✔️ 2022-08-17 09:01:00 - Paris/France.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zoyamba zomwe ndidachita chibwenzi chachitali chitatha mu 2019 ndikutsitsa pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi - makamaka yolimbikitsidwa, ndiyenera kuvomereza, ndikungoganizira momwe mnzanga wakale adachitira ataona mbiri yanga. Kuyambira pamenepo, sindinasiye kwenikweni. Ndimakhala pa nthawi yopuma malonda a TV, ndikudikirira kuti microwave ilire, m'matumba onse a nthawi yomwe ndinkakonda kumvetsera maganizo anga. Ndili pabedi langa, ndimagona chagada ndikugudubuzika mpaka dzanja langa limachita kunjenjemera chifukwa magazi onse atuluka. Komabe, mosasamala kanthu za kudzipereka kwanga, sanandipezere chibwenzi, ngakhale kugonana kochuluka. Ndipotu iwo anachita zosiyana kwambiri ndi zimene ndinkaganiza kuti adzachita nditangomva za iwo. Sapanga chilichonse kukhala chophweka - amachipangitsa kukhala chovuta kwambiri.
Ndinali ku koleji pamene anthu ozungulira ine anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito Tinder. Panthawiyo ndinali ndi chibwenzi, choncho sindinasainirepo. Koma ndikukumbukira kuti ndinkachitira nsanje anthu amene anachita nsanje. Zingakhale zosavuta kupeza munthu, ndinaganiza: simungataye madzulo kumacheza ndi anthu omwe amasuta kuti mudziwe kuti ali ndi chibwenzi, kapena kutsegula chitseko chokanidwa polemba dzina lanu pa chopukutira ndikuchipereka kwa woperekera zakudya. Inu munangoyenera kusankha ngati mumakonda maonekedwe a munthu, dikirani kuti achite zomwezo ndipo ngati ndi choncho, mukhoza kukumana ndi kugonana, kapena chibwenzi , Monga mukufunira. Mapulogalamu angapangitse kusamveka bwino kwa kukopa kukhala koonekeratu.
Zowona, zomwe ndinakumana nazo koyamba ndi mapulogalamu zinali zosangalatsa. Nditatuluka mu siteshoni yapansi panthaka kupita kwa chibwenzi changa, ndinatulutsa mahedifoni anga ndi kuganizira mmene zinalili zosangalatsa kukhala madzulo onse kudziwa mlendo ameneyu. Mapulogalamuwa amandilola kucheza ndi anthu omwe si anzanga omasuka atolankhani. Panali mnyamata wobereka yemwe ndinakumana naye mu bubu mphindi zisanu kuchokera kwa ine yemwe ankakonda heavy metal chifukwa adamva kuti ukamvetsera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi amakupangitsani kugunda kwa mtima; yemwe analoza kusitolo yapakona komwe sangaguleko mowa chifukwa mwini wake amawadziwa mayi ake. Panalinso zokhumudwitsa, monga munthu yemwe adakhala mphindi 12 akuyesera kupeza vidiyoyi pa ketamine chifukwa inali "yoseketsa kwenikweni" (sinali). Koma ngakhale zinthu sizinayende monga momwe adakonzera, zinali zikuyenda, panali mwayi, panali anthu akuti, "Kodi ndi Lachinayi? »
M'kupita kwa nthawi, madetiwa akhala akusowa. M'malo mokufunsani, amakufunsani ID yanu ya Instagram ndipo nthawi zina amakutumizirani ma emojis amoto potengera ma selfies. Mukamaliza kukumana, nthawi zambiri amasowa pambuyo pa tsiku lachitatu, kapena mungatero. Ndinayamba kumva ngati zonse zagwera mmanja mwako. Kupeza nthawi yokumana kunali kotopetsa, mwinanso kosatheka. Mapulogalamu amayika zopinga zambiri zobisika m'njira yanu kuti mupeze munthu, ndipo patapita nthawi anthu adasiya kuyesa kuzungulira iwo.
Chimodzi mwazovuta ndi chakuti mapulogalamu amakupatsani zosankha zambiri zomwe palibe amene amawoneka kuti ndi woyenera. Mwina munasangalala kwambiri ndi loya wachigololo uyu akuseka, koma mtsikanayo yemwe ali ndi meme za eni nyumba pa mbiri yake angawoneke ngati mtundu wanu. Chifukwa chake mumasiya kuyankha, nthawi zambiri popanda kufotokozera, ndipo zimakhala zosavuta mukakumana pa pulogalamu chifukwa sakudziwa anzanu, osagwira ntchito m'nyumba yomweyi, musathamangire kudziko lanu. Mutha kuwawopseza popanda kusokoneza zochita zanu. Palibe chiweruzo.
Ngakhale chisangalalo chokumana ndi anthu osiyanasiyana chimatha msanga, chifukwa pakapita nthawi ma aligorivimu akuwoneka kuti akuwonetsa mtundu wanu ndikuyamba kukuwonetsani makopi osawerengeka a kaboni amunthu yemweyo. (Kwa ine, izi nthawi zambiri zimatanthawuza munthu wovala ubweya wokhala ndi ndolo pang'ono akuchita zolemba.)
Poyang'ana m'mbuyo, zikuwoneka ngati zopanda pake kwa ine kuganiza kuti mapulogalamu angapangitse malumikizano. Tagline ya Hinge ndi 'Yopangidwa kuti ichotsedwe', koma zikadakhala zoona sizikanakhala zambiri zamabizinesi - ndichifukwa chake tsiku lililonse mumayesedwa ndi chidziwitso chonena kuti 'mumagwirizana kwambiri' pakugwiritsa ntchito.
Zaka khumi pambuyo pa ulamuliro wa Tinder, kodi tiyamba kuchoka? Pakhala pali zizindikiro - zolemba zaposachedwa za kuchepa kwa mapulogalamu, zolemba zomwe zimapereka maupangiri okumana ndi anthu pa intaneti. Koma kubwerera m’mbuyo kungakhale kovuta. Mapulogalamu amatilola kulekanitsa moyo wathu wachikondi ndi kucheza wamba, ndiye tsopano mukatuluka simuganiza zokumana ndi munthu - zakhala zomwe mumachita mukadikirira kuti madzi akusamba atenthe. Nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi azibambo otentha kwambiri paphwando ndipo sindimawayang'ana mpaka tsiku lotsatira pomwe ubongo wanga woda nkhawa ukuzungulira usiku wonse ndikuyang'ana cholakwika chilichonse chomwe ndapanga.
Inde, chikondi chimachitika nthawi zonse, ngakhale zonse. Anthu amayankha ngakhale atatopa ndi ntchito, amawonekera Lachiwiri nthawi ya 18pm ngakhale zikutanthauza kuti adzalandira ndalama zokwana mapaundi anayi chifukwa chosowa kalasi yawo yopota. "Tiyenera kuthetsa vutoli! adandilamula mnzanga yemwe adakumana ndi chibwenzi chake pa app. "Pita mosasamala!" »
Patapita masiku angapo, ndinali ndi mwayi woyesera. Ndidafanana ndi munthu yemwe ndidafanana naye katatu pamapulogalamu osiyanasiyana. "Osati iwe pano," adatero meseji. Kumene ndinayankha: "Apa tikupitanso". Panali china chake chachikondi chodabwitsa pa izi - monga kuti tinali okondana odutsa nyenyezi, ophatikizidwa ndi njira zingapo zopangira ma algorithmic, ziwerengero zonse ndi machitidwe omwe amatilozera mkati ndikuchokapo. Tikadakhala kuti tikulimbana ndi ulesi wathu, kudzera mwa wina "ndiye sabata yanu inali bwanji?" kukambirana, mwina tikhoza kubwera ndi chinachake chenicheni. Mwina tidzakakamira kuti tiphunzire masangweji omwe amakonda, chizindikiro chobadwira pamwamba pa phewa lawo. Chotero ndinamuuza kuti ndinali ndi ufulu mlungu umenewo, ngakhale kuti ndinayenera kukwera sitima kupita kunyumba ya makolo anga. Ndinaganizira izi pokonza ndondomeko yanga yotsuka tsitsi.
Mosafunikira kunena kuti sitinakumanepo.
SOURCE: Ndemanga za News
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