwezi ntsuku zinzima, zethu / zethu zovelwano olunzulu.
  6. Sibuhlungu kakhulu kukuva ngelahleko yakho yangoku.
  7. Intliziyo yam inawe nosapho lwakho kula maxesha anzima.
  8. Wena nosapho lwakho nijikelezwe luthando ngeli xesha linzima.
  9. Umama / utata wakho wayengumntu omangalisayo. Akukho mntu unokuze angene endaweni yakhe.
  10. Nangona ndingakwazi kakuhle, umama / utata wakho wayengomnye wabahlobo bam abasenyongweni kwaye wayehlala ethetha ngawe. Ndiyazi ukuba wayekuthanda kakhulu kwaye wayekulungiselele ukuba ujongane nale lahleko imbi kangaka. Ukwezam iingcinga nemithandazo yam.
  11. Nokuba singakanani, ukuphulukana nomzali akunakuze kube lula. Iingcinga zam kunye nemithandazo yam inawe njengoko ulila.
  12. Kumntu obaluleke kakhulu esingayi kumlibala.
  13. Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam olunzulu.
  14. Siza kuhlala sikuthandazela.
  15. Utata / umama wakho wayefana notata / umama wesibini kum ekukhuleni. Ndihlala ndikhumbula amaxesha amnandi kunye nezifundo awandifundisa zona. Lonke uthando lwam kula maxesha anzima.

Intliziyo yosapho lwam inawe kunye nosapho lwakho.

Imiyalezo emfutshane yovelwano yelungu losapho
Imiyalezo emfutshane yovelwano yelungu losapho

Ukufunda kwakhona: Imiyalezo yoKhuseleko loSapho engama-45 elula neFutshane

Imiyalezo emifutshane yovelwano yomhlobo

Ukuba ubumazi umntu ongasekhoyo, kodwa hayi amalungu osapho osaphilayo othumela ikhadi lakho kuwo, kunokuba luncedo ukukhankanya uqhagamshelo lwakho kulowo umthandayo (ukusuka kwikholeji, ngomsebenzi, njl.

  1. Ngamana amazwi am ovelwano angakuthuthuzela kwaye yanga imithandazo yam ingayidambisa intlungu yale lahleko.
  2. Sithandazela ukuba uthando lwalahlekileyo luya kuhlala lukhunjulwa kwimemori yakho.
  3. Amagama awanakho ukuchaza indlela esidane ngayo ngokuva ngelahleko yakho.
  4. Ngamana inkumbulo ye- [faka igama] ingakulethela intuthuzelo noxolo.
  5. Namhlanje kwaye rhoqo, ngamana iinkumbulo zothando zingakuzisela uxolo, intuthuzelo kunye namandla.
  6. Ndikunqwenelela uxolo namandla kula maxesha anzima.
  7. Intombi yakho ichukumise ubomi obuninzi ngokulungileyo. Ndiyabulela ukuba ndibe nethuba lokwazi bobabini njengoogxa kunye nanjengomhlobo.
  8. Yanyamalala emehlweni ethu, kodwa hayi ezintliziyweni zethu.
  9. Iingcinga zethu kunye nemithandazo yethu inawe.
  10. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyakuyamkela amazwi am ovelwano ngokulahleka kwakho.
  11. Bendifuna ukuxelela ukuba intliziyo yam ikuwe ngelixesha linzima. Ndiya kuhlala ndikhumbula ububele bakhe nobubele bakhe. Ndikhona xa ufuna uncedo okanye inkxaso.
  12. Amagama akonelanga ukubonisa usizi endinalo ngokusweleka kuka (igama).
  13. Bahlobo abathandekayo. Ndisandula ukufunda iindaba ezibuhlungu kwaye ndinqwenela ukuvakalisa amazwi ovelwano anyanisekileyo.
  14. Kungovakalelo olukhulu endiye ndafunda ngalo ngokuphulukana nomhlobo wam, uya kuhlala ebhalwe kwinkumbulo yam nasentliziyweni yam. Ndicinga kakhulu ngawe.
  15. Sabelana ngentlungu yakho ngeli xesha linzima.

Intliziyo yam inawe ngexesha lakho losizi.

Imiyalezo emifutshane yovelwano yomhlobo
Imiyalezo emifutshane yovelwano kuMhlobo/oMaziyo

Imiyalezo yovelwano emifutshane ngesiNgesi

Akululanga ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo ovelwano lwethu kumntu esimthandayo. Kuba nzima ngakumbi xa lo mntu ethetha olunye ulwimi. Ukuba unomhlobo othetha isiNgesi okanye ilungu losapho ongathanda ukuthetha naye uvelwano, nantsi iisampulu ezili-15 zezivakalisi zesiNgesi onokuzisebenzisa.

  1. “Ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngelahleko yakho. »
  2. “Uvelwano lwam olunzulu luya kuwe nosapho lwakho. »
  3. “Andikwazi ukuyithelekelela into otyhubela kuyo. »
  4. “Ndiza kucinga ngawe. »
  5. “Ukuba kukho nantoni na endinokuyenza ukunceda, ndicela undazise. »
  6. “Isithandwa sakho siya kuba sezingqondweni zam. »
  7. “Ndilapha ngenxa yakho. »
  8. “Ndinqwenela ukuba bendinamagama afanelekileyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha awekho. »
  9. “Ndicela wazi ukuba ndikukhathalele kwaye ndilapha ngenxa yakho. »
  10. “Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahlekelwa kwakho. »
  11. "Ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngelahleko yakho / Sibuhlungu kakhulu ukuva ngelahleko yakho. »
  12. “Ndinqwenela ukuvakalisa ukuzisola okukhulu kunye novelwano. »
  13. “Ndicela wamkele uvelwano lwam olunzulu ngokusweleka komhlobo wakho othandekayo. »
  14. “Amagama ayaphela. Ndilapha ukuba kukho into oyifunayo. »
  15. Ndiyazi ukuba akukho mazwi anokuthomalalisa intlungu yakho. Yazi nje ukuba ndizohlala ndilapha ngenxa yakho nokuba sekutheni. »

Nceda wamkele uvelwano lwam olungazenzisiyo.

Umyalezo wentuthuzelo ngesiNgesi-Uvelwano lwam olunzulu
Umyalezo wentuthuzelo ngesiNgesi-Uvelwano lwam olunzulu

Imiyalezo efutshane yoXolelwaniso yamaSilamsi

Elinye lamaxesha anzima ekufuneka sijongane nawo lixesha elibuhlungu esidlula kulo xa kusweleke umntu othandekayo noxabisekileyo. Imvakalelo zosizi kunye nokuswela ziyasongamela kwaye sihlala singena kwimeko yoxinzelelo kunye nosizi oluhlala lungalawuleki.

Kwi-Islam, ukuthumela umyalezo wovelwano olunyanisekileyo kusapho lomntu ongasekhoyo luphawu lokuthantamisa, inkxaso kunye nemfesane. Nayi eminye imizekelo yemiyalezo emifutshane yamaSilamsi:

  1. Wanga u-Allah angakunika unyamezelo kunye nomonde kolu vavanyo nokuba amamkele ongasekhoyo kwiparadesi yakhe kule nyanga ingcwele xa zonke iingcango zeparadesi zivulekile kwaye ezo zesihogo zivaliwe.
  2. Wanga u-Allah angakunika amandla kunye nomonde wokujongana nale ngxaki… kwaye angamenzela inceba nenceba umfi.
  3. Wanga uThixo angawukhulisa umvuzo wakho, akunike unyamezelo oluhle kwaye umxolele ongasekhoyo wakho.
  4. Wanga u-Allah angayandisa impindezelo yakho, akunike uvelwano olungileyo kwaye umxolele ongasekhoyo wakho.
  5. Ukufa komntu omthandayo kuhlala kungumzuzu ombi. Ndabelana ngentlungu yakho.
  6. Wanga u-Allah andise impindezelo yakho.
  7. Inene singabakaAllh kwaye siya kubuyela kumgwebo waKhe.
  8. UAllah ngenye imini uyakuthatha oko akunikayo! Yonke into yeyakhe kwaye yonke into inesiphelo esichazwe nguye. Linda !
  9. Wanga uAllh Angakwandisa umvuzo wenu, Aninike isiqabu ngokupheleleyo, aze amxolele lowo ungasekhoyo.
  10. Wanga uThixo angamxolela, amsikelele.
  11. Sivela kuAllh…Sibuyela kuAllh…. Ngamana u-Allah angamkhusela lowo umthandayo. Wanga angaphumla ngoxolo phantsi kokhuseleko lwakhe.
  12. Wanga uThixo angakunika umonde mzalwana wam (dade wethu) kwaye wamkele ukungena eparadesi kumfazi wakho (umfazi wakho, umyeni wakho, uyihlo okanye unyoko….).
  13. Inna li-l-lâhi mâ akhadha wa li-l-lâhi mâ a'tâ, wa koullou shay in 'indahou bi-ajalin momousamman. Fa-l-tasbir wa-l-tahtasib.
  14. SingabakaAllah kwaye sibuyele kuAllah.

Wanga u-Allah angakunika umonde kwaye umxolele ongasekhoyo wakho

Ukuphulukana nesilwanyana sasekhaya

Kuninzi lwethu, izilwanyana zasekhaya zingamalungu osapho ngokwenyani, kwaye xa siphulukana nenye kunokuba yinto evuyisa kakhulu ukubona abanye beqonda ukuba bebethetha ukuthini kuthi kwaye kubuhlungu kangakanani kubo.

  • Izilwanyana zasekhaya ziphakathi kwabahlobo bethu abasenyongweni. Cinga ngawe xa usentlungwini.
  • Ndiyazi ukuba isilwanyana sakho esithandekayo sasililungu losapho, kwaye kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuphulukana naso. Ukwezam iingcinga nemithandazo yam.
  • Unike isilwanyana sakho ubomi obumangalisayo obugcwele uthando kunye nentuthuzelo. Ndiyazi ukuba wayekuthanda ngayo. Iminqweno emihle njengoko ulilela le lahleko.
  • (Igama) yayiyinja elungileyo. Ndiyaxolisa ngokuba uye wathi kuye
  • Ndinqwenela ukuba uncume phakathi kweenyembezi xa ukhumbula amaxesha amyoli owachitha kunye neqabane lakho elithembekileyo kunye nomhlobo wakho.

Isiphelo: Bhala ikhadi elililo lovelwano okanye iSMS

Amagama ambalwa anele. Kunzima ukucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi ngezivakalisi ezithathu okanye ezine… Yigcine ilula, ungasebenzisi amagama anokukhathaza abantu abasele behlile nangakumbi. Xa unamathandabuzo, hlala uthobekile. 

Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda ubhale imiyalezo yakho yoKhuseleko kakuhle:

  • Waneliswe ngentshayelelo elula, umamkeli wakho uyasazi isizathu sokuba ubhalele yena (umzekelo: "Kulusizi olukhulu ukuba ndiye ndafunda ngokunyamalala kwe ..."). 
  • Ndivakalise amazwi ovelwano. Gwema amagama "ukufa", "ukufa", thetha "ukulahleka" okanye "ukunyamalala". Isivakalisi esilula esifana nale: "Ndiyothuswa ziindaba ezimbi. Ndikunye nawe ngentliziyo epheleleyo ”kunganela. 
  • Ukuba umntu usweleke emva kokugula ixesha elide, kunokuba kufanelekile ukuyikhankanya: "Ukuba umhlaza we ... wawuyingxaki yokwenene, wakwazi ukujongana nesi sigulo esibi ngesibindi esiyalela intlonipho".
  • Yenza ingxelo yenkxaso. Unokuthi "Ndilapha ukukuxhasa" okanye "Nceda wazi ukuba usezingqondweni nakwimithandazo yam." ".
  • Ukuba unako, unganqikazi ukunika uncedo lwakho: "Ukuba ufuna uncedo kwiinkqubo zolawulo, ungathandabuzi ukunditsalela umnxeba". 
  • Qeda ngesivakalisi esilula nesinyanisekileyo: "Ndinentliziyo ephela ndinawe", "Yazi ukuba sisondele kakhulu kuwe ngengcinga".

Bonisa uvelwano nokunyaniseka. Umyalezo wakho kufuneka unyaniseke kwaye ubonise ukuba umkhathalele ngokwenene umntu ophulukene nesithandwa sakhe.

Imizekelo yeleta elula yovelwano:

"Wayengumntu olungileyo ..."

“Kobu bunzima bunzima, ndifuna ukuphinda ubuhlobo bam kwaye ndikuqinisekise ngenkxaso yam. Ndihlala ndihlala ndicinga ngomfanekiso kayihlo onesisa sakhe kunye nojoie de vivre ababengumzekelo kum. Ndinqwenela ukuba phakathi kweenyembezi zakho ubenokuzoba uncumo lwebhongo ngelixa usazixelela ukuba: "ibingumntu olungileyo, bawo". Ndikwanga kakhulu. "

"Asinakuze siyilibale ..."

Ukusweleka komntu obalaseleyo kushiya isikhewu esothusayo kodwa kusishiya nelifa elininzi lokuziphatha.
Sonke singabathwali beli dangatye walikhanyisa ezintliziyweni zethu ...
Sonke singabagcini benkumbulo yakhe.
Asinakuze simlibale kwaye uya kuhlala kuthi ngonaphakade. "

Ukufumanisa: I-50 yeeNdawo eziQhelekileyo zoKhuthazo kunye nokukhuthaza iiYoga (Iifoto) & Imiyalezo yoKhuseleko loSapho engama-45 elula neFutshane

[Iyonke: 7 Ithetha: 3.4]

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