🎵 2022-08-30 17:05:32 - Paris/France.
Woyambitsa mnzake wa Neurosis komanso woimba gitala Scott Kelly adalengeza kuti wasiya nyimbo atavomera kuchitira nkhanza mkazi wake ndi ana ake.
M'mawu atsopano omwe adatumizidwa patsamba lake la Facebook, Kelly akulankhula motalika za nkhanzazi, nati "adachita nkhanza zamalingaliro, zachuma, zonyoza komanso zonyoza mkazi wanga ndi ana ang'onoang'ono" pazaka zingapo ".
Iye akulemba kuti: “Pamene ndinayamba kuda nkhaŵa kuti anthu akadziŵa [za nkhanzazo] ndinapeza njira zoletsera mkazi wanga ndi ana anga kugwira ntchito ndi kupita kusukulu ndipo ndinayambitsa magaŵano ndi mabwenzi ndi achibale.
“Ndinayamba kutengeka ndi ulamuliro ndipo ndinagwiritsira ntchito ziwopsezo, chinyengo, ziwopsezo za kudzivulaza ndi kudzipha, kuwononga anthu ndi mbiri yawo, zonsezo kuti ndisungebe ulamuliro umenewo. Nditadziwa kuti mkazi wanga akuchoka, ndinayesetsa kumutsimikizira iye ndi anthu ena kuti ndine wamisala, woona zinthu, komanso sindikudziwa zimene ndikuchita.
“Iye anayesa kundithandiza ndi chithandizo chamankhwala ndi asing’anga. Mabodza anga ndi chinyengo changa chinasweka pamaso pa akatswiri. Pamene mkazi wanga pomalizira pake anayesera kuchoka, ndinam’zembera ndi kum’vutitsa usana ndi usiku ndipo ndinachititsa iye ndi wamng’ono wathu kukhala mwamantha nthaŵi zonse.
“Ndanama kapena kunena zoona zenizeni kwa anthu ambiri za nkhaniyi moti sindingathe kuwatsatira. Sindikufunanso kunama chilichonse mwa izi.
Iye anapitiriza kuti: “Ndimakonda mkazi wanga mpaka kalekale. Iye ndiye munthu wabwino kwambiri yemwe ndimamudziwa. Iye ndi woona mtima kwambiri, wachikondi, ndiponso wamtima wabwino. Kalata iyi [ndi] kufewetsa mopambanitsa kwa kuwonongeka kosatha komwe ndinayambitsa komanso zinthu zosakhululukidwa zomwe ndinamuchitira iye ndi ana athu. Kunena zambiri pagululi sikungathandize aliyense.
“Chowonadi chitangoyamba kuonekera, panali anthu ena amene ankaimba mlandu mkazi wanga chifukwa chondichitira chipongwe kuti andithandize komanso anthu amene amafalitsa mphekesera zomunyoza komanso zowononga. Zisiyeni. Ayenera kukhala wabwino kwambiri. Ngati mukukhala ndi maganizo amenewa kapena mukufalitsa mphekeserazi, muyenera kusiya. Ndili ndi zovuta zina zomwe ndikukumana nazo ndipo ndadzilekanitsa ndi aliyense wokhudzana ndi moyo wanga wapagulu kuti ndizitha kuyang'ana kwambiri zoyipa zanga.
Kelly akuwonjezera kuti zomwe zachitika posachedwa "zinafuna kuti ndichitepo kanthu mwachangu kuti ndiwongole."
"Tsopano ndikudziwa kuti kusankha kukhala ndi moyo wapagulu ndikukhala pa siteji chinali chisankho choyipa kwambiri chomwe ndikanapanga potengera momwe ndiliri. Ndinabisala kuseri kwa chidwi chopanda maziko, ulemu ndi kunyada. Ndinagwiritsa ntchito chikhalidwe changa kukupusitsani mwachindunji kapena mwanjira ina ndikubisa nkhanza kwa banja langa. Ndinakhutitsidwa ndi chinyengo changa komanso kuwongolera komwe kumawonedwa kwa aliyense wokhudzidwa.
Kelly akumaliza kuti, "Ndasiya 100% kukhala katswiri woimba. Anthu ena atha kukhala m'malo ngati awa pomwe palibe kuyankha ndi kusunga umphumphu. Sindingathe. Cholinga changa chokha kwa moyo wanga wonse ndikusamalira banja langa, kuwapatsa malo otetezeka kuti achire, ndikukhazikitsanso chidaliro chawo.
Kutsatira mawu a Kelly, anzake a gulu la Neurosis - Steve Von Till, Dave Edwardson, Noah Landis ndi Jason Roeder - adayankha ndi uthenga wawo, ponena kuti "sangathe kupitirira mlingo wa kunyansidwa ndi kukhumudwa komwe timamva kwa mwamuna yemwe timamutcha m'bale" .
Mu positi, akuwulula kuti adasiyana mwaukadaulo ndi Kelly mu 2019 atazindikira "nkhanza zazikulu zomwe adachitira banja lake zaka zapitazo".
“M’mbuyomu, Scott adaulula mavuto ake m’banja ndi kuchitira chipongwe, komanso cholinga chake chofuna thandizo ndi kusintha khalidwe lake,” adatero chikalatacho. "Zidziwitso zomwe tidaphunzira mu 2019 zidawonetsa kuti Scott adawoloka mzere ndipo palibe kubwerera.
“Sitinauzeko zimenezi chifukwa cholemekeza pempho lachindunji la mkazi wake la kusunga zinsinsi ndi kulemekeza chikhumbo cha banjalo chakuti chisalole zokumana nazo zawo kukhala miseche m’magazini yanyimbo. Ndi nkhani ya Facebook ya Scott ya Ogasiti 27, 2022 yotulutsa zambiri izi poyera, titha kunena zomwe tikuganiza kuti zikuyenera kunenedwa.
"Kwa zaka makumi awiri zapitazi takhala motalikirana ndipo tidangowona Scott titakumana kuti tigwire ntchito yoimba kapena kusewera. Sitinadziŵe kuti zenizeni zinali za banja lake pamene ife kulibe. Mwa kuvomereza kwa Scott, kuzunzidwa kwake kunali kwadala, kolunjika, komanso chinsinsi chotetezedwa - ngakhale kwa ife omwe timayandikana naye kwambiri.
“Titangomva kuti wachitiridwa nkhanza, zinali zovuta kugwirizanitsa nkhani zonyansazo ndi munthu amene tinkaganiza kuti timamudziwa. N'zosadabwitsa kuti anabisa nkhanza kwa nthawi yaitali chifukwa ndi kusakhulupirika kwa makhalidwe athu monga bandmate, zibwenzi, makolo ndi anthu.
Gululo lidalemba kuti adayimba mafoni angapo kuyambira 2019 kuti akambirane moona mtima za momwe gululi lilili komanso momwe iye ndi banja lake akuchitira, koma adakana kutilankhula kwa zaka zitatu. Amawonjezera kuti uthenga watsopano wa Kelly udasindikizidwa osalankhula nawo kaye.
"Kwa ife, lingaliro ili likuwoneka ngati kuyesa kwina kwachinyengo, mwayi wina woti narcissism yake iziwongolera nkhaniyo. Musalole Scott kuti azilankhula za iye mwini, izi ndi za nkhanza zomwe banja lake linakumana nalo.
“Nthawi zambiri timaona kumasuka kwa anthu komanso kuona mtima za matenda amisala kukhala kulimba mtima komanso kothandiza. Sitikukhulupirira kuti ndi momwe zilili pano.
“Palibe kulimba mtima kuchitira nkhanza mkazi ndi ana ako mwadongosolo. Palibe kulimba mtima pa kuvomereza kulakwa pamene simunagwire ntchito yofunikira kuti musinthe khalidwe lanu. Palibe kulimba mtima pa kukana kulankhula moona mtima, kapena kulankhula nkomwe, ndi anzanu apamtima ndi anzanu apamtima, anthu omwe amakuthandizani ndi kukuyimirirani nthawi yayitali ya moyo wanu.
“Poyerekeza ndi chiyambukiro cha zochita za Scott pa banja lake, chiyambukiro cha gulu lathu nchochepa. Komabe, ndi chisoni ndi mantha, timaliranso kutayika kwa ntchito yathu ya moyo ndi cholowa chimene chinali chopatulika kwa ife.
Scott Kelly, woyimba bassist Dave Edwardson ndi woyimba Jason Roeder adapanga Neurosis mu 1985 ndipo atulutsa ma Albums 11.
SOURCE: Ndemanga za News
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