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Kodi saliosexual ndi chiyani?
Mawu akuti "saliosexual" sanalembedwe kapena kufotokozedwa muzinthu zamakono. Kumbali inayi, pali lingaliro loyandikirana mwamafonetiki komanso mwamalingaliro: sapiosexuality, yomwe imatanthawuza kukopa kugonana ndi luntha la munthu.
Sapiosexuality imafotokoza zokonda pomwe nzeru zimakhala patsogolo kuposa jenda kapena mawonekedwe athupi. Kuwongolera uku kumagogomezera kukondoweza m'maganizo monga gwero loyamba la kukopa.
Chiyambi ndi tanthauzo la sapiosexuality
Mawu akuti sapiosexual amachokera ku Chilatini "sapio," kutanthauza kudziwa, kumvetsetsa, kapena kuweruza. Neologism iyi idawonekera ku United States koyambirira kwa 2010s. Mawuwa amatanthauza anthu amene amakopeka kwambiri ndi nzeru za ena.
Munthu wokonda kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amaona kuti chikhalidwe, kuganiza komanso kulankhula momveka bwino kuposa momwe thupi limakhalira. Chidwi chanzeru chimakhala chofunikira pa ubale ndi thupi.
Makhalidwe a sapiosexual kukopa
- Luntha ndiye muyezo waukulu wa kukopa.
- Kukopa kumatengera kulingalira, chidziwitso ndi zokambirana zakuya.
- Makhalidwe a thupi samakanidwa koma ndi achiwiri.
- Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumaposa jenda komanso chikhalidwe chodziwika bwino chogonana.
Izi sizikupatula kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. M'malo mwake, imadziwonetsera yokha ngati fyuluta kapena kukula pakati pa ena muzokopa zogonana.
Sapiosexuality: Zokonda Zogonana Kapena Zofuna Zokopa?
Akatswiri amatsutsana zenizeni za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ena amaona kuti si njira yodziyimira pawokha yofuna kugonana, koma ndi muyezo waukulu pakusankha mabwenzi.
Zimakhudza kusankha poyika psychology ndi luntha patsogolo, motero kusintha machitidwe achikhalidwe, okhudza thupi.
Kufalikira ndi kuzindikirika ndi anthu
Sapiosexuality yayamba kuwoneka chifukwa cha media ndi malo ochezera kuyambira 2010s. Anthu angapo pagulu, kuphatikiza a Marlène Schiappa ndi a Sophie Marceau, anena izi.
Pa mapulogalamu ena a zibwenzi, zokondazi zimawonekera bwino. Zida zasayansi, monga mafunso a SapioQ opangidwa ku Australia, amayesa kuyesa kukopa kwanzeru uku.
Nkhani ndi mikangano yokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Lingaliroli likuwonetsa kusintha kwa chikhalidwe komwe kudziwika kwa kugonana kumakhala kosavuta komanso kovuta. Imakayikira kufunikira kwachilengedwe kwachilengedwe kokopa.
Komabe, zimakopa kutsutsidwa. Ena amawona kuti sapiosexuality ndi yodzionetsera kapena yochepetsera, chifukwa imatha kuchepetsa malingaliro anzeru kuzinthu zongoganizira chabe.
Komanso, m'machitidwe, kutchuka kwa nzeru nthawi zina kumabisa kukonda kwachinsinsi kwa maonekedwe kapena kuvutika kuganiza zosatetezeka zina zokhudzana ndi kugonana.
Chidule cha mfundo zazikuluzikulu
- Saliosexual si liwu lodziwika kapena lofotokozedwa m'magwero apano.
- Sapiosexual zimatanthawuza kukopa kumene nzeru zimakhala patsogolo kuposa jenda ndi maonekedwe a thupi.
- Lingaliro ili linabadwira ku United States mu 2010s ndipo likufalikira kudzera pa intaneti ndi chikhalidwe chodziwika.
- Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumawonedwa ngati njira yokopa kuposa chikhalidwe chosiyana chogonana.
- Imayamikira chikhalidwe, kulingalira ndi chidziwitso mu ubale wapamtima.
- Lingaliroli pakadali pano ndi nkhani yamakambirano okhudzana ndi kuyimira kwake komanso kutsimikizika kwake.
Kodi saliosexual ndi chiyani? Ulendo wopita kumtima wokopa waluntha
O, saliosexual ! Mawu ochititsa chidwi, odabwitsawa amadzutsa mafunso ambiri kuposa zotsimikizika. Komabe, zikuwonekeratu kuti muzinthu zomwe zilipo, ndizosowa - ngakhale zosatheka - kuzipeza momveka bwino. Kumbali ina, mawu ofanana, pafupifupi mapasa olembedwa molakwika, akupanga anthu kulankhula: sapiosexual. Tisanadumphire m'nyanja yamalingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, tiyeni tifufuze poyang'ana zomwe "sapiosexual" imatanthauza komanso chifukwa chake ingakuunikire funso lanu.
Kukhala ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndiko kukopeka ndi nzeru zogonana—muyezo wapamwamba kuposa kukongola kapena jenda. Ili ndiye fungulo. Chifukwa chake, ngati saliosexual ilipo ndipo ikugwirizana ndi lingaliro ili, titha kuganiza kuti imayimira gawo kapena kukopa komwe ubongo wofiira kwambiri kuposa thupi umapangitsa mtima kugunda.
Chifukwa chiyani sapiosexual osati saliosexual?
Osachita mantha mopitirira. Teremuyo sapiosexual ndi zenizeni, zokhala ndi chiyambi chomveka bwino komanso tanthauzo lenileni, lochokera ku Chilatini "sapio" zomwe zimabweretsa kukoma, nzeru, luntha ndi chiweruzo. Mawu akuti "kugonana" mwachibadwa amamveketsa bwino munda: kukopa thupi kumatsogoleredwa ndi malingaliro.
Pakadali pano, mawu akuti saliosexual akuwoneka ngati kusintha kapena zolakwika. Popanda matanthauzo ovomerezeka, ofufuza, akatswiri a zachikhalidwe cha anthu ndi akatswiri okhudzana ndi kugonana akuyang'ana pa sapiosexual, yomwe yakhala mawu omveka kuyambira 2010s, nkhani ya intaneti ndi mitundu yatsopano ya zidziwitso zogonana.
Luntha koposa zonse: ndi chiyani chomwe chimayambitsa sapiosexuality?
Tangoganizani kwa kamphindi kuti kukongola konyezimira, minofu yotukuka kapena kumwetulira kwa Hollywood ndizocheperako. Izi ndi zomwe sapiosexuals amakumana nazo. Chokopa chawo chachikulu chagona pakulankhula, chikhalidwe, kulankhula komanso nzeru. Zili ngati kuti kukopa kumaphatikizapo kugwirizanitsa maganizo musanayambe kuyang’anana.
Kodi mumadziwa? Kafukufuku waku Australia adapanga Mafunso a Sapiosexual (SapioQ) kuyeza kukopa uku! Lingaliro silingasinthidwe, liyenera kuyesedwa.
Muyeso wosiyana wa kukopa
Sapiosexuality imatsutsa kulamulira kwakuthupi m'chikondi. Inde, chithumwa, mawonekedwe kapena mawonekedwe sizitha, koma nthawi zambiri zimayikidwa pambali, "kumbuyo kwa shelefu" ngati buku labwino loyiwalika pamene malingaliro okopa akusefukira ndi umunthu.
Ndipo uthenga wabwino ndi wakuti kutsata uku kumatsutsana ndi magulu apamwamba. Apa, jenda zilibe kanthu, kapenanso malingaliro ogonana. Luntha likhoza kuyatsa moto mwa amuna, akazi, kapena munthu wina aliyense.
Chifukwa sapiosexuality si malingaliro ogonana okha.
Apa ndi pamene zimakhala zovuta. Mwalamulo, sapiosexuality si njira yosiyana yogonana, malinga ndi akatswiri. Ndilo gawo lofunikira pakukopa, koma sapiosexual amatha kudzifotokoza yekha, mwachitsanzo, ngati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena ena.
Mwachidule, kukhala sapiosexual kumatanthauza kuika patsogolo nzeru pa kufunafuna chikondi, popanda kudzipatula ku miyeso ina ya kugonana.
Media ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu
Kuyambira 2010, sapiosexuality yalowa mu chikhalidwe cha intaneti, makamaka ku United States. Kenako anawoloka malire n’kukafika ku France. Odziwika angapo adadzinenera izi m'manyuzipepala, kuphatikiza Marlène Schiappa ndi Sophie Marceau, akuwonjezera kulemera kwa mkangano komanso phokoso.
Pa mapulogalamu a zibwenzi, mbiri ya sapiosexual ikuyamba kuyenda bwino, zosefera "kuyang'ana mzimu wowunikiridwa" osati kumwetulira kokongola. Ndi kusintha kuchokera ku swipe yachikale, sichoncho?
Mawanga akuda pachithunzichi: zotsutsa ndi mikangano
Lingaliro lililonse latsopano limakumana ndi kutsutsa. Sapiosexuality ndi chimodzimodzi. Nthawi zina amaonedwa ngati odzikuza, ndi anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amawaona ngati opusa omwe amakonda luntha malinga ndi zomwe amakonda kwambiri kuti akhale owona. Ena amanenanso kuti ali ndi lingaliro lochepa la luntha (kodi ndi IQ, chidziwitso chambiri kapena kutha kukambirana?).
Komanso, zimachitika kuti kuseri kwa "luntha kukopa" amabisa zovuta kwenikweni kumanga kugwirizana popanda zosefera, kapena - tiyeni tikhale owona mtima - njira yozungulira yophimba kusagwirizana kwina mu kugonana kapena kutsika kwa libido. Mwachidule, sinthawi zonse kukhala kosangalatsa kwa chikondi chokwaniritsidwa.
Ndiye, kodi saliosexual ilipo kapena ayi?
Zomwe zafufuzidwa sizimatchula mawuwa momveka bwino saliosexual. Komabe, kwenikweni amatanthauza sapiosexuality. Chifukwa chake titha kunena, mosadabwitsa, kuti liwu loti saliosexual ndi lolakwika kapena lofala kwambiri la sapiosexual - ngati "konkriti" ndi "chosakaniza simenti", mawu awiri omwe ali pafupi, koma osati chinthu chomwecho.
Ngati mukuyang'ana tanthawuzo la saliosexual, kubetcha kotetezeka ndikulingalira ngati njira yokopa yomwe ubongo umatenga gawo lalikulu pakukopa. Anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ngati sapiosexual kapena typo, malinga ndi chiphunzitso cha pragmatic.
N'chifukwa chiyani mukufuna matanthauzo atsopano?
Nthawi yathu imatipempha kuti tiganizirenso za kugonana komanso njira zokopa. Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi kuchuluka kwa zilembo (pansexual, demisexual, sapiosexual, skoliosexual, etc.) zimasonyeza kufunikira koyeretsa munthu mmodzi, kunena kuti "Ndili choncho." M'nkhaniyi, kukhala sapiosexual ndichinthu chodzinenera komanso chida chosavuta chochotsera zikhalidwe zachikhalidwe.
Ndiye mukuganiza bwanji? Kodi mukuganiza kuti nzeru ndiye njira yokopa kwambiri? Kapena mzimu wowonjezera pamasewera akulu okopa?
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- Khalani otsegula: Chizindikiro ndi chida, osati khola. Pitirizani zosangalatsa mu ulendo wanu, popanda kudzitengera nokha kwambiri.
Pomaliza
Ngati funso lanu "Kodi saliosexual ndi chiyani?" » imayang'ana pa chiyambi cha kukopa komwe malingaliro amatenga patsogolo, sapiosexuality ndi yankho lanu. Kuwongolera kwaposachedwa uku kumaona luntha ngati dalaivala wamkulu wa chikhumbo. Zimakhudza kwambiri m'badwo wa digito pomwe umunthu uliwonse umafuna kudzifotokozera mwanjira yawoyawo.
Sili wangwiro, ndi lotseguka kutsutsana, koma koposa zonse likutipempha kuti tiyang'ane kupyola maonekedwe ndikuganizira zomwe zikuchitika kumbuyo kwa mawu, malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Mwina nkhani yabwino kwa iwo amene akufuna kukonda ndi mutu wawo monganso ndi mtima wawo.
"Sapiosexuality ikupeza zokambirana zopatsa chidwi."
Tangoganizani: zithunzi zochepa zolumikizidwanso, mikangano yotentha kwambiri. Nanga mukuti bwanji?
Kodi kukhala saliosexual kumatanthauza chiyani?
Mawu akuti saliosexual samatanthauzidwa pazomwe zili. N'zotheka kuti izi ndi chisokonezo ndi sapiosexual, zomwe zikutanthauza kukopa nzeru osati maonekedwe.
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa saliosexual ndi sapiosexual?
Saliosexual sichidziwika ngati nthawi yovomerezeka. Sapiosexual imatanthawuza kukopeka pakugonana komwe nzeru ndiye njira yayikulu, kupitilira jenda kapena mawonekedwe athupi.
Kodi saliosexual ndi malingaliro ogonana?
Mawu akuti saliosexual sanalembedwe. Sapiosexuality, yomwe nthawi zambiri imasokonezedwa, imawoneka ngati njira yofunika kwambiri yokopa, koma osati kudziyimira pawokha pakugonana.
Kodi pali kafukufuku wasayansi wokhudza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?
Ayi, palibe maphunziro okhudza mawu awa. Kumbali ina, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kwaphunziridwa, makamaka kudzera m'mafunso kuti ayese kukopeka ndi luntha.
Chifukwa chiyani mawu oti saliosexual amadziwika pang'ono?
Kungakhale kulakwitsa kapena kupangidwa. Mawu odziwika komanso ophunziridwa ndi sapiosexual, omwe adawonekera mu 2010s, olumikizidwa ndi kukopa kwanzeru.
