🎶 2022-08-17 00:00:00 - Paris/France.
Zochitika zinatsatira mwamsanga.
Kumayambiriro kwa Lachinayi m'mawa, woimba Michelle Nthambi adalemba pa Twitter kuti adapeza mwamuna wake wazaka zitatu, woimba Patrick Carney, yemwe ali ndi ana awiri aang'ono, adamunyengerera ndi bwana wake pamene Nthambi inali kunyumba ndi banjali. mwana wamng'ono, miyezi 6. Mayiyo wotchedwa Nthambi mu tweet mwamsanga anatenga malo ake ochezera a pa Intaneti kwachinsinsi. Nthambi sinatero, koma idachotsa tweet.
Lachisanu, Nthambi idasudzulana ndi Carney. Patangopita nthawi pang'ono, zidadziwika kuti Nthambi idamangidwa Lachinayi m'mawa pambuyo poti apolisi adayitanidwa kunyumba ya banjali ku Nashville chifukwa chazovuta zapakhomo.
Ndizosokoneza komanso zikukula, koma zochitika izi zitha kukopa chidwi kwambiri pamutu wofunikira, womwe, chifukwa cha mlandu wa Johnny Depp ndi Amber Heard, ukuwoneka wochulukira m'nkhani: nkhanza za anzawo ndi kuwongolera.
M’makalata osudzulana, Nthambi inatchula “kusiyana kotheratu.” Ukwati kwa Carney unali wachiwiri wake. Nthambi anali atakwatirana kwa zaka zopitilira khumi ndi Teddy Landau, woyimba nyimbo za gulu lake panthawiyo. Anakwatirana ali ndi zaka 21 ndipo ali ndi zaka 40, ndipo ali ndi mwana wamkazi wazaka 17. Unali ukwati wachitatu wa Carney, atakwatirana kuyambira 2007 mpaka 2009 ndi Denise Grollmus komanso kuyambira 2012 mpaka 2016 ndi Emily Ward.
Anthu angapo asintha mitu yake ya nyimbo kukhala nkhonya, makamaka "Goodbye to You." Ena anachita nthabwala zosokoneza Nthambi ndi woimba Vanessa Carlton.
Nthambi ndi Carney, yemwe ndi wopanga komanso woyimba ng'oma ya The Black Keys, anakumana paphwando la Grammy mu 2015. Kusudzulana kwake ndi Landau kunamalizidwa kumapeto kwa chaka chimenecho, monga Carney anali ndi Ward patatha chaka chimodzi. Pa social media kutsatira nkhani za chisudzulo cha Nthambi, oyankha adafulumira kunena za kusakhulupirika koyambirira. M'nkhani ya Salon ya 2011, mlembi Grollmus adanena kuti Carney anali wosakhulupirika kwa iye.
Wolemba nyimbo Michelle Nthambi akuimba mu konsati pa 'The Hopeless Romantic Tour' ku Emo's pa July 30, 2017 ku Austin, Texas. (Rick Kern/WireImage/Getty Images)Intaneti idafulumira kusonkhana makamaka ku Nthambi, wopambana Mphotho ya Grammy ya nyimbo monga "Ponseponse" ndi "Happy Now," yemwe adawombera kutchuka akadali wachinyamata. “Ndikukhulupirira kuti Nthambi ikhoza kupita patsogolo,” Yezebeli analemba. Anthu angapo asintha mitu yake ya nyimbo kukhala nkhonya, makamaka "Goodbye to You." Ena pama social media adapanga nthabwala zosokoneza Nthambi ndi woimba Vanessa Carlton; onse ali ndi tsitsi lakuda ndipo adapeza kutchuka kojambula ngati atsikana kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma 2000.
Nthambi iyi inatsekedwa pamene apolisi anabwera kudzawona, ndipo nyumba ya Carney sinalepheretse chithandizo cha intaneti. Monga momwe Vulture ndi ena afotokozera, kumangidwa kwa Nthambi kunali chifukwa chomenya m'nyumba molakwika. TMZ inanena zikalata za khothi pomwe "Nthambi idavomereza kumenya Carney 'kamodzi kapena kawiri' ndipo Carney sanavulale. Nthambi idatulutsidwa itatumiza bondi ya $1. Vulture adayamikira kumasulidwa kwake koyambirira kuti athe kuyamwitsa mwana woyamwitsa wa banjali, yemwe amatchedwa agogo a Carney.
The Los Angeles Times ndi ena ndemanga pa chithunzi apolisi Nthambi, mmene chizindikiro chofiira chikuwonekera pansi pa diso lake, koma Nthambi ali doko vinyo banga birthmark kuti nthawi zina amasankha kuphimba ndi zodzoladzola .
Mafani ena adawona kuti kumenyedwako kunali ngati kulira kwamagulu, kutsimikizira kusakhulupirika kwakukulu. Mtsutso umodzi ndi wakuti chiwawa ndi chiwawa, ndipo chifukwa chake, nthawi zonse zimakhala zosavomerezeka. Ena ankanena za chiwawa chimene chimayambika chifukwa chopsa mtima kwa nthawi yaitali kapena chifukwa chomuopseza. Mawu awa anali mutu wa zokambirana zodziwika panthawi ya mlandu wa Depp ndi Heard. Monga momwe Dr. Jordan Schaul ananenera pokambirana ndi The Daily Dot kuti: “Ochitira nkhanza m’banja ndi ena ochitira nkhanza mwadala angasonkhezere mwadala kuchitapo kanthu kwa ozunzidwawo ndi zolinga zowanyozetsa ndi kudzilungamitsa okha. »
"Tikuwona munthu m'modzi akuyambitsa ndipo wina akuyankha. »
Mawu omwe adatsutsidwa panthawi ya mlandu wa Depp ndi Heard anali "kuzunzana". Katswiri wazamisala yemwe adapereka upangiri wa maanja kwa Depp ndi Heard mu 2015 adanenanso kuti ndizochita zawo. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Laurel Anderson, monga momwe Salon adanena, adanena kukhoti kuti Depp adanena kuti Heard "adapereka zonse zomwe anali nazo." Koma sing'anga yemwe adafunsidwa ndi Salon adati asing'anga nthawi zambiri samawona nkhanza, chiwawa chofanana pakati pa okondedwa. "Tikuwona munthu mmodzi kukhala woyambitsa ndi munthu mmodzi akuyankha," Dr. Kathy Nickerson, katswiri wa zamaganizo wovomerezeka, anauza Salon. “Pali kusiyana pakati pa khalidwe loipa ndi nkhanza. »
Nkhanza zimatha kuchitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikiza chizolowezi chowongolera, kuwongolera, kapena kukana zenizeni za wina. Kusakhulupirika kungagwirizanitsidwe ndi nkhanza, monga momwe Dr. Robert Weiss akulembera mu Psychology Today kuti: “m’mene amuna ndi akazi amene amachita chigololo nthaŵi zina amachitira nkhanza ndi kuchitira nkhanza anzawo amene anaperekedwa—kaŵirikaŵiri monga mbali ya kutsimikizira kapena kubisa khalidwe lawo”. Kupatula ziwopsezo, kuzunzidwa m'malingaliro, kapena kugwiriridwa kapena kugwiriridwa, Weiss akunena kunyalanyaza ngati njira yachipongwe, pomwe mnzake womuchitira nkhanza amalephera "kukwaniritsa udindo wake" kapena "kusiya mwamalingaliro okondedwa ndi/kapena ana".
Panthawi imodzimodziyo, akazi angakhale ozunza, ndipo amuna akhoza kuchitidwa nkhanza, kuphatikizapo akazi ogonana nawo. Bungwe loona za nkhanza za m’banja la National Coalition of Domestic Violence, linanena kuti mwamuna mmodzi pa amuna 1 aliwonse amachitiridwa nkhanza za m’banja, poyerekeza ndi mkazi mmodzi mwa amayi anayi alionse, koma mwamuna mmodzi pa amuna anayi alionse amachitiridwa nkhanza za mtundu wina ndi mnzake wapamtima. . . Izi zikuphatikizapo makhalidwe osiyanasiyana (monga kumenya mbama, kukankhana, kukankhana) ndipo nthawi zina sangaonedwe ngati ‘nkhanza zapakhomo’. »
Mukufuna kufotokozeranso nkhani zonse ndi ndemanga za Salon tsiku lililonse? Lembetsani ku nkhani yathu yam'mawa, Crash Course.
Monga momwe mlembi Shannon Ashley akulembera ponena za Nthambi ndi Carney kuti: “Mmene chikhalidwe chathu chimasinthira chimadalira zochita zathu zonse pamodzi panthaŵi ino. Kuseka, kunyoza, ndi kunyalanyaza zomwe zinachitika zidzatipangitsa kupitirizabe kuchitira nkhanza m'tsogolo m'njira zosasangalatsa komanso zosalingana. poyera, kuvomereza zovuta ndi zovuta - izi zidzatithandiza kupita patsogolo ndi kusintha njira. »
Ngati mlandu wa Johnny Depp ndi Amber Heard watiphunzitsa chilichonse, ndikuti anthu ambiri amalimbana ndi zovuta. Chochitika cha Nthambi ndi Carney mwina ndi chitsanzo china cha zovuta za nkhanza zapakhomo komanso kufunika kozindikira zotsatira zake zokhalitsa.
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SOURCE: Ndemanga za News
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