Chithunzi ndi Sarah G.
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Kodi kusiyana kwa sapiosexual ndi chiyani?
Chosiyana chachikulu cha sapiosexual nthawi zambiri chimatengedwa ngati pansexuality, komwe kukopa sikuchokera pa luntha koma kumakhudza aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za luntha. Kutanthauzira uku kumafotokozedwa ndi mfundo yakuti sapiosexuality imachokera ku kukopa komwe kumakhazikika pamlingo wanzeru, pamene pansexuality ndi njira yophatikizira yokopa.
Tanthauzo ndi nkhani yotsutsana ndi sapiosexual
Sapiosexuality imatanthawuza kukopeka pakugonana kapena kukondana komwe kumatengera nzeru za munthu. Mosiyana ndi izi, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumaphatikizapo kukopa anthu onse, mosasamala kanthu za momwe amagonana, amuna kapena akazi, kapena nzeru.
- Pansexuals amakopeka ndi mawonekedwe onse amunthu.
- Nzeru, ngati zilipo, sizomwe zimatsimikizira.
- Izi zimazindikira mitundu yonse ya kugonana ndi zidziwitso.
Mawu otsutsana enieni a sapiosexual amathanso kuwonedwa ngati chokopa kwa anthu opanda nzeru, koma mawuwa sagwiritsidwa ntchito kawirikawiri kapena ovomerezeka.
Kusiyanitsa pakati pa sapiosexuality ndi mitundu ina yokopa
Sapiosexuality sikuti imatsutsana ndi mawonekedwe osiyana kwambiri. M'malo mwake, zimasiyana ndi njira zokopa potengera njira zina:
- Zokopa kapena zokopa: Zitha kuwonetsedwa mwa kukonda maonekedwe a thupi kapena makhalidwe ena a thupi, ndikuchoka pamaganizo.
- Ufiti wogonana: Zoyang'ana kuzinthu kapena kukongola, ndizotalikirana ndi nzeru zomwe zimakondweretsa sapiosexual.
- Kugonana: Zimayimira kusowa kwa chilakolako chogonana. M'lingaliro limeneli, ndikutsutsana ndi zochitika za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zomwe zikutanthawuza kukopa kokhazikika komanso kolimba.
Marie-Line Urbain akugogomezera kuti luntha lanzeru ndilokhazikika pa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pamene mitundu ina yokopa imachokera ku zomwe zimatchedwa "zomverera" kapena zongopeka.
Chidule cha zotsutsana za sapiosexual
| Zotsutsana / Zotsutsana | tanthauzo | mafotokozedwe |
|---|---|---|
| Pansexuality | Kukopa aliyense posatengera nzeru | Kuphatikizikako, kosagwirizana ndi zokonda zanzeru |
| Kugonana | Kusowa chilakolako chogonana | Nkhani yotsutsana ndi kukopeka kulikonse kogonana, kuphatikizapo sapiosexual |
| Kugonana fitishism (kutsutsa kwabwino) | Kukopa kumangoyang'ana pazinthu zenizeni kapena mawonekedwe | Popanda nzeru muyeso, amaonedwa mosiyana mu chikhalidwe cha kukopa |
| Liral antonym | Kukopa anthu anzeru zochepa | Theoretical, yogwiritsidwa ntchito pang'ono ngati mawu a konkire |
Osati duel ya binary koma njira zokopa
Ndikofunikira kuwona kuti sapiosexuality ndi zotsutsana zake sizipanga mawonekedwe otsutsana kwambiri. M'malo mwake, amatchula njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe munthu angakopeke nazo:
- Kukopa kwanzeru (sapiosexuality).
- Kukopa kotseguka kwa mitundu yonse ya anthu opanda nzeru (pansexuality).
- Kusowa chilakolako chogonana (asexuality).
- Chikoka choyang'ana pa zinthu zopanda nzeru (fetishism).
Kusiyanaku kukuwonetsa kulemera ndi zovuta za zomwe anthu amakonda.
Mfundo zofunika kuzikumbukira
- Pansexuality ndichotsutsana kwambiri ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (kukopa sikungokhala ndi nzeru).
- Thekugonana imayimira kutsutsana kwa zochitika, kusonyeza kusowa kwa chilakolako chogonana.
- La kusiyana kwamakhalidwe pakati pa kukopa kwaluntha ndi kukopa kwenikweni kwakuthupi kapena kwamatsenga kumawunikira njira ina yotsutsa.
- Themawu otsutsana kwenikweni (kukonda anthu anzeru zochepa) si mawu ovomerezeka mu LGBT+ kapena psychology.
Kodi kusiyana kwa sapiosexual ndi chiyani? Kufufuza momveka bwino komanso kothandiza
Zosiyana ndi sapiosexual nthawi zambiri zimaganiziridwa kuti pansexuality, chikhalidwe chomwe chimaphatikiza kukopa kotseguka kwa anthu onse, popanda kupanga nzeru kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Zophweka monga izo? Inde, koma musafulumire kuyiwala zovuta zomwe zili m'mawu awa!
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi chikumbutso: Sapiosexuality imatanthawuza kukopa kugonana kapena kukondana makamaka chifukwa cha luntha. Munthu amene amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakopeka ndi kuganiza bwino, chidwi, komanso kuganiza mozama kwa munthu. Maonekedwe a thupi amangochitika mwangozi - ndi ubongo umene umakopa.
Ndiye chosiyana ndi chiyani?
Pansexuality: Chotsutsana kwambiri komanso chophatikizika
Pansexuality nthawi zambiri imawoneka ngati yosiyana kwambiri ndi sapiosexuality. Zachiyani ? Chifukwa cholinga chake ndi kukhala wophatikiza, wapadziko lonse lapansi, wotseguka kwa anthu onse, mosasamala kanthu za jenda, kawonekedwe ka kugonana, ngakhale nzeru zawo.
Pansexuality siyiyika luntha pachimake. Amagwa m'chikondi ndi chirichonse: kumwetulira, mphamvu, kukongola, umunthu, chikoka. Mwachidule, chilichonse chimene chimapanga munthu, popanda malire "kodi kapena alibe nzeru?" »
"Zosiyana ndi sapiosexual nthawi zambiri zimakhala zachiwerewere, zomwe zimaphatikizana kwambiri ndi anthu omwe amatha kukopeka ndi wina aliyense."
Kenako timamvetsetsa kuti sapiosexual akuchita mndandanda wake mulaibulale, pomwe pansexual amawona gulu lonse popanda tsankho.
Mawu otsutsa enieni: kuphatikana ndi nzeru… kapena ayi
Ngati tikumba mozama, chosiyanacho chingakhale chokopa kwambiri kwa anthu opanda nzeru. Lingaliro losavuta, koma lomwe sitiliwona kawirikawiri likufotokozedwa mwachindunji.
Ndi pafupifupi sewero la mawu: sapio (luntha) motsutsana ndi munthu yemwe safuna kuti khalidweli likhale lofunika kwambiri. Izi zikutiwonetsa kukula ndi kusiyanasiyana kwa zokopa.
Kusiyanitsa mitundu yokopa: sikuti nthawi zonse imakhala yapawiri
Tiyenera kupewa kukhulupirira kuti sapiosexual ndi zosiyana zake zimapanga mizati iwiri ya mzere womwewo. M'malo mwake, ndi njira ziwiri zosiyana zopezera kukopa.
A sapiosexual amafuna kulimbikitsa maganizo. Pansexual imakonda kukopa chidwi chapadziko lonse lapansi, osakhazikitsidwa ndi mfundo zina monga luntha.
Monga momwe Marie-Line Urbain, katswiri pankhaniyi, akunenera:
"Sizokhudza mtengo umodzi mpaka wina, koma za mitundu iwiri yosiyana yomwe munthu angakopeke nayo."
Kuphatikiza apo: kukhudzika komanso kusagonana pakupulumutsa
Kupitilira pansexuality, malingaliro ena amabwera kudzalowa nawo gawo la zotsutsana kapena njira zina za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Thekugonana, mwachitsanzo, zikuimira kusowa kapena kusakopeka ndi kugonana. Pano, palibenso chokopa chanzeru kuposa kukopa wamba. Mtundu wotsutsana kwambiri, osati mwa kusankha koyenera koma chifukwa chilakolako chogonana chimachepetsedwa kapena kulibe.
Tithanso kuganiza za kukopa kongoganizira chabe, ngakhale zongoyerekeza, monga matsenga ogonana. Apa, ndi chinthu kapena mawonekedwe akuthupi omwe amatsogolera. Zosiyana kwambiri ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komwe kuli zongopeka zochepa zogonana komanso malingaliro ambiri olimbikitsa mwaluntha.
"Pamlingo wina, […] kunyada kumawonedwa ngati kosiyana. Si nzeru, ndi nkhambakamwa. Mu kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pali malingaliro ochepa ogonana." (Marie-Line Urbain)
Allosexual: osati gulu losiyana koma logwirizana
Mawu owonjezera pamutuwu ndi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, lomwe limatanthawuza anthu omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana ndi ena. Ndizosiyana ndi asexual, koma ubale wake ndi sapiosexual siwosiyana mwachindunji.
Izi zikuwonetsa momwe malingaliro okopa ndi kugonana amadumphadumpha ndikulumikizana mosakanikirana.
Mwachidule, phale la zotsutsana kutengera ngodya yosankhidwa.
| Zotsutsana / Zosiyana | tanthauzo | Muyeso wofunikira |
|---|---|---|
| Pansexuality | Kukopa kotseguka kwa anthu onse popanda kusankha mwaluntha | Kuphatikizika ndi kusiyanasiyana kwa njira zokopa |
| Kukopa anthu anzeru zochepa | Kusiyanitsa kwenikweni ndi sapiosexuality | Kutsutsa kwachindunji kwa kukopa kokhazikika mwaluntha |
| Kugonana | Kusowa chilakolako chogonana kapena chikondi | Kusowa kwa chikhumbo m'malo motsutsa kutengera mfundo |
| Kugonana kwamatsenga | Kukopeka ndi chinthu china kapena thupi | Zoyendetsedwa ndi zongopeka, popanda kukondoweza mwaluntha |
Koma n’chifukwa chiyani pali kusiyana kochuluka chonchi?
Kukopa kugonana ndi chikondi ndizovuta. Munthu aliyense ali ndi njira zake, akudziwa kapena ayi, zomwe zimakhudza zomwe amakonda. Sapiosexuality ndi yochititsa chidwi chifukwa imawonetsa luntha lomwe nthawi zambiri silimawonedwa m'chikondi. Chosiyana chake chotero sichiri lingaliro limodzi chabe, koma mndandanda wa zenizeni zosiyana zomwe zimatsutsa kapena kukwaniritsa masomphenya anzeru awa.
Zili ngati kufunsa kuti chosiyana ndi "wokonda mabuku" ndi chiyani. Izi zikhoza kukhala "okonda masewera," komanso "osakhudzidwa ndi zonsezi," kapena "okonda nyimbo." Malingana ndi ngodya, mayankho amasintha.
Malangizo ena othandiza kukuthandizani kupeza njira yozungulira
- Ngati mukumva ngati sapiosexual, Sangalalani ndi mphindi zimenezo za zokambirana zabwino komanso kusinthana kosangalatsa kwa malingaliro, chifukwa kumapangitsa kukopa kwamtunduwu.
- Ngati ndinu pansexual, Mwina ndi kumasuka kwanu ndi kuvomereza kwanu komwe kumakupangitsani kukhala yemwe muli, njira yabwino yopewera kudzilowetsa mubokosi limodzi.
- Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zotsutsana, Onaninso zachiwerewere komanso zamatsenga monga kwina kulikonse m'gulu la anthu, kuti mumvetse bwino mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zokopa.
Ndipo inu, mu zonsezi, mungadzifotokoze bwanji nokha?
Kodi mumangofuna kukopeka ndi ubongo wa munthu wina, kapena mumalola kukopeka ndi mikhalidwe ina chikwi mopanda malire? Mwina zomwe mumakonda zimasintha pakapita nthawi, kudzera muzokumana nazo kapena zokumana nazo.
Chinthu chimodzi chikhala chomveka bwino: palibe malingaliro omwe ali apamwamba kuposa ena; zimangogwirizana ndi zosowa ndi zofuna za anthu zosiyanasiyana. Kuzindikira ma nuances kumakulitsa kumvetsetsa kwathu kwa ife tokha komanso ubale wa anthu.
Kutsiliza
Zosiyana ndi sapiosexual zimatanthauzidwa makamaka ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komwe kumaphatikizapo kukopa kwachilengedwe chonse komanso kophatikizana popanda kuyang'ana pa luntha. Komabe, mitundu ina monga kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha imasonyezanso zotsutsana kapena njira zina malinga ndi zomwe mumakonda (kusakhala ndi kukopeka kapena kukopeka kopanda nzeru).
Kutengera ngati mumakonda mikangano yamafilosofi kapena mayanjano osiyanasiyana komanso osiyanasiyana, dziko lazokopa silikusowa ma nuances. M'malo moyang'ana chosiyana, fufuzani mbiri, dzifunseni nokha, ndikukumbatira kuchuluka kwa chikondi chamunthu, chomwe chimapitilira mawu amodzi.
Kotero, mwakonzeka kuika mutu wanu kapena mtima wanu (kapena mwina zonse) mu ulendo wotsatira wachikondi?
Kodi chosiyana kwambiri ndi sapiosexual ndi chiyani?
Chosiyana chachikulu nthawi zambiri chimakhala pansexuality. Imayimira kukopa kopanda mfundo zinazake zaluntha, chifukwa chake kwa munthu aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za luntha lawo.
Kodi tinganene kuti kutsutsa kwa sapiosexual ndikokopa anthu opanda nzeru?
Inde, mawu otsutsana enieni amafanana ndi kukopa kwa anthu opanda nzeru, omwe amatsutsa mwachindunji kukonda kwa sapiosexual kwa luntha.
Kodi pansexuality ndi mtundu wokhawo wosiyana wa sapiosexuality?
Ayi. Asexuality, kutanthauza kusowa kwa chilakolako chogonana, amathanso kuwonedwa ngati zosiyana. Komanso, kukopeka kwa matsenga, komwe kumakhazikika pathupi, ndikonso kutsutsa.
Kodi fitishism yogonana ingaganizidwe bwanji yotsutsana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?
Fetishism imayang'ana pa zinthu zakuthupi, zopanda nzeru kapena mbali, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi zongopeka. Sapiosexuality imagogomezera kulumikizana kwanzeru ndipo imakhala ndi zongopeka zochepa zokhudzana ndi zinthu.
Kodi mawu akuti allosexual ndi osagwirizana ndi sapiosexual?
Osati ndendende. Allosexual amatanthauza anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kugonana nthawi zambiri, osatchula mulingo wanzeru womwe umatanthawuza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
