Chithunzi ndi Sarah G.
Ngakhale nthabwala zachikondi zimakuwuzani zina, musaganize kuti zimakusangalatsani. Kaya mumavala chizindikiro cha "mnzanu" kapena chamwamuna, palibe tsiku limodzi lomwe lingadutse musanalimbitse ubale wanu. Inde, pamafunika zoposa zolinga zabwino kuti mukhale ndi banja losangalala.
Kudzikonda nokha tsiku ndi tsiku sikophweka. Muli ndi khalidwe lanu, iye ali ndi lake. Muli ndi zokhumba zanu, amafunitsitsa kuti maloto ake akwaniritsidwe. Mu tango lotanganidwa ili, chinyengo chokhala wokondwa ndikupeza nthawi yoyenera. Kodi mumakafika bwanji kumeneko? Tsatirani malamulo ochepa awa.
Zamkatimu
Phunzirani kudziikira malire
Ayi, # selfcare #wellness #feelgood hashtags simtundu wina wa Instagram. Mu marathon iyi yomwe ndi ubale wa banja, kukhazikitsa malire kumakupatsani mwayi wosunga malingaliro anu ndikusamalira wokondedwa wanu.
Tangoganizirani kwakanthawi. Mutapeza wokondedwa wanu pa malo abwino azibwenzi, mumangofuna chinthu chimodzi: kucheza nawo. Ndi zachilendo. Yoyendetsedwa ndi ma pheromones komanso kukonda kwanu, mumalakalaka nkhani ya Romeo ndi Juliet yomwe imayamba pafupipafupi masiku ano chifukwa cha malo ochezera.
Kokha, mu kuthamanga kwakanthawi uku, mumadumpha zinthu zingapo zofunika. Choyamba, kupezeka nthawi zonse ndikupha kwenikweni. Anthu amakonda kukonda zomwe ndizosowa, zomwe sizingatheke. Pakupezeka nawonso, mumachotsa aura yachinsinsi yomwe imakupatsirani chithumwa. Ndipo si zokhazo.
Bwanji ngati munthu amene akutsogolayo alibe zolinga zabwino monga momwe mungaganizire? Kugwera pazolakwika kapena azimayi openga sizimangokhala kwa ena okha. Ngati moyo wanu uzungulira theka lanu lina, mudzakhala okonzeka kulekerera zosavomerezeka.
Nthawi ndi nthawi, khalani ndi nthawi yopuma. Kuyenda m'mawa m'mawa mzinda usanadzuke. Kukonda komwe kumakupatsani mwayi wokhoza kubwezeretsanso mabatire anu. Mphindi yopumulira yomwe muli nayo yokha. Kuphunzira kukhazikitsa malire, kudzipanga kukhala wofunikira ndikofunikira kuti mukhale osangalala komanso kuti mukwaniritse theka lanu linalo.
Khalani ndi kulimba mtima kuti mufotokozere
Simungalingalire kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe amavala chigoba paubwenzi wawo wonse. Otanganidwa kuyesa kukhala angwiro, amatengeka kwambiri kuti akwaniritse zolinga zosatheka kuposa kumanga banja losangalala.
Kuphatikiza apo, palinso njira ina yomwe imakhala yowopsa pakuwononga maanja: malingaliro. Mukuganiza kuti amagawana zomwezo. Mukuganiza kuti akufuna gawo limodzi la ntchito zapabanja. Mukuganiza kuti akufuna kuyamba banja pasanathe zaka zisanu.
Kwa okwatirana, palibe choyipa kuposa zongomva ndi mawu theka. Ngati muli nazo zambiri pamtima panu, fotokozerani zomwe mukumva. Munkhani ya anthology, othandizira adapereka malangizo othandiza kulankhulana bwino ngati banja. Kupyolera mulemba ili, amaika chala chawo pazinthu zingapo zofunika kuti adziwe zenizeni mathero osangalatsa.
Samalani komabe. Ngakhale mutakhala wokonda kulankhula, sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala pansi. Zowonadi, kuti muzitha kulankhulana bwino, muyenera kumvera mnzanuyo. Kumbukirani kuti muli awiri a inu mu equation iyi. Monga momwe mumayamikirira kuti amakumverani mukamalankhula, mupatseni mwayi woti anene zomwe zikumugwetsa chikumbumtima.
Simusowa kuti mukhale katswiri wamaganizidwe. Ndiosavuta monga kusayang'ana pazenera la smartphone yanu akamayankhula nanu kapena kupukusa mutu akamalankhula nanu. Kumvetsera mwachidwi, mwachidwi ndi njira yolimbikitsira ubale womwe ukubwera.
Kuthetsa vuto lazachuma
Zachidziwikire, simudzachita izi koyambirira. Palibe amene adzawulule kukula kwa cholowa chawo kwa mlendo kwathunthu. Momwemonso, ngati mungayambitse mutuwu molawirira kwambiri, pali mwayi woti musindikizidwe gigolo.
Mukadali mgululi, funsani mafunso omwe ndi opepuka komanso owopsa. Mutha kukoka imodzi mwa mafayilo a Mafunso 210 abwino oti mufunse anzanu kuswa ayezi momasuka. Mudandimva liti china kwa ine? Kodi peeve wanu wamkulu ndani? Ngati mungakhale ndi mphamvu zamphamvu, zingakhale ziti? Khalani ndi nthawi yodziwana wina ndi mnzake mosalakwa konse.
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Komabe, zinthu zikayamba kukhala zovuta, kaya mukukamba za ana kapena maukwati, ndikofunikira kuthana ndi vuto lazachuma. Khalani pansi ndikulankhula za zomwe mumalandira. Kodi ndalamazi zimagawidwa bwanji? Kodi malingaliro anu ndi otani pantchito zazikulu (kugula nyumba, tchuthi, ulendo wapadziko lonse lapansi, ndi zina zambiri)? Lankhulani za izi musanapangitse tsogolo lanu mwanjira yotsimikizika.
